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SERIOUS please everyone. Advise required for first meet

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Hi. I am nearly (finally) at the point of my first threesome. I need some general tips and advise for my first time (their third) and if I can't get it here I don't know where I'll get it.
I have been mostly dealing with the girl and she and her man both want a nice slow touchy feely beginning to the evening, which is great for me because I wont feel pressured to perform and we should all be relaxed. We've talked about our likes and dislikes, but do I ask specific yes and nos before we meet?
Please guys I need good tips. I have been thinking about this for years! I just want it to be the horniest time ever for me.
Nothing you can say will be wasted on me.
First time stories maybe.
Thanking you kindly in advance.
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It's always best to clarify things BEFORE to rock up for the jollies. Imagine unzipping and she turns around and says "We won't be using condoms, of course..."
Here's a tip to save embarrasment (again, knicked blatantly from the Fetish community)..
Create a checklist of things you are totally against and would not do, things you might be willing to try but haven't yet done, and things you have tried and liked. Send it to her and ask her to go through the list and do her OWN version and send it back for comparison. That way you can walk straight into your scene and know everybodies boundaries...
Have fun
Hxx wink
One of the best single guys we had, came to ours after meeting with us in a pub, like a regular date. We were chatting at home, looking at some of our (straight) photographs. He began to stroke my leg. Within the hour, the 3 of us were in bed.
I am sure you have had 1-2-1 dates before. This is no different, really. Take things slow and gentle... they'll be gaggin for ya in no time.
Best of luck, have fun and think of me on the last push.
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Try not to fantasise about the evening as it can have a tendancy not to live up to expectations. Just go with the flow and the night will be better.
Have fun, everyone has to have a first time biggrin
Thanks to the guys and gals that have responded so far. 85 Viewings and three replies?!
Charming.
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85 Viewings and three replies?! Charming.

That just means most of us have never had an intimate meet so we're all curious to absorb the advice you'll be given.
My advice: don't eat too much all-bran beforehand. ;) In seriousness: wash, shower, dress nice, take your own condoms and don't get legless. And don't say anything stupid like "Hey dude your wife is hot, I can't wait to fuck her!" lol But then, what do I know?
w're still a bit shy.
We've PM'd you.
Maureen and Tom (both of us)
Quote by mojobiker
I have been mostly dealing with the girl and she and her man both want a nice slow touchy feely beginning to the evening, which is great for me because I wont feel pressured to perform and we should all be relaxed.

My only advice is to alow them to continue to lead when you get together, dont rush in. After all they dont want a bull in the china shop! rolleyes
And...GOOD LUCK! :wave2: :thumbup:
Plenty of good advice already. Ours (from the viewpoint of a couple) is that both sides need to know exactly what is ok and what isn't. The couple involved should let you know what is not acceptable for them before the meeting, and you should do the same. As already suggested, a list of 'I'd like to do x' 'I'm ok with y, depending on the situation' 'I'd rather not or won't do z'.
It should go without saying, but be presentable, neat, very recently showered/washed, bring your own condoms and don't wear too much aftershave! We've met guys who wear so much they must have splashed on a whole bottle beforehand.
Go with the flow of the evening, don't have any particular expectations, and be considerate to both of them.
Oh yeah, and have a great time!
J&P
First of all don,t eat garlic confused No seriously let the couple take the lead , me and baz like to kiss first and then baz invites the other guy to kiss me too!! then you just go with flow , learn what the couple would like and not like to do before you meet and then you all know where you stand smile GOOD LUCK !!!
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pretty much everything that could be said has already been said. always best to sort out any boundaries beforehand. they're hardly gonna be shy about it, so bring any questions up before you meet, or during the social stage. it avoids a faux pas later. and yep let them take the lead. it's harder for them as a couple than it is for you. be aware of that.
and don't forget to be as polite and respectful to the guy as you are to the girl. include him too, and thank them both afterwards.
neil x x x ;)
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Please guys I need good tips. I have been thinking about this for years! I just want it to be the horniest time ever for me.
Nothing you can say will be wasted on me.

Wear a Sombraro - they work.
Trust me.... wink
Dxxx
Please guys I need good tips. I have been thinking about this for years! I just want it to be the horniest time ever for me.
Nothing you can say will be wasted on me.

I'll bare that in mind Surreycouple, but I meant IN CONTEXT!
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Please guys I need good tips. I have been thinking about this for years! I just want it to be the horniest time ever for me.
Nothing you can say will be wasted on me.

Wear a Sombraro - they work.
Trust me.... wink
Dxxx
OK Now I am CONVINCED you own shares in a Sombrero importing company!
Alex x