Should SwingingHeaven adopt the eBay approach?
I'm sure I am not the only one who has experienced people on SwingingHeaven who pretend they are up for a meet but then make some pathetic excuse at the eleventh hour, usually something about a family crisis, regardless of the lengths other people have gone to to change their schedules etc.
The problem is that these pretenders are probably doing this all the time and are helping to further spread the bad image of swinging and contact sites (of which SwingingHeaven is the best).
So what's the solution?
Perhaps a system like they use on eBay, whereby members are marked and given either positive or negative feedback. That way it would be easy to see who is genuine and who is talking nonsense.
If a couple/lady/guy consistently made arrangements and then let the other people down, it would make it a lot easier to sort out the pretenders from the genuine people by simply looking at their rankings.
Thoughts?
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Should SwingingHeaven adopt the eBay approach?
Should there be a ranking system?
Sex God
this is a REAAALLY bad idea
Sex God
hi dave and firstly welcome to the forums 
This topic has been discussed before and whilst it is a good idea in theory it is very much open to abuse.....
for instanse people giving a bad report to someone who they messaged and then didn't respond (although the person they messaged wasn't looking for the same things as them) or maybe someone not making it to a meet due to genuine difficulties......or even someone could give a bad rating to someone just because they felt like doing so etc.......
I hope you have a good stay here and can manage without a ratings system..........
This topic has been discussed before and whilst it is a good idea in theory it is very much open to abuse.....
for instanse people giving a bad report to someone who they messaged and then didn't respond (although the person they messaged wasn't looking for the same things as them) or maybe someone not making it to a meet due to genuine difficulties......or even someone could give a bad rating to someone just because they felt like doing so etc.......
I hope you have a good stay here and can manage without a ratings system..........
:) :) 
:lol:No I'm not new around here. Have been a member for at least a year (probably quite a bit longer) and have met people successfully. I had my first swinging experience at least 10 years ago.
However, this is the first time I have used the forum function on the site. Apologies if this is a much used topic of debate.
I write in frustration after having booked a day off work for a meet tomorrow, only to be given the old classic line. It hasn't happened to me before to be honest, which is why it has annoyed me now.
Anyhow, thanks for the sensible answer poshkate, and thanks for the humourous answer anais. As for hungrypussy69, I suspect you are newer to this than I am. ;-)
However, this is the first time I have used the forum function on the site. Apologies if this is a much used topic of debate.
I write in frustration after having booked a day off work for a meet tomorrow, only to be given the old classic line. It hasn't happened to me before to be honest, which is why it has annoyed me now.
Anyhow, thanks for the sensible answer poshkate, and thanks for the humourous answer anais. As for hungrypussy69, I suspect you are newer to this than I am. ;-)
Sex God
I think we should go for the Michelin approach, with a star rating for how good a shag you are and a comprehensive review of your finer points in a handy book 
Sex God
Quote by dave_newport
Should SwingingHeaven adopt the eBay approach?
I'm sure I am not the only one who has experienced people on SwingingHeaven who pretend they are up for a meet but then make some pathetic excuse at the eleventh hour, usually something about a family crisis, regardless of the lengths other people have gone to to change their schedules etc.
The problem is that these pretenders are probably doing this all the time and are helping to further spread the bad image of swinging and contact sites (of which SwingingHeaven is the best).
So what's the solution?
Perhaps a system like they use on eBay, whereby members are marked and given either positive or negative feedback. That way it would be easy to see who is genuine and who is talking nonsense.
If a couple/lady/guy consistently made arrangements and then let the other people down, it would make it a lot easier to sort out the pretenders from the genuine people by simply looking at their rankings.
Thoughts?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/27234.html?highlight=
Take a browse through this thread and see what you reckon
