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She won't play - Any advice on how to change her mind

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Hi all, I really,really want my wife to join me in the swinging scene. We are very happily married, love each other and have a good but not necessarly outstanding sex life. What can I do to persuade her to be more adventurous. I know I can't force her and wouldn't but - There must be similar couples out there who were in same situation and partner eventually was persuaded to try and relaised that they enjoyed it.
I am especially looking advice and comments from them.
Should I talk her into going to a munch? stay in a swing hotel, meet softswing couple ???
Please advise your comments and advice.
What can I do???
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What can I do???

Get a good solicitor hun.... You will need one if she finds out what you are up to....
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. What can I do to persuade her to be more adventurous.

Short answer is..........You cant......
All you can do is be straight with her and if she says no way then thats your goose cooked.
After that you can either forget the whole thing or ..................Well............
As your here I suspect you know the answer to that...
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Hi all, I really,really want my wife to join me in the swinging scene. We are very happily married, love each other and have a good but not necessarly outstanding sex life. What can I do to persuade her to be more adventurous. I know I can't force her and wouldn't but - There must be similar couples out there who were in same situation and partner eventually was persuaded to try and relaised that they enjoyed it.
I am especially looking advice and comments from them.
Should I talk her into going to a munch? stay in a swing hotel, meet softswing couple ???
Please advise your comments and advice.
What can I do???

Being more adventurous has nothing what so ever to do with swinging IMO
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