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Maybe I'm just getting old and forgetful, but I often add someone to my friends list after finding them very interesting, then forgetting all about who they are or why i found them so interesting.
So, would it be possible to put notes against people we have saved as friends?
I'd also like to be able to see in my friends list who is online and who isn't without having to go into each and every profile.
Should I have posted this in the steam room?
Friends?? dunno
yeah, in the my friends bit on the left here
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yeah, in the my friends bit on the left here

On the right. wink
Quote by Kiss
yeah, in the my friends bit on the left here

On the right. wink
No, I meant Friends dunno- in the literal sense! lol
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yeah, in the my friends bit on the left here

On the right. wink
No, I meant Friends dunno- in the literal sense! lol
Ohhh :doh:
Well in that case... you're f*cked! :lol:
kiss
Will the new PM/site email system be arriving soon ? Or is what 4T did recently - it ?
If not . . .
Will it be searchable, by author/title/keywords ?
Will there be a "saved box" rather than just the "save" option we have now ?
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yeah, in the my friends bit on the left here

On the right. wink
see i told you i'm getting old, or not enough shags....
Can I jump in with a request?
On the autoreply thing that you can send when someone sends you a wink can it be changed a little?
Right now it says "Hi" or something like that. Can it be changed to say" You are being sent an auto response as the profile owner couldn't be bothered to send you an email as you obviously didn't read her profile seeing the no winks please request" or something similar?
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Can I jump in with a request?
On the autoreply thing that you can send when someone sends you a wink can it be changed a little?
Right now it says "Hi" or something like that. Can it be changed to say" You are being sent an auto response as the profile owner couldn't be bothered to send you an email as you obviously didn't read her profile seeing the no winks please request" or something similar?
rotflmao You lazy cow! :rotflmao:
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Can I jump in with a request?
On the autoreply thing that you can send when someone sends you a wink can it be changed a little?
Right now it says "Hi" or something like that. Can it be changed to say" You are being sent an auto response as the profile owner couldn't be bothered to send you an email as you obviously didn't read her profile seeing the no winks please request" or something similar?
rotflmao You lazy cow! :rotflmao:
Me? Lazy? Never. Yawnnnnnnnnnnnn
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You can modify your winks as one of the Extras benefits Abilene, comes in very handy in such circumstances biggrin

I have the extras thing ( cos I thought it meant I would really get extras :twisted: ) but it only shows me two options. Will go check again though.
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You can modify your winks as one of the Extras benefits Abilene, comes in very handy in such circumstances biggrin

I have the extras thing ( cos I thought it meant I would really get extras :twisted: ) but it only shows me two options. Will go check again though.
You can change it on your homepage, just scroll down and you should get the option to Customise your wink settings smile
Ok, done. Can you send me a wink and tell me if it works? Never thought I would ask for a wink. lol
OK, I have figured out the confusion.
Varca what you are talking about is adjusting my wink .. which means I can customise the wink I send out. What I am trying to do is change the auto responder when someone sends me a wink. Which only allows me to change it from "Hi' to "Hi there"
Am I making sense? I dont want to send an auto reply that says either of those as it indicates interest.
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Am I making sense? I dont want to send an auto reply that says either of those as it indicates interest.

Which was the argument we put across at the time they were introduced.
The response we got back was what resulted in dammie being "certified as a complete prat" :giggle:
I know the "system" that HLB uses, and I don't think she's ever had a "second response"
I may well be a complete prat, but I can and do see why 4T feel justified in not giving you the opportunity to kill the wink.
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What's 4T please Dambuster?

The owners of the now commercial site.
Nowadays it's normally used (by me at least) as a term of endearment.
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What's 4T please Dambuster? To be honest, if I can be bothered to reply to a wink (my profile says that they will always be deleted but sometimes I do bother) I just send my own edited wink and then hit the Ignored option in Mail. Problem solved biggrin

The 4T is the nick name originally given (by Blonde) to the admin i.e. the site owners.
I did suggest at the time that we have an option that just said "This user has opted not to receive wink messages"
In a nutshell I don't think the admin wanted this as an option as it gives the impression that people don't actually like them and that doesn't generate revenue.
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Wish they had listened to you!! At one point I had 500+ mails in my inbox and a huge percentage were Winks. Removing my ad has cut that down dramatically but if the option to opt not to receive them was there, I would definitely have ticked the box.

Varca you still have the option to set the auto responder so that you don't receive wink messages, but you only have the 2 options of wording given by the admin at present
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Wish they had listened to you!! At one point I had 500+ mails in my inbox and a huge percentage were Winks. Removing my ad has cut that down dramatically but if the option to opt not to receive them was there, I would definitely have ticked the box.

Varca you still have the option to set the auto responder so that you don't receive wink messages, but you only have the 2 options of wording given by the admin at present
Stop it now.
My sig's already long enough rotflmao
Can I add to the wishlist?
At the moment the search facilities are limited, even more so when searching just the ads. Is there going to be a 'new and improved' searcg facility at any point or are we stuck with this one?
H.x
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So, would it be possible to put notes against people we have saved as friends? I'd also like to be able to see in my friends list who is online and who isn't without having to go into each and every profile.

Me too for both these points if it can be considered - thank you lol
One of the limitations of the current Search facility (unless I've missed something) is that you can only make a geographical search in relation to concentric distances from your home. This means that you can't easily identify people in the vicinity if you visit somewhere else in the country.
Dogging- I know it may be tricky, and can see why posting any new locations could cause trouble....however, some of the listed locations are very, very out of date.
What was once a popular spot (and famous for other reasons) has been blocked by a barrier for at least 7 years! I feel sorry for any poor sod who travels to check it out, and I would imagine thats not the only place it applies too either!
I'd like to be able to search (more easily!) for people/adverts/parties that are for a particular area. If I'm working in Leicester for 3 days next month it would be useful to be able to search in 'Leicester' not just for people who are within 50 miles of me.
Just change your post code and search, then change it back again.
cool
H.x
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Just change your post code and search, then change it back again.
cool
H.x

Why didn't I ever think of that? :doh:
banghead :banghead: :banghead:
Thank you H.x kiss
Can we have a stickied jokes thread where people can post and it doesn't get locked? I know a single jokes thread can be tedious to keep up with for the mods and doesn't warrent too much chat other than a few giggles but sometimes it's good to read something that makes you giggle and makes a change from whingeing threads
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Will it be searchable, by author/title/keywords ?

You have that many you need to search lol