Sex Appeal - North West Women

1 Dec 2005

Don't you just love double meanings!
I don't know what excactly it is about our sexy women in the North West but I find myself attracted to them ..... maybe it is something to do with the fact that whilst there are sexy women over the rest of the UK / World they are too distant.... but then there is the added complications that some are in couples and are not interested in other guys, some are only armchair swingers who don't want to meet, and some are too young and are not interested in a 45 years young guy. Sure we are all turned on by others at times but I wonder if true sex appeal is about the chemistry when people get to know each other. Very difficult to do. And very difficult for a guy in my situation on this site to find a woman who may have compatible needs. I was watching the David Attenborough programme about insect mating rituals and that felt like this site. We have so little time to say something about ourselves but have to do so in ways to attract potential partners for sex. With about 1000 women to each man the odds of acheiving this are daunting! I am creative, thoughful, enjoy a good laugh but is there anything else that is worth noting apart from the usual ? So I am asking women out there - how do I improve my sex appeal in this virtual world in order too attract more interest? Replies by post or PM ,
Thanks for reading this, Ben

1 Dec 2005

I think you mean 1000 men to each woman dontcha?
I know you are asking the women so I won't say much except that there's no formula and desperation doesn't work. Oh and, if you are going to cheat, it's better not to tell the whole world about it - Mr Cheetah. wink

1 Dec 2005

Quote by westerross
Oh and, if you are going to cheat, it's better not to tell the whole world about it - Mr Cheetah.

I disagree, I think it's much better to give the facts here than to pretend to be single. That way us females are in posession of the facts and can make an informed decision as to whether to meet him or not
I do agree you must have meant 1000 men to each woman though, it's definitely not the other way round ;)

1 Dec 2005

Quote by westerross
I think you mean 1000 men to each woman dontcha?
I know you are asking the women so I won't say much except that there's no formula and desperation doesn't work. Oh and, if you are going to cheat, it's better not to tell the whole world about it - Mr Cheetah.

Thanks Tune - I went for the open approach about cheating but recognise that too open may be a bad thing too...there is an implicit recognition that some people are cheating but a lot don't want to be open about it. So may be a new nick name may help? Ben

1 Dec 2005

Well having a pulse is usually sufficient, but pulse plus desperate doesn't sound good. Give it some thought, eh.

1 Dec 2005

A new nickname so that people aren't aware that you're cheating? No. It's a bad idea. As I said in my previous post, being aware beforehand that you are cheating means that I choose not to play with you. Being tricked into it by not being given the facts is potentially harmful and hurtful and I for one strongly advise you against it rolleyes

1 Dec 2005

Oh but you've already changed your username once haven't you Cheetah, cos the old one was asociated with you being a whinger. Don't think a new name will help, will it? rolleyes

1 Dec 2005

Quote by Angel Chat
Oh and, if you are going to cheat, it's better not to tell the whole world about it - Mr Cheetah.

I disagree, I think it's much better to give the facts here than to pretend to be single. That way us females are in posession of the facts and can make an informed decision as to whether to meet him or not
I do agree you must have meant 1000 men to each woman though, it's definitely not the other way round ;)
i also disagree, my one and only rule in swinging is that i do not meet anyone, man or woman, who is playing away, saying this i did once meet a guy who claimed to be single, i met him a few times only to later find out he was infact married, i was very angry to say the least and felt that my rules as a swinger had been totally pushed aside, to me it was no diffarent to someone meeting for soft swing and the guy trying to 'get it up' while the lady was busy doing something else, you may get turned down for playing away but respecting other people wishes and rules as a swinger is very important if you want to get anywhere in this game cause word does get round :wink:

2 Dec 2005

Quote by bluexxx
Oh but you've already changed your username once haven't you Cheetah, cos the old one was asociated with you being a whinger. Don't think a new name will help, will it?

Blue, You have got it so wrong - I changed from Blake45 because I was fed up with the whinging from a few the people on this site. I had always made it clear that I was cheating but decided to make a clearer statement by using a new username - Cheetah - this was in a hope to suppress the tendency of the small minority who go on about people playing away. However I cannot complain about the number of genuine people I have got to know on this site. But you have to accept that there are a number of us that are cheating but most wont admit it as I have done. And I respect that - because most people have good reasons and I have been always been very discreete about my contacts. However there are some people who cannot relate to me using the username Cheetah as thay feel it is too much in your face - someone else's words. I am doing ok and confident but listen to others who have suggested that I may be putting some women off with that username adn i could do with someone more neutral. I am considering going back to Blake 45 and making my situation clear just in how I describe myself in the advert / interests etc. I have never met anyone without making my situation clear-- that's not me - and never would. Ben