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Wouldn't surprise me to find it still happens, but neither I nor MrFB would do it.
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Quote by Freckledbird
Wouldn't surprise me to find it still happens, but neither I nor MrFB would do it.
my sister in laws fiance when they broke up made a deliberate attempt to with my ex to spite her, it was the start or the break down for us
dont know to be honest, but i couldnt shag someone simply to annoy someone else, and as we are all swingers, does it matter who shags who first there shouldnt be any need for revenge or spite as its what we are here for anyway, but i can see that there probably would be some who would be.
if i shag someone its because i want to not for any other reason
Earthy x
if i shag someone its because i want to not for any other reason
Earthy x
Back in my early 20's I found out my girlfriend was sleeping with her friend's husband behind my back. Out of spite I went straight round to tell the friend and ended up in bed with her! Turned out the friend was far better in bed than my girlfriend. Thinking back, I believe that may have been the point in my life when I realised that monogamy has it's drawbacks ;-)
Sex God
Quote by earthchild
dont know to be honest, but i couldnt shag someone simply to annoy someone else, and as we are all swingers, does it matter who shags who first there shouldnt be any need for revenge or spite as its what we are here for anyway, but i can see that there probably would be some who would be.
if i shag someone its because i want to not for any other reason
Earthy x
Amen to that
Sex God
I certainly wont take any shag thats offered.....
Someone has to interest me......Make me feel amorous.......Excite me..........Make me laugh/smile before I will entertain having sex with them....
As for doing it to spite someone else......Nah....
Someone has to interest me......Make me feel amorous.......Excite me..........Make me laugh/smile before I will entertain having sex with them....
As for doing it to spite someone else......Nah....
Sex God
never done it never will, I value thee friendships i have and they are sacred
Sex God
:shock:
What a horrible thing to do.
What a horrible thing to do.
I have personally been verbally abused had water thrown at me & had rumours spread about me on three separate occasions just because I did not want to shag a female
There is a fucking damn good reason for not wanting to do so & if the response is to have a 'spite shag' then ffs!!! that will just reinforce my reasons for not wanting to associate myself with that person in the first place! :giggle:
I mean honestly... what am I loosing?
I used to think that swingers chose this lifestyle so they could be totally honest & have no reason for any hidden agender or anything - that honeymoon thing didn't last that long
Sorry to go off topic flower but I would like to recount the time when one female I was chatting too told me I could not be this horrible person that she was led to believe! :dunno: :(
She was told by another male that she should be cautious about meeting up with me because I would be the one to coerce her into a sexual situation against her will!
whoever this scumbag is that accused me of potential she will not tell me but he does no she has gone against his wishes & did shag me, therefore making me part of a shag to spite another person!
Sadly yes & more!
As much as we like to view ourselves as part of the swinging community with rose tinted glasses the swinging community is still made up of a cross section of the - for want of a better name the outside world including the detritus
Harsh words on my part? Yes!
It's just that my life is far too short to waste on negative people male or female. :(
There is a fucking damn good reason for not wanting to do so & if the response is to have a 'spite shag' then ffs!!! that will just reinforce my reasons for not wanting to associate myself with that person in the first place! :giggle:
I mean honestly... what am I loosing?
I used to think that swingers chose this lifestyle so they could be totally honest & have no reason for any hidden agender or anything - that honeymoon thing didn't last that long
Sorry to go off topic flower but I would like to recount the time when one female I was chatting too told me I could not be this horrible person that she was led to believe! :dunno: :(
She was told by another male that she should be cautious about meeting up with me because I would be the one to coerce her into a sexual situation against her will!
whoever this scumbag is that accused me of potential she will not tell me but he does no she has gone against his wishes & did shag me, therefore making me part of a shag to spite another person!
Quote by flower411
Does this still happen and most of all does it happen in the swinging community ???
Sadly yes & more!
As much as we like to view ourselves as part of the swinging community with rose tinted glasses the swinging community is still made up of a cross section of the - for want of a better name the outside world including the detritus
Harsh words on my part? Yes!
It's just that my life is far too short to waste on negative people male or female. :(
I think it happens and they let others know about it in various ways, subtle hints in posts, chat etc...
It may also be a *hands off, s/he's mine* signal or *I got their first* for some..
I also think for some its a shag because *Im now part of the so called clique that doesnt exisit*
Im not into games... so I wouldnt play by even reacting!
Personally, nope I wouldnt do as Im got too much respect for myself before I even think of others.
It may also be a *hands off, s/he's mine* signal or *I got their first* for some..
I also think for some its a shag because *Im now part of the so called clique that doesnt exisit*
Im not into games... so I wouldnt play by even reacting!
Personally, nope I wouldnt do as Im got too much respect for myself before I even think of others.
Quote by redpantherman
I have personally been verbally abused had water thrown at me & had rumours spread about me on three separate occasions just because I did not want to shag a female
I know who you're referring to here.....and I'd just like to say that some people just don't take rejection at all well. They're the same type of person who would shag for spite- a person with very low self esteem who places very little value upon their body, and on sex.
You flucking b*&*&*rd :censored: c&*t!
Sorry
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
I have personally been verbally abused had water thrown at me & had rumours spread about me on three separate occasions just because I did not want to shag a female
I know who you're referring to here.....and I'd just like to say that some people just don't take rejection at all well. They're the same type of person who would shag for spite- a person with very low self esteem who places very little value upon their body, and on sex.
You flucking b*&*&*rd :censored: c&*t!
Sorry
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good thread,
yes it happens, ive seen it on here.
one female (sometimes part of a couple) is known for setting her sights only on people to score points, notches on the bed post.
it seems the more she sleeps with it proves how great, populer, wanted etc she is.
we all like to feel wanted, but some people are here for wrong reasons and for power trips.
they dont care at what expense, i have seen them set out to destroy relationships.
xx fem xx
yes it happens, ive seen it on here.
one female (sometimes part of a couple) is known for setting her sights only on people to score points, notches on the bed post.
it seems the more she sleeps with it proves how great, populer, wanted etc she is.
we all like to feel wanted, but some people are here for wrong reasons and for power trips.
they dont care at what expense, i have seen them set out to destroy relationships.
xx fem xx
Sexlightened
It's not something I have knowingly done but then I have not always been aware of other peoples motives. I assume if they want me they want me for some positive reason but it depends on how well you know the other person and their relationships?
I have a rule not to have sex with partners of friends (unless invited!) but if they tell you its all over - what do you do? I have turned down two women for that reason and in one case regretted it later. Still how many times have you missed a bus? You just hope another one comes along soon!
Shay
I have a rule not to have sex with partners of friends (unless invited!) but if they tell you its all over - what do you do? I have turned down two women for that reason and in one case regretted it later. Still how many times have you missed a bus? You just hope another one comes along soon!
Shay
