Do most on here do this?
Have you ever told him/her a hot fantasy that blew their mind totally and turned them on so much?
And do you have a fantasy you would like to share with them...but don't know whether you should as you are unsure of their reaction?
I used to tell first wife I really fancied a nice roast dinner that I hadn't cooked m'self ..... she was lovely, but couldnae cook to save her life.
I used to tell wife no. 2 that I used to fantasize about thinking for m'self ... she used to tell me to shut up!
I still tell my 3rd wife that the day I met her all my fantasies had come true.
You should be able to tell your partner more or less whatever's on your mind, if you can't do this then you're probably cheating in some way.