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If I was in a remote place I would be happy to hump a knotty branch, but when I get to chose well!!!!
Quote by DungeonMaster
If I was in a remote place I would be happy to hump a knotty branch, but when I get to chose well!!!!

I don't think it has to be a remote place, let me take you back 20 years to when I was working part time (evenings) as a second job to save for a deposit to buy my house.
I worked behind a bar with a young lady who, to start with, never caught my eye at all, but as we worked together and her personality came through and her wonderful sense of hummer I slowly warmed to her. After weeks of flirting and sexual tension we ended up in bed with some bloody awesome sex lol
Bluefish when I read the first couple of lines of your post I throught you were going bring some thing up from my dark and distant passed :twisted: untill I carryed on readinglol barmaids in those far off days were often the victim's of the silver tongue and the trusty sword.
And Kaz all of us men like to think we are chosen for our great personality.......we already know we have the good look's wink
i have a friend who shall remain nameless that shagged a guy she most certainly didn't find attractive she was in the jacuzzi at a club with her fella when her fella started playing with the woman sat to the other side of him when they started the guy sat alongside this other woman made a beeline for my friend she took one look at him n thought eek :scared: but yet for some odd reason carried on and played with him when they were all finished her fella turned and said to her "well i wouldn't of thought he was your type" to which she replied "he wasn't but as he was with the woman you was playing with i thought i better take one for the team" her fella then informed my poor shocked friend that the woman he had been having fun with was there as a single :giggle:
i was surprised my friend was still talking to me after i spent a good half hour laughing when she told me rotflmao
Quote by brucie
There is so much more to sexual attraction than some ones looks

stop trying to be so deep man
Thanks for your support
At school there was this girl who we use to make out at lunch at my parents , and looks wise she was average but her sexualness she oozed was electric, Unfortunately I have had sex with someone I REALLY did not fancy, infact didn't even like as a person. I was at a party and had slept with this girl, I fell asleep in the bed and woke mid sex being rode to death or what I can only call the female version of shrek. I dint really know what was going on and before I knew it I had come. I was speechless and traumatized for days!! I dislike her even more now.
Oh fuck! I've just had one of those shockingly awful moments of realisation.
I have had sex with someone I don't fancy, in fact, I am do it almost every night:scared:
What a complete wanker I am .
Well I don't fancy myself much either, so I guess I do regularly too.
The word "fancy", which is such a crap word, has to cover so much ground - from "consider attractive in a kind of vague way" to "want to marry", via "electric shocks when they touch me".
I've fucked people I wasn't physically attracted to, I've fucked people I don't like as human beings, I've fucked people I don't have any intention of seeing again. In a lot of these situations I had fantastic sex. Sometimes actually it adds a kink for me - it underlines that I'm doing it just for the sex, it makes it dirtier. If I'm honest though it sometimes makes me feel a bit washed-up afterwards. And (especially if I really do like the person involved) that in itself makes me feel guilty. The result of years of study is that, I found that for me it really is better if I find the person physically and psychologically attractive and nice as a person. Something I could have learned from watching more American TV in the first place.
Although - I've also fucked people in situations where in an abstract way I can see that she's really hot, and I really like her, and I really want her in my life - but there's absolutely no zip and sizzle (if you see what I mean). That's quite a hard one to deal with. Because I do like a bit of zip and sizzle. And that's what takes me back to the dirt.
I think I think about things too much.