OK first I am not disappointed with SH. It is different to what I expected, but I have had fun, and still kept my cloths on.
BUT
I have had 2 disappointments;
one was a lady who PMed me saying she had just broken-up and would I... I turned her down offering friendship instead. My disappointment was she disappeared.
The other was that I was in the middle of arranging something when the other party found a fuck-buddy. I am happy for her :love: yet still disappointed.
BUT on the whole I am glad to be hear.
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Sex God
Yeah it happens! That's just people really, but there are still a lot of genuine people here.
You just have to "kiss a lot of frogs" first.
:shock:
You just have to "kiss a lot of frogs" first.
:shock:
Sex God
I don't think I have been disappointed with my SH experience to date.
Yes, there have been times when I have arranged meets and the guy hasn't turned up.
:x :x That is frustrating, but it is rare.
Beyond that, I didn't really know what to expect when I joined the site and in that respect SH has more than exceeded my expectations!
I've made some great friends and had some fantastic sex with some great people... :rascal: I certainly don't think I planned on the friendship/social side of the place. I enjoy the forum banter, love chatting to folk in chatrooms when the fancy takes me and I've been to some socials and munches that really were cracking nights out! :cheers:
All in all, I think the good bits faaaaarrrr outweigh the bad
and this place is definitely a case of you get out what you put in.
Just my two penn'orth!
Nola xx
Yes, there have been times when I have arranged meets and the guy hasn't turned up.
:x :x That is frustrating, but it is rare.Beyond that, I didn't really know what to expect when I joined the site and in that respect SH has more than exceeded my expectations!
I've made some great friends and had some fantastic sex with some great people... :rascal: I certainly don't think I planned on the friendship/social side of the place. I enjoy the forum banter, love chatting to folk in chatrooms when the fancy takes me and I've been to some socials and munches that really were cracking nights out! :cheers:All in all, I think the good bits faaaaarrrr outweigh the bad
and this place is definitely a case of you get out what you put in.Just my two penn'orth!
Nola xx
Quote by noladreams30
I don't think I have been disappointed with my SH experience to date.
Yes, there have been times when I have arranged meets and the guy hasn't turned up.
Beyond that, I didn't really know what to expect when I joined the site and in that respect SH has more than exceeded my expectations!
All in all, I think the good bits faaaaarrrr outweigh the bad
Just my two penn'orth!
Nola xx
Good Post Nola!
:kiss: Quote by noladreams30
I don't think I have been disappointed with my SH experience to date.
You ain't met me yet! :giggle:
Hey I'm just taking a relaxed attitude to all this
There's more to swinging than just getting yer leg over!
It takes a while, but getting to know a few strangers with a view to making firm friends always helps
It's not just what you put in - it's the quality of what your putting in!
Sex God
Quote by redpantherman
I don't think I have been disappointed with my SH experience to date.
You ain't met me yet! :giggle:
:notes: well in the name of research then, get yer diary out... when's good for you?!
t-mann, like bbw_lover said, there are some genuine people on here, as well as the timewasters....
I was a bit worried when I first came on here, but I have made some good mates on here now, and had a good time.. and still haven't had any "nookie" but I really am enjoying myself!
Am I sad when I say i'm on here for 3 or 4 hours a day? I just enjoy it! I love the banter in the chatrooms and forums...
Hope you do find what you're looking for~!!
I was a bit worried when I first came on here, but I have made some good mates on here now, and had a good time.. and still haven't had any "nookie" but I really am enjoying myself!
Am I sad when I say i'm on here for 3 or 4 hours a day? I just enjoy it! I love the banter in the chatrooms and forums...
Hope you do find what you're looking for~!!
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3 hours, you mean I am not abnormal?
I love the place.
I have laughed until I have cried sometime.
Danced with words.
Exchanged PMs posts
Found friends.
Had conceptions smashed.
My life enhanced.
Two disappointments is nothing.
SH is good :happy:
Travis
I'm not sure what the point of this thread is. You haven't asked any questions for people to answer, just written a statement. Life is full of disappointment, why would here be any different?
I was meant to be having fun on Friday with a relatively new friend, but he had to cancel (with very good reason) yes I'm disappointed, but I don't associate it with SH. It just happens another person I have spoken to on here is free and I'm now taking the unexpected opportunity to meet him. Thank you SH for giving me choice and opportunity.
It poses the question. Is your cup half full, or half empty? Mines half full :P
Quote by venus68The point, I was being open, not something I do in real life.
I'm not sure what the point of this thread is. You haven't asked any questions for people to answer, just written a statement. Life is full of disappointment, why would here be any different?
... :P
The question???????????what is you biggest disappointment, here at SH? They are my biggest, and if that is all that happens to me, I am not doing bad
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Barr so many living so far away!
I think that is my biggest disappointment along with men who can't accomodate. I do love clubs but I would so love to be able to escape to my buddies heavenly abode and unwind in everyway possible lol. Last time I was able to do that was over 2 years ago. I miss it!
:DMy biggest disappointment is the number of people who don't have the courtesy to reply an email (and its not just a 1 liner ssaying would you like a shag!)
We've had 1 email response to our own ad and 1 reply from probably 30 emails we've sent.
If anyone has any practical or constuctive advice I'd we'd be happy to hear it.
I'm starting to wonder if these ads are in fact real...would love to be proved wrong!
We've had 1 email response to our own ad and 1 reply from probably 30 emails we've sent.
If anyone has any practical or constuctive advice I'd we'd be happy to hear it.
I'm starting to wonder if these ads are in fact real...would love to be proved wrong!
Quote byThe point, I was being open, not something I do in real life.
I'm not sure what the point of this thread is. You haven't asked any questions for people to answer, just written a statement. Life is full of disappointment, why would here be any different?
... :P
The question???????????what is you biggest disappointment, here at SH? They are my biggest, and if that is all that happens to me, I am not doing bad
.AND you have to more or less know T to understand him.... it's taking me years hasn't it T? :wink:
A question within a question, a mind tickling scenario, an ode or a rhyme, all add up to and that's why I love him!
And if he'd been closer or given different circumstances...........
My biggest disappointment?
Well discovering Swinging Heaven at the wrong time. I came here single depressed and lonely looking for an easy shag. It took me a long time to get my head round how it works, to find the courage to take the plunge, to find someone to plunge with. In that time in the real world I met someone, some one special. I don't now have the desire or need to sleep with anyone else. So I've discovered a world that I could have explored at the right time but that time is not now and I hope that time never comes as it would mean the end of the beautiful relationship I have.
Well discovering Swinging Heaven at the wrong time. I came here single depressed and lonely looking for an easy shag. It took me a long time to get my head round how it works, to find the courage to take the plunge, to find someone to plunge with. In that time in the real world I met someone, some one special. I don't now have the desire or need to sleep with anyone else. So I've discovered a world that I could have explored at the right time but that time is not now and I hope that time never comes as it would mean the end of the beautiful relationship I have.
Quote by jaymarThe point, I was being open, not something I do in real life.
I'm not sure what the point of this thread is. You haven't asked any questions for people to answer, just written a statement. Life is full of disappointment, why would here be any different?
... :P
The question???????????what is you biggest disappointment, here at SH? They are my biggest, and if that is all that happens to me, I am not doing bad
.AND you have to more or less know T to understand him.... it's taking me years hasn't it T? :wink:
A question within a question, a mind tickling scenario, an ode or a rhyme, all add up to and that's why I love him!
And if he'd been closer or given different circumstances...........
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