right, i need some inspiration for some sensory play.
gonna blinfold my man and want to treat him to some delights while he is minus the sense of sight.....
so far ive got a fab pinwheel (good old ebay), a feather tickling stick, and some ice
need some other ideas for tastes, touch, sound and smell.
also anyone whose done this before....some pointers and handy hints if ya have any
am off out now but will be back to (hopefully) feast upon the fruits of your knowledge!!
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Sensory Play Ideas
Sex God
Quote by Resonance
I want to come around to your house to play! I'll bring Twister and some cheesy nibbles!
Pick me up on your way!
I love your location
:grin:If you work on the basis that extremes cause the most sensation then you won't go far wrong - but use common sense.
For example:
Hot-cold
Rough-smooth
Fast-slow
Hard-soft
Sweet-sour
Now combine that with suitable 'implements'.
For example:
Hot = candle wax(not for beginners); Cold = ice cubes
Rough = hairbrush (a soft one); Smooth = furry gloves
(Cubes likes this):-)
Fast = well fast really; Slow = er... not as fast
Hard = deep massage?; Soft = tickling/stroking
Sweet = chocolate; Sour = fizzy cola bottles
OK, so not all of it might be your bag but you get the idea. Also, remember that the biggest sexual/sensory organ is the brain so a little dirty talk can really heighten the sensation created by what you are actually using.
However, avoid statements like "I am about to drip hot candle wax onto your knob end you bad boy" as anticipation can be quickly be replaced by worry and could spoil the moment :P
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For example:
Hot-cold
Rough-smooth
Fast-slow
Hard-soft
Sweet-sour
Now combine that with suitable 'implements'.
For example:
Hot = candle wax(not for beginners); Cold = ice cubes
Rough = hairbrush (a soft one); Smooth = furry gloves
(Cubes likes this):-)
Fast = well fast really; Slow = er... not as fast
Hard = deep massage?; Soft = tickling/stroking
Sweet = chocolate; Sour = fizzy cola bottles
OK, so not all of it might be your bag but you get the idea. Also, remember that the biggest sexual/sensory organ is the brain so a little dirty talk can really heighten the sensation created by what you are actually using.
However, avoid statements like "I am about to drip hot candle wax onto your knob end you bad boy" as anticipation can be quickly be replaced by worry and could spoil the moment :P
x
Sex God
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You've done that before huh?!
You've done that before huh?!
Sex God
Blindfold him, yes good. Possibly some relaxed restraint system even better. Some body paint and a willy cozy. Get some music going soft in the background, talk softly and soothingly whilst massaging him erotically getting him up and proud. Keep talking soothingly whilst making your way to the door then open and close it firmly whilst playing a recording of a deep blokes voice saying "WHAT THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOUR DOING!"
After that let the situation dictate what goes after
Sensibly though what about getting a bath sponge warmed and supple and rub him all over with it so the skin glows a little then apply the ice
After that let the situation dictate what goes after
Sensibly though what about getting a bath sponge warmed and supple and rub him all over with it so the skin glows a little then apply the ice
Quote by Freckledbird
I want to come around to your house to play! I'll bring Twister and some cheesy nibbles!
Pick me up on your way!
I love your location
Deal Mrs FB! It would be a pleasure to have those wonderful, gorgeous pins next to me in the car, though I fear I may be somewhat distracted! For additional safety I would suggest that a pair of wellies may be safer footwear for the journey... They will also match well with my flashers mac... ;-)
I am watching this thread with interest now! I love some of the ideas already mentioned and am avidly taking notes!
Great thread Mrs B!
a nice massage all over helps to relax the body and heighten the sensory nerves.
full body massage is good and use your hands, deep muscle rub, then gentle nails over the skin, your hair is a great tool (if its long enough) running your tounge over certain areas of skin/ nipples/ and then gentle blowing to chill, then the warmth of your mouth again.
touching every singlepart of the body including the feet and toes. never touching the cock. til right at the end, but going very close.
soft make upbrushes can feel nice, feathers as you mentioned, a cold chain can be nice,
i do love wax, but thats not for beginners.
hes a lucky man
xxx fem xx
full body massage is good and use your hands, deep muscle rub, then gentle nails over the skin, your hair is a great tool (if its long enough) running your tounge over certain areas of skin/ nipples/ and then gentle blowing to chill, then the warmth of your mouth again.
touching every singlepart of the body including the feet and toes. never touching the cock. til right at the end, but going very close.
soft make upbrushes can feel nice, feathers as you mentioned, a cold chain can be nice,
i do love wax, but thats not for beginners.
hes a lucky man
xxx fem xx
Quote by fem_4_taboo
a nice massage all over helps to relax the body and heighten the sensory nerves.
full body massage is good and use your hands, deep muscle rub, then gentle nails over the skin, your hair is a great tool (if its long enough) running your tounge over certain areas of skin/ nipples/ and then gentle blowing to chill, then the warmth of your mouth again.
touching every singlepart of the body including the feet and toes. never touching the cock. til right at the end, but going very close.
soft make upbrushes can feel nice, feathers as you mentioned, a cold chain can be nice,
xxx fem xx
I love doing this. It's all about teasing, soft touches, flicks of the tongue over the sensitive areas but avoiding the genitals.
Keep an ice lolly in a cup by the bed to cool your tongue before licking those special bits
Ooooooh, so nice :twisted:
Sex God
Those Listerine strips work well apparently,
Make an ice dildo
Make an ice dildo
Quote by Bonedigger
right, i need some inspiration for some sensory play.
gonna blinfold my man and want to treat him to some delights while he is minus the sense of sight.....
so far ive got a fab pinwheel...
Thank God for that - just Googled "pinwheel" - I thought it was one of those fireworks you nail to the shed wall :shock:
Sex God
fraid i can't think of any ideas to add all mine have been taken except i use extra strong mints instead of listerine strips will have to give them a go see if they are any better than the mints quite possably less sticky
a tip though if you do try the candle wax either make sure hubby is either shaved or very well trimmed or avoid hairy areas
we learnt this one the hard way much to my ammusement :twisted:
a tip though if you do try the candle wax either make sure hubby is either shaved or very well trimmed or avoid hairy areas
we learnt this one the hard way much to my ammusement :twisted:
