One of the strange/interesting things about this forum is that there are all sorts of people with different levels of experience. And one of the frustrating things is that some people seem quite genuine, and some people are clearly just fantasists who like the idea of swinging, but run away when it becomes a reality, and not just something to wank about.
Anyway, I thought it would be interesting to hear people's sexual history and why/when they started exploring their sexuality.
I guess I'll start. I was always quite shy and was a bit of a late starter with girls, but university got that sorted and I ended up sleeping with a few girls, snogging a lot more and generally having a good time.
I had a number of steady relationships and explored a bit sexually, but it was all pretty "vanilla". Then about 3 years ago I split up with a girl and decided that I would have some fun while i was single.
I went onto a few gay chatrooms and ended up getting in on with some nice, sexy guys. But my real curiosity was always transexuals and transvestites, so I immersed myself in that for a year or so and had a very strange, but enjoyable time. The highlight was a threesome with two Filipina "girls".
After all that, I decided that for all the fun involved with guys and tv/ts I really preferred women, and since then I've had a few relationships and a few flings. I ended up going to a swingers night a month or so ago and having sex with a couple as quite a few people watched.
So, I guess I've had sex with men, women and TV/TS and tried most things, but in my own way I still feel quite naive. I think there's lots to learn about people... and the real hardcore isn't sex, it's committment!
Right... now it's over to you.
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Sexual history
Hmmm... I fell a little nervous being number 2 on this thread...
...won't bore you with all the details... but I too lay claim to the late starter prize... waiting till I was 21... no particular reason for the delay,.... twas to a thoroughly abnoxious Australian girl, who just wanted to take someone's cherry and add it to her trophy cabinet.
Experimented with a few other nationalities before eventualy finaly and rather unexpectedly shagging an English girl... most people fantisise about someone foreign... I was begining to wonder if I would ever have someone English!
Dabbled with a few threesomes, had my first (and so far only) experience with a man that way.
I prefer to think of myself as having dipped my toe in various waters... liked everything I tried so far... but certainly far from the end of my journey, and with plenty still to try.
Like Greg said, enjoy being single... and when your not... enjoy being in a loving relationship.
...won't bore you with all the details... but I too lay claim to the late starter prize... waiting till I was 21... no particular reason for the delay,.... twas to a thoroughly abnoxious Australian girl, who just wanted to take someone's cherry and add it to her trophy cabinet.
Experimented with a few other nationalities before eventualy finaly and rather unexpectedly shagging an English girl... most people fantisise about someone foreign... I was begining to wonder if I would ever have someone English!
Dabbled with a few threesomes, had my first (and so far only) experience with a man that way.
I prefer to think of myself as having dipped my toe in various waters... liked everything I tried so far... but certainly far from the end of my journey, and with plenty still to try.
Like Greg said, enjoy being single... and when your not... enjoy being in a loving relationship.
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Phew! I have spoken to the mods and sorted that all out. For some reason they seemed to think I was a journalist. I am NOT a journalist (I wish I was, then I wouldn't be quite so skint).
I was asking this type of question because I am genuinely interested in people's sexual histories. I wasn't expecting many people to answer, but I was hoping for open, honest answers because I've been pretty open and honest myself. I wasn't expecting it to lead to accusations that I was a hack!
Just to recap: I am neither Lois Lane nor Peter Parker. I have NO secret identity and do NOT work for the Sun!
I was asking this type of question because I am genuinely interested in people's sexual histories. I wasn't expecting many people to answer, but I was hoping for open, honest answers because I've been pretty open and honest myself. I wasn't expecting it to lead to accusations that I was a hack!
Just to recap: I am neither Lois Lane nor Peter Parker. I have NO secret identity and do NOT work for the Sun!
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Phew! I have spoken to the mods and sorted that all out. For some reason they seemed to think I was a journalist. I am NOT a journalist (I wish I was, then I wouldn't be quite so skint).
Just to recap: I am neither Lois Lane nor Peter Parker. I have NO secret identity and do NOT work for the Sun!
Well if I ever see my post in the sun or on TV followed by some long winded bollox about swingers I shall have a little chuckle and go back to my knitting, safe in the knowledge that investigative journalism is dead... reduced to a quick copy and paste for column inches.
If your gonna say something stupid... at least make it a soundbyte !!!
I'd prefer people to judge me on who I am now and got to know me before they judged whether or not I'm up for Swinging on my past .... what age I lost my virginity and how I developed over those years has nothing to do with now.
The journey here is not important ..... it's how I make best use of the opportunity now.
The journey here is not important ..... it's how I make best use of the opportunity now.
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The journey here is not important ..... it's how I make best use of the opportunity now.
Who said "Life's a journey not a destination" ??
Doesn't contradict what you say Calista, but we are the sum of our past experiences...Just as long as people take us for what we are and not what we were.
History is just that: history... it's not who you are now, although it our pasts obviously contribute to our present.
The reason I asked the question is because most people here like to give the impression that they are sexually confident and sexually omnivorous... and so it's nice to be able to show people that we all started out as nevous fools (well, I certainly did) and that even late starters or people with sexual issues can end up having a great time.
The reason I asked the question is because most people here like to give the impression that they are sexually confident and sexually omnivorous... and so it's nice to be able to show people that we all started out as nevous fools (well, I certainly did) and that even late starters or people with sexual issues can end up having a great time.
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Oh crikey, Blue beat me to it!
Ah well, it`s official, anyone hitting 33 clinically becomes a virgin again :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Well that means that Ill be a Virgin again next year.... sweet and innocent - hopefully not for long.....
