One advantage to swinging and being around swingers is... you can come straight out and ask about sexuality (if you have not been told already). I have to say I have a soft-spot (literally) for bi-guys and guys who are open to male-male contact and sometimes wonder about a few of my vanilla friends.
So what are the clues to look for?
Is there any way to get a reasonable hint without actually asking?
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I don't know about bi guys but sometimes I can spot a bi girl by what she says and how she acts around other women. I've got a few 'vanilla' girlfriends, some are openly the huggy type but I knew instantly that they wouldn't consider this lifestyle whereas a new girl who started work with me recently, I'm sure she's had more of a past than she's admitting to just by our conversations one evening.
I guess it's a bit like what one of my gay male friends calls 'Gaydar' :giggle: He says he can spot a gay man at 50 paces and he's remarkably spot on everytime :shock:
I guess it's a bit like what one of my gay male friends calls 'Gaydar' :giggle: He says he can spot a gay man at 50 paces and he's remarkably spot on everytime :shock:
Sex God
There's a gay couple across the road from us and at a recent barbecue, someone said 'let's guess who's straight and who's gay'. I guessed them all correctly and they guessed that Chris is straight and I'm bi. :shock:
Oooo - I like this one 
Well all of the blokes we have met off here have had 'straight' in their profile and we couldn't have told that either of them were bi until they had their cocks out (sorry but there's no other way of saying that)
Gay men are a whole different kettle of fish... giveaways include:
1) Nice soft furnishings - e.g. foutons & scatter cushions (especially the fluffly ones that look like dead cats/sheep) :shock:
2) An aftershave for every day of the month :lol:
3) The entire Clinique range in their bathrooms (although the lines are becoming blurred here) :?
4) They can cook - especially at short notice and can usually rustle up a 4 course meal from 2 Shredded Wheat and an old lettuce :rascal:
5) Hair-doos - short cropped, bleached or way too much gel/wax
6) The odd copy of 'Hello' or 'OK!' in the living room
7) Barbara Streisand records - just one and they could be dodgy, there's no excuse
8) Kitchen gadgets that really areuseful
9) Movie choices - Beaches, Fried Green Tomotoes.... STEPS in concert, Kylie's Showgirl Tour
I could go on.... if you are in any doubt ladies, call in the "how gay is your boyfriend/husband" team - Bloke and Mr Bloke. One night with us and we'll have them sussed and sent back with a full "gay rating" for you :rascal:
Well all of the blokes we have met off here have had 'straight' in their profile and we couldn't have told that either of them were bi until they had their cocks out (sorry but there's no other way of saying that)
Gay men are a whole different kettle of fish... giveaways include:
1) Nice soft furnishings - e.g. foutons & scatter cushions (especially the fluffly ones that look like dead cats/sheep) :shock:
2) An aftershave for every day of the month :lol:
3) The entire Clinique range in their bathrooms (although the lines are becoming blurred here) :?
4) They can cook - especially at short notice and can usually rustle up a 4 course meal from 2 Shredded Wheat and an old lettuce :rascal:
5) Hair-doos - short cropped, bleached or way too much gel/wax
6) The odd copy of 'Hello' or 'OK!' in the living room
7) Barbara Streisand records - just one and they could be dodgy, there's no excuse
8) Kitchen gadgets that really areuseful
9) Movie choices - Beaches, Fried Green Tomotoes.... STEPS in concert, Kylie's Showgirl Tour
I could go on.... if you are in any doubt ladies, call in the "how gay is your boyfriend/husband" team - Bloke and Mr Bloke. One night with us and we'll have them sussed and sent back with a full "gay rating" for you :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by dambuster
Oh fuck ! !
I'll be offfline for a while.
Just gonna nip out for some macho-bullshit lessons
To go with your 'man magnet' t-shirt?
Sex God
Quote by Bloke2005
Oooo - I like this one
Well all of the blokes we have met off here have had 'straight' in their profile and we couldn't have told that either of them were bi until they had their cocks out (sorry but there's no other way of saying that)
Gay men are a whole different kettle of fish... giveaways include:
1) Nice soft furnishings - e.g. foutons & scatter cushions (especially the fluffly ones that look like dead cats/sheep) :shock:
2) An aftershave for every day of the month :lol:
3) The entire Clinique range in their bathrooms (although the lines are becoming blurred here) :?
4) They can cook - especially at short notice and can usually rustle up a 4 course meal from 2 Shredded Wheat and an old lettuce :rascal:
5) Hair-doos - short cropped, bleached or way too much gel/wax
6) The odd copy of 'Hello' or 'OK!' in the living room
7) Barbara Streisand records - just one and they could be dodgy, there's no excuse
8) Kitchen gadgets that really are useful
9) Movie choices - Beaches, Fried Green Tomotoes.... STEPS in concert, Kylie's Showgirl Tour
I could go on.... if you are in any doubt ladies, call in the "how gay is your boyfriend/husband" team - Bloke and Mr Bloke. One night with us and we'll have them sussed and sent back with a full "gay rating" for you :rascal:
7) I had no idea. The only question know is should I come out? Think I will stay put.
Quote by freckledbird
Oh fuck ! !
I'll be offfline for a while.
Just gonna nip out for some macho-bullshit lessons
To go with your 'man magnet' t-shirt?
PMSL
ops:dambuster - certified by Bloke2005 as the gayest thing he's seen in a while.
dambuster - certified by Marcuso as the best kiss from a straight guy.
dambuster - certified by HLB as being just sooooo fucking camp sometimes.
dambuster - certified by Casey_Jones (B_G_N) as a gay icon.
I'm gonna stop now, cos they are without thought, straight off the top of my head :oops:
Quote by Bloke2005
Oooo - I like this one
Well all of the blokes we have met off here have had 'straight' in their profile and we couldn't have told that either of them were bi until they had their cocks out (sorry but there's no other way of saying that)
Gay men are a whole different kettle of fish... giveaways include:
1) Nice soft furnishings - e.g. foutons & scatter cushions (especially the fluffly ones that look like dead cats/sheep) :shock:
2) An aftershave for every day of the month :lol:
3) The entire Clinique range in their bathrooms (although the lines are becoming blurred here) :?
4) They can cook - especially at short notice and can usually rustle up a 4 course meal from 2 Shredded Wheat and an old lettuce :rascal:
5) Hair-doos - short cropped, bleached or way too much gel/wax
6) The odd copy of 'Hello' or 'OK!' in the living room
7) Barbara Streisand records - just one and they could be dodgy, there's no excuse
8) Kitchen gadgets that really are useful
9) Movie choices - Beaches, Fried Green Tomotoes.... STEPS in concert, Kylie's Showgirl Tour
I could go on.... if you are in any doubt ladies, call in the "how gay is your boyfriend/husband" team - Bloke and Mr Bloke. One night with us and we'll have them sussed and sent back with a full "gay rating" for you :rascal:
Ohhhhh thats scary :shock:
Not at the moment as were stopping with a friend but at our last home i went out and brought some pink fluffy cushions :shock:
I have about 12 bottles of aftershave :shock:
I am a really good cook... not professionally but can russtle up some nice meals with "whats in the cupboard today" ingredients :shock:
No "hello" or "ok" but i do like reading "the take-a-brake"
:shock: Kitchen gadgets i do like and there a must have.... I have ( ok we have ) lots of them and i meen lots :lol: :shock:
Not got the hair do though, i just like to keep it short
Movies.... ermmmm Beaches...yes
ops: , Fried Green Tomotoes...yes :oops: .... STEPS in concert...yes... and everyone of there music video's :oops: , Kylie's Showgirl Tour...no but have got every one of her music video's also :oops: :shock: But i AM straight :D
Tony
i find myself on dodgy territory here!
I call myself Bi in the profile and all that jazz... and have played as such...
also the kinky type... for me at least, it kind of leant that way from the fetish scene.. at least some of the places ive been, and things ive seen. (scene?..lol)
a good kinky couple... (COUPLE being the appropriate word in my case) alsways gets the juices flowing, and if a little fetish/kink play is involved too...all the better.
But.. though tempted on occassion.. and it has happened.... I dont meet guys alone.. quite simply, a chap doesnt turn me on that much... (UNLESS..ehehe.. there is definately the element of kinkiness involved)
The idea of playing with BOTH sexes at the same time...or at least both being present has the right effect for me!
Im sure also this sounds simply an attempt to meet a couple, so I can get greedy hands >and...?< on the GoodLady.. not true...
have to say... my leanings are mainly hetero sexual... though the mixed company/group thing... yes please!
as for signs?
well.. Ive been asked many a time (with no offense taken) in the past whether or not im gay >no<
and it may seem a little cliched >sp?< but im not the macho type.. so maybe that has something to do with it?
oh...
I dunno
i'll go away now...
tink im in enough trouble already
I'll use work and lateness as an excuse to skidadle!!
LP
londonplaything
I call myself Bi in the profile and all that jazz... and have played as such...
also the kinky type... for me at least, it kind of leant that way from the fetish scene.. at least some of the places ive been, and things ive seen. (scene?..lol)
a good kinky couple... (COUPLE being the appropriate word in my case) alsways gets the juices flowing, and if a little fetish/kink play is involved too...all the better.
But.. though tempted on occassion.. and it has happened.... I dont meet guys alone.. quite simply, a chap doesnt turn me on that much... (UNLESS..ehehe.. there is definately the element of kinkiness involved)
The idea of playing with BOTH sexes at the same time...or at least both being present has the right effect for me!
Im sure also this sounds simply an attempt to meet a couple, so I can get greedy hands >and...?< on the GoodLady.. not true...
have to say... my leanings are mainly hetero sexual... though the mixed company/group thing... yes please!
as for signs?
well.. Ive been asked many a time (with no offense taken) in the past whether or not im gay >no<
and it may seem a little cliched >sp?< but im not the macho type.. so maybe that has something to do with it?
oh...
I dunno
i'll go away now...
tink im in enough trouble already
I'll use work and lateness as an excuse to skidadle!!
LP
londonplaything
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Movies.... ermmmm Beaches...yes
But i AM straight
Tony
Uh oh... Shaz, I think Tony needs to come to Newcastle for a "check-up" :rascal:
Quote by Bloke2005
Movies.... ermmmm Beaches...yes
But i AM straight
Tony
Uh oh... Shaz, I think Tony needs to come to Newcastle for a "check-up" :rascal:
Oi !
Tony :D
Quote by Bloke2005
Oooo - I like this one
Well all of the blokes we have met off here have had 'straight' in their profile and we couldn't have told that either of them were bi until they had their cocks out (sorry but there's no other way of saying that)
Gay men are a whole different kettle of fish... giveaways include:
1) Nice soft furnishings - e.g. foutons & scatter cushions (especially the fluffly ones that look like dead cats/sheep) :shock:
2) An aftershave for every day of the month :lol:
3) The entire Clinique range in their bathrooms (although the lines are becoming blurred here) :?
4) They can cook - especially at short notice and can usually rustle up a 4 course meal from 2 Shredded Wheat and an old lettuce :rascal:
5) Hair-doos - short cropped, bleached or way too much gel/wax
6) The odd copy of 'Hello' or 'OK!' in the living room
7) Barbara Streisand records - just one and they could be dodgy, there's no excuse
8) Kitchen gadgets that really are useful
9) Movie choices - Beaches, Fried Green Tomotoes.... STEPS in concert, Kylie's Showgirl Tour
I could go on.... if you are in any doubt ladies, call in the "how gay is your boyfriend/husband" team - Bloke and Mr Bloke. One night with us and we'll have them sussed and sent back with a full "gay rating" for you :rascal:
Jeeze....... even I'm worried now!!!
Mike
Sex God
I am giving this a bump.
I am beginning to think I have to many Barbara Streisand LPs.
I am beginning to think I have to many Barbara Streisand LPs.
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
... and I feel like I'm taling to myself on this thread
I thought Polo was back for a minute when I saw this
That would be nice, I always had a soft spot???hard spot???? for Polo
Sex God
Quote by r6b1ker
I could go on.... if you are in any doubt ladies, call in the "how gay is your boyfriend/husband" team - Bloke and Mr Bloke. One night with us and we'll have them sussed and sent back with a full "gay rating" for you :rascal:
This made me chuckle! 
Orgasminator
Uh oh. *Him* has 4 of the 9 "qualities" BIoke mentioned. Should I be worried???
*Her*
*Her*
Sex God
Quote by Bloke 2005Nope, Sappho does all the soft furnishings. I'm, rubbish at it.
Oooo - I like this one
giveaways include:
1) Nice soft furnishings - e.g. foutons & scatter cushions (especially the fluffly ones that look like dead cats/sheep) :shock:
Quote by Bloke 2005Nope again - just one bottle of aftershave and that only gets used rarely. Never go anywhere without deodorant and body spray, but not often aftershave.
2) An aftershave for every day of the month :lol:
Quote by Bloke 2005Ermmmm, not actually sure what you're talking about here.
3) The entire Clinique range in their bathrooms (although the lines are becoming blurred here)
Quote by Bloke 2005I cook rather well - though Sappho is better at 'rustling things up'. I tend to do the 'set pieces'
4) They can cook - especially at short notice and can usually rustle up a 4 course meal from 2 Shredded Wheat and an old lettuce :rascal:
Quote by Bloke 2005Well, I'm quite bald so I don't get a lot of choice in hairstyles!
5) Hair-doos - short cropped, bleached or way too much gel/wax
Quote by Bloke 2005Never, never, never! Can't abide 'celebrity gossip' magazines
6) The odd copy of 'Hello' or 'OK!' in the living room
Quote by Bloke 2005I don't actually own any Barbra Streisand records - but I do rather like her. I even quite fancy her. May have scored an own goal by showing that I know it's spelt "Barbra".
7) Barbara Streisand records - just one and they could be dodgy, there's no excuse
Quote by Bloke 2005Yeah, OK. You've got me there! :doh:
8) Kitchen gadgets that really are useful
Quote by Bloke 2005Genuinely not heard of Beaches, heard of but not seen Fried Green Tomatoes, wouldn't dream of watching Steps (except on mute and to perv at the girls). As for Kylie, well, of course I would watch it. I have a serious crush on the woman (now THAT's a bum! :twisted: :twisted
9) Movie choices - Beaches, Fried Green Tomotoes.... STEPS in concert, Kylie's Showgirl Tour
Earlier today I jokingly said to Sappho "I'll let you explain to the children about cross dressing." Then she pointed out "Which one of us has cross-dressed; in public; AND appeared on stage like that - MORE THAN ONCE?"
ops: :oops: Collapse of stout party!Will
