Sex is rediculous

12 Aug 2008

Sometimes in quiet moments I think to myself sex is rediculous. I'm not talking about the procreative part of it, i'm talking more the pleasure part. Life could be so much easier if it was just for re-production. I think that sex can hold people back at times, keeping the mind and body from doing things maybe more constructive. All the energies we can expend in just satisfying sexual need seems at times facile. I guess you could argue that sex helps ease tensions and stress and stuff but heck it causes it too.
The thing is, I think these thoughts, see something horny and then see things differently and it all seems worthwhile again. Does my head in confused

12 Aug 2008

I think that sex causes some people the most enormous mental barriers, issues about themselves, lack of confidence and guilt. For those of us who are lucky to be free of such burdens, it is the most wonderful mental and physical relief. So ridiculous.....certainly NOT!!

12 Aug 2008

Quote by Lost
Sometimes in quiet moments I think to myself sex is rediculous. I'm not talking about the procreative part of it, i'm talking more the pleasure part. Life could be so much easier if it was just for re-production. I think that sex can hold people back at times, keeping the mind and body from doing things maybe more constructive. All the energies we can expend in just satisfying sexual need seems at times facile. I guess you could argue that sex helps ease tensions and stress and stuff but heck it causes it too.
The thing is, I think these thoughts, see something horny and then see things differently and it all seems worthwhile again. Does my head in

Lost I used to think sex was for reproduction... but I have now woken up and found sex can be for fun.
O what fun I am having to!
What I have found now though I can understand how men feel when you cant get it out of your head.
I go through times when feeling horny that it comes into my head when I am not even thinking about it. lol

It was so much easier for me when it was all about reproduction I could think of other things.
But I am trying to take control I need a drying out clinic! :lol: redface

12 Aug 2008

good sex is what kept me & my ex together for far too long ..it stopped me from moving on in my life when deep down I knew the rest of the relationship was going no-where. It took me a long time to realise that sex isn't everything & a relationship is sooo much more.....

12 Aug 2008

Quote by Lost
Sometimes in quiet moments I think to myself sex is rediculous. I'm not talking about the procreative part of it, i'm talking more the pleasure part. Life could be so much easier if it was just for re-production. I think that sex can hold people back at times, keeping the mind and body from doing things maybe more constructive. All the energies we can expend in just satisfying sexual need seems at times facile. I guess you could argue that sex helps ease tensions and stress and stuff but heck it causes it too.
The thing is, I think these thoughts, see something horny and then see things differently and it all seems worthwhile again. Does my head in

I was thinking of posting something smilar sometime ago but was afraid of being seen as mad - yea OK I am but you don't have to rub it in.
Actually what I was going to say is that I wish humans would have a switch somewhere where we could switch libido off, just for a few hours. I don't think sex is bad or ridiculous; sex is bloody brilliant. I think the problem is libido or the excess of it.
There's not a moment - well perhaps a few - when I'm not thinking about sex. Damn I hate it sometimes it just gets in the way. I go to the theatre and invariably I'll bump into some gorgeous woman then I'll be off fantasizing about having it off on the aisles, I go to the library or a shop or at work there's always going to be some sexy woman around and I'll get distracted damn! Am I a perve?
It would be fantastic if we could just switch off libido during working hours or at any time to enjoy other things without the distraction of getting horny. I'd be able to enjoy concerts, plays, music, books, I'd even attempt to do some work for a change! biggrin

So, yeah, does anyone think libido gets in the way of having a normal life (then again what is normal?)
rolleyes

12 Aug 2008

I too see and feel this beautiful part of being human everywhere I go.
It's often a bittersweet thing, unrealised in reality but I wouldn't want an on off switch, I want other people to have an on switch for me lol!

13 Aug 2008

I think you think too much Lost and you should just get your cockadoodle out and enjoy the pleasure it brings!
lol

13 Aug 2008

To quote Shirly Manson - "Sex is not the enemy"
Strangley enough, I was reading a series of books by Harry Turtledove, he does a lot of fictional "What if" type books, things like what would have happened if the South had won the American civil war or one, what would have happened if Aliens had landed during WWII, it's that series that I found amusng withthe Aliens attitude towards sex.
odd to explain but amusing.

13 Aug 2008

Quote by jaymar
I think you think too much Lost and you should just get your cockadoodle out and enjoy the pleasure it brings!

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

13 Aug 2008

Quote by jaymar
I think you think too much Lost and you should just get your cockadoodle out and enjoy the pleasure it brings!

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Mar you really crack me up sometimes :rotflmao:
My 'on' switch hasnt been flicked in years