One of the best single guys we had, came to ours after meeting with us in a pub, like a regular date. We were chatting at home, looking at some of our (straight) photographs. He began to stroke my leg. Within the hour, the 3 of us were in bed.
I am sure you have had 1-2-1 dates before. This is no different, really. Take things slow and gentle... they'll be gaggin for ya in no time.
Best of luck, have fun and think of me on the last push.
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w're still a bit shy.
We've PM'd you.
Maureen and Tom (both of us)
Plenty of good advice already. Ours (from the viewpoint of a couple) is that both sides need to know exactly what is ok and what isn't. The couple involved should let you know what is not acceptable for them before the meeting, and you should do the same. As already suggested, a list of 'I'd like to do x' 'I'm ok with y, depending on the situation' 'I'd rather not or won't do z'.
It should go without saying, but be presentable, neat, very recently showered/washed, bring your own condoms and don't wear too much aftershave! We've met guys who wear so much they must have splashed on a whole bottle beforehand.
Go with the flow of the evening, don't have any particular expectations, and be considerate to both of them.
Oh yeah, and have a great time!
J&P
pretty much everything that could be said has already been said. always best to sort out any boundaries beforehand. they're hardly gonna be shy about it, so bring any questions up before you meet, or during the social stage. it avoids a faux pas later. and yep let them take the lead. it's harder for them as a couple than it is for you. be aware of that.
and don't forget to be as polite and respectful to the guy as you are to the girl. include him too, and thank them both afterwards.
neil x x x ;)