I have just got an invitation to a friend’s marriage rededication party. It got me thinking.
The wife had come to me with a story;
‘She had known that her husband had been unfaithful, but did nothing about it. Then one day she had come home to find him in bed with a younger woman, a much younger woman. That was when she stormed out of the house, to see her friend, my wife. She found me instead.’
Anyway, last month, the husband found his young woman in bed with a guy, and he ended up talking to the police. The wife came to his rescue, and took him home. Now they have decided to end the separation, hence, retaking the vows and the party.
The whole thing has started me thinking again. Why did she wait until she found them in bed? She said she knew he was shagging. She could smell her, found lipstick on his clothes, but it was not until she knew that he knew she knew that she did anything.
In others words she kicked him out and he went to his mistress for a reason other than her finding out he was ‘fucking a tart young enough to be his daughter’. What was that reason?
Was it she needed absolute proof, or was it that she could live with the knowledge, but not the embracement, that came with doing nothing when faced with others knowing she knew.
PS
No way am I going to ask her!
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‘She had known that her husband had been unfaithful
It is easier to turn a blind eye and not truly admit it. Once it is admitted, shit hits the fan and the break up is almost inevitable.
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I have been the bitch who slept with an older married man. He told his wife, but the affair continued...somehow she carried on turning a blind eye. All I can think is that it was better for her to be with him than breaking up, losing the house etc.
If it was me, I would find it very difficult to ever trust the person again, let alone renew marriage vows! I take my hat off to people who make it work after trust has been lost.
By the way...I'm not boasting or at all happy about what I did
You live and learn.
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I have been the bitch who slept with an older married man. He told his wife, but the affair continued...somehow she carried on turning a blind eye. All I can think is that it was better for her to be with him than breaking up, losing the house etc.
If it was me, I would find it very difficult to ever trust the person again, let alone renew marriage vows! I take my hat off to people who make it work after trust has been lost.
By the way...I'm not boasting or at all happy about what I did
You live and learn. Quote by benrums0nHow true I knew of a guy who convinced his wife he had picked up a STD of a toilet seat. He could only have been successful if she wanted to believe it.
DENIAL- Dont Even Now I Am Lying
Easy to lie to yourself if u dont want to face the consequences.
Do we each live with in our own truth?
