Should The Guy Pay?

5 Dec 2004

Quote by Happy Cats
Its all a question of not being beholding to anyone. You pay your way - everyones equal. Nothing to do with being a gentleman or chivalry, just good common sense.
Iâ€™m talking about initial meets or early stages â€“ friendships and relationships are different because trust has been developed

I think this sums it up pretty well - for me at least - we ARE talking mainly about initial few meets as once a friendship/relationship develops, you settle into what is 'the norm' and that'll depend on many things. It could be that it all equalises over time or one person will end up paying most times because they are in a better position to do so.
I for one, certainly do appreciate if the other party has made an effort to look their best etc but it doesn't necessarily mean a whole new outfit etc.

5 Dec 2004

Quote by foxylady 123
Cant you tell the difference ... between shaven legs and waxed ones? ... A hair "cut" is hardly the same as having a proper hair do!!!

I sure can tell the difference between shaved and waxed ... and yes, I know that a hair do and hair cut aren't the same thing but guy's don't really have a great deal of choice with hair ... bit like shoes :lol2:

5 Dec 2004

Is it just me or does "hair do" automatically make you think of people like Molly Sugden and your Aunt Gladys.
You know, people patting their carefully prepared curls into place. lol

:lol: :lol:
Jas
XXX

5 Dec 2004

Quote by Jas-Tim
Is it just me or does "hair do" automatically make you think of people like Molly Sugden and your Aunt Gladys.
You know, people patting their carefully prepared curls into place. :lol: :lol:
Jas
XXX

Yup! Made me think that too :grin:
These peeps usually have pink fluffy bog seat covers too rolleyes

T-J

5 Dec 2004

Quote by RedHot
Is it just me or does "hair do" automatically make you think of people like Molly Sugden and your Aunt Gladys.
You know, people patting their carefully prepared curls into place. :lol: :lol:
Jas
XXX

Yup! Made me think that too :grin:
These peeps usually have pink fluffy bog seat covers too rolleyes

T-J
Oi!!! I'm very proud of my hot pink fluffy bog seat cover!! And the matching knitted dolly that sits on top of the spare toilet roll!!! :shock:

5 Dec 2004

Quote by xxdevil69
Oi!!! I'm very proud of my hot pink fluffy bog seat cover!! And the matching knitted dolly that sits on top of the spare toilet roll!!! :shock:

OMG!!! Not another member with pink fluffy things :doh:
Toilet roll dollies are ok though. You can sit and admire their exclusive designer outfits while contemplating your bowel movements rolleyes

:grin:
I thought one member with those was bad enough. What is this place coming to? dunno

:dry:

T-J

5 Dec 2004

It came free with my pink fluffy handcuffs!!! dunno

5 Dec 2004

Quote by xxdevil69
It came free with my pink fluffy handcuffs!!!

Well that's your excuse and I suppose you're sticking to it?! lol

T-J

5 Dec 2004

Quote by RedHot
It came free with my pink fluffy handcuffs!!!

Well that's your excuse and I suppose you're sticking to it?! lol

T-J
Definately... absolutely nothing to do with my fetish for anything pink and fluffy and slightly garish!!!!! :lol:

5 Dec 2004

Quote by Jas-Tim
Is it just me or does "hair do" automatically make you think of people like Molly Sugden and your Aunt Gladys.

oi! don't you dare mention my auntie gladys. she looks lovely with her blue rinse after a shampoo and set! :mad: not so lovely with the curlers and the hairnet i grant you, but bless her she likes it!

Quote by J3diMast3r
A hair "cut" is hardly the same as having a proper hair do!!!

guy's don't really have a great deal of choice with hair ... bit like shoes :lol2:
rotflmao

yep! hair stuck up? hair stuck down? decisions decisions! as for shoes . . . should i wear the black ones . . . or . . . ummmm . . . the black ones?
and i'll have you know paying 17 bloody quid for a haircut and a fiver for some styling mud counts as a proper hairdo in my world, so there! :lol2:
n x x x ;)

5 Dec 2004

Quote by xxdevil69
It came free with my pink fluffy handcuffs!!!

Well that's your excuse and I suppose you're sticking to it?! lol

T-J
Definately... absolutely nothing to do with my fetish for anything pink and fluffy and slightly garish!!!!! :lol:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

5 Dec 2004

Quote by foxylady 123
I think the wrapping is half the present, it shows the care and attention you are or not prepared to make. Just like setting the dinning table out with decent cutlery rather than eating off ones kap.

however... some people understand that the care and attention you pay is no indication of how much you have spent!!!!!!!!
someone could be wearing cheap underwear that they have had for ages and style their own hair. spend hours in the bathroom waxing their own legs and then give themselves a manicure and pedicure..... low cost but LOTS of effort!!!!!
where as someone else could have spent a small fortune but made very little effort!
kind of kills your argument doesnt it!

Quote by foxylady 123
As for needing a man to "give " me quality , i dont , hence i dont need to buy cheap tat and try to fool myself and others that that is what i want. neither do i have anything to prove. however i do, most of the time , prefer to shag someone i feel comfotable with and have something in common.

well if the money is not an issue.. how come you are so eager for the man to be the one paying for the hotel room in order to recompense you for your "expenses"??? i have no need to fool anyone about what i want or what i am.. that is the reason i dont feel the need to hide behind my clothes!
as for only feeling you have something in common with a guy who has paid 100 percent of the costs of the meet...........its a good job he does not feel the same.. or he would have no wish to meet a free loader would he!

Quote by foxylady 123
I rather thimnk your the first on this thread to mention the words bank balancem for me quality isnt always linked to bank balances which are of no interest. if you understoood finance you would know that bank balancs are nto the best place to keep money

err hang on a min.. were you not the one who suggested women who did not spend lots of cash on their underwear were not making an effort and wore cheap tat???
did you not suggest that a lot of men were not intrested in trashy women - based on how much they spent pampering themselves prior tpo a meet???
you suggest that finance is not an issue to you.... well almost every post you have made on this subject betrays you!
and as a separate issue.......the people on here who know me well will be laughing their heads off about your comment about me knowing nothing about finance.. keep it up.. you can be sooo entertaining!!!!!

Quote by foxylady 123
I would also like to point out to you that your reply is vbery personalised and that there is no need for it. I seem to remember you have done this in previous postings. Please go asnd learn how to have a disscusion on a theoretical basis rather than a personal one, you will find that many of us do so

i think you will find that the moment you tried to suggest that you were a better class of person than those who paid their own way, and that the rest of us were "trashy" was the moment that this became personalised!!!!!!!!!!
if you cant take it.. dont give it out!
i am perfectly able to have a discusion on any level.. however i find you to be rude, ignorant and dis-courteous towards many of the people on this forum, being a considerate person i always try to speak to other people in a way i think they will understand and be able to relate to.
hence you get a "personalised" reply!
have a nice day browsing through your underwear collection with your head in the clouds.
i wish i could stay and banter... but i have a REAL life to lead!

5 Dec 2004

Quote by well_busty_babe
err hang on a min.. were you not the one who suggested women who did not spend lots of cash on their underwear were not making an effort and wore cheap tat???
did you not suggest that a lot of men were not intrested in trashy women - based on how much they spent pampering themselves prior tpo a meet???

Hey Busty! Maybe we should have a poll to see if men can really tell the difference between us with the tat and those with the labels? cool

Maybe the guys could regale us with their stories of arriving at a meet only to find the woman dressed is Asda's latest sexy offering and finding he couldn't rise to the occassion knowing that her lingerie didn't have the *right* name on it? :shock: :mrgreen:
C'mon guys. Don't be shy . . . . wink

Tracy-Jayne

5 Dec 2004

In my own experience the men have been more interested in getting the underwear OFF me and onto the floor, never caught one sneaking a peek at the label first before deciding whether I'm on for a shag or not rolleyes

5 Dec 2004

Quote by MQ
In my own experience the men have been more interested in getting the underwear OFF me and onto the floor, never caught one sneaking a peek at the label first before deciding whether I'm on for a shag or not

Me neither, but maybe we're not meeting the *right* sort of guy? :roll: wink

T-J

5 Dec 2004

Quote by RedHot
In my own experience the men have been more interested in getting the underwear OFF me and onto the floor, never caught one sneaking a peek at the label first before deciding whether I'm on for a shag or not

Me neither, but maybe we're not meeting the *right* sort of guy? :roll: wink

T-J
I dunno, I've met a few nice ones lately :twisted: Blue and Satin know how to pick their guests that's for certain :twisted:

5 Dec 2004

Quote by RedHot
err hang on a min.. were you not the one who suggested women who did not spend lots of cash on their underwear were not making an effort and wore cheap tat???
did you not suggest that a lot of men were not intrested in trashy women - based on how much they spent pampering themselves prior tpo a meet???

Hey Busty! Maybe we should have a poll to see if men can really tell the difference between us with the tat and those with the labels? cool

Maybe the guys could regale us with their stories of arriving at a meet only to find the woman dressed is Asda's latest sexy offering and finding he couldn't rise to the occassion knowing that her lingerie didn't have the *right* name on it? :shock: :mrgreen:
C'mon guys. Don't be shy . . . . wink

Tracy-Jayne
It was mentioned on a recent thread that Asda's range of sexy underwear is very good. It matters not what label the underwear has as long as it looks sexy. There's some stylish items to be had at low prices these days and so it's not neccessary to shell out for expensive ones. Us guys wouldn't won't notice you were wearing Jan Reagar knicks or Tescos. Labels are for snobs and those who have more money than sense!
LC

5 Dec 2004

Quote by Lovecommando
Labels are for snobs and those who have more money than sense!

Well thank you for being the first brave guy to give an opinion LC. :P
Wonder if any more guys would like to add their thoughts? wink

Tracy-Jayne

5 Dec 2004

Well this thread seems to be getting warmer by the minute. It boils down to the old sexism thing that a man likes to be seen to be the providor and the woman not wanting to be "bought". As I said before, to me the company of the woman is far more important than anything else, I in no way think by paying for the room/meal etc that the woman is mine to do what I want with. It is up to her and I will only do what she wants. As for the sexy clothing bits, In the past I have found a naked female far more sexy than when she was clothed and also vica versa. I say a womans sexyness comes from within and the clothes she wears has nothing to do with that. Now I'm going to sit back and wait for the beating from you ladies to begin. lmao
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

5 Dec 2004

Quote by cardiffbornlad
Well this thread seems to be getting warmer by the minute. It boils down to the old sexism thing that a man likes to be seen to be the providor and the woman not wanting to be "bought". As I said before, to me the company of the woman is far more important than anything else, I in no way think by paying for the room/meal etc that the woman is mine to do what I want with. It is up to her and I will only do what she wants. As for the sexy clothing bits, In the past I have found a naked female far more sexy than when she was clothed and also vica versa. I say a womans sexyness comes from within and the clothes she wears has nothing to do with that. Now I'm going to sit back and wait for the beating from you ladies to begin. lmao
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

lol well bemd over.. and i shall get my paddle out! :twisted:
seriously though... if a guy wants to pay for a room as a matter of generosity.. there is nothing offensive about it.. i just personally normally pay half.
however i am sure you will agree that wanting to treat a lady to a night out at your expense is a different matter than being "expected" to pay by her.

5 Dec 2004

Quote by cardiffbornlad
I say a womans sexyness comes from within and the clothes she wears has nothing to do with that. Now I'm going to sit back and wait for the beating from you ladies to begin. lmao
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

Yet another guy agreeing with the tat clad masses lol

Afraid you'll have a long wait for your beating Cardiff - we all agree with you cool

Now there's a change - men and women agreeing on something :shock: wink

Now come over here . . . you want me with or without my underwear? :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne

5 Dec 2004

:lol: :lol:
I'm on my way but the question is What underwear am I to wear xxxxxxxx
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

5 Dec 2004

Quote by cardiffbornlad
:lol: :lol:
I'm on my way but the question is What underwear am I to wear xxxxxxxx
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

Just a smile . . . :twisted:
T-J

5 Dec 2004

Quote by RedHot
:lol: :lol:
I'm on my way but the question is What underwear am I to wear xxxxxxxx
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

Just a smile . . . :twisted:
T-J
But more importantly..... who's going to pay for the hotel room? :twisted:

5 Dec 2004

Quote by Angel Chat
:lol: :lol:
I'm on my way but the question is What underwear am I to wear xxxxxxxx
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

Just a smile . . . :twisted:
T-J
But more importantly..... who's going to pay for the hotel room? :twisted:
:doh: In my haste to grab a guy willing enough to shag me in my tacky underwear, I forgot that bit rolleyes

So let me just remind myself again . . .
Expensive undies = Guy pays for the room confused

Cheap tat = We share the cost 50/50 cool

Ok Cardiff, put your American Express away. We'll be going 50/50 as long as you don't peep at the labels in my drawers :roll: :grin:
Tracy-Jayne

5 Dec 2004

OK girls,
1. I'll pay anyway
2, be too busy looking at your belly buttons to see the name on your undies
3 I will have the biggest smile in Wales if you both come over
4. Now over to you
5. lalalalalalalalalalalalalalal
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

5 Dec 2004

Quote by cardiffbornlad
OK girls,
1. I'll pay anyway

The whole point we were making is that we wouldn't expect you to pay rolleyes

Quote by cardiffbornlad
2, be too busy looking at your belly buttons to see the name on your undies
:

Well I'd be most disappointed if you didn't notice the label on my undies.... they cost me a bloomin fortune after I realised that my off-white cotton belly warmers weren't doing the trick. for a flimsy bra and a thong I could floss my teeth with ffs!!

Quote by cardiffbornlad
3 I will have the biggest smile in Wales if you both come over

:laughabove: nice one..... over to you T_J ;)

5 Dec 2004

Quote by cardiffbornlad
3 I will have the biggest smile in Wales if you both come over
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

:shock: It's usually the guys who cum over me - on my face, my tits . . . blast

T-J

6 Dec 2004

Quote by RedHot

3 I will have the biggest smile in Wales if you both come over
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

:shock: It's usually the guys who cum over me - on my face, my tits . . . blast

T-J
Another good reason for wearing inexpensive lingerie. lol

It's not a problem if a bit of tat gets messed up, you can go wild a bit without worrying about ruining expensive gear.
BTW I'd like to join in with you ladies as well. I'll contribute 50/50 towards the room!
LC :wink:

6 Dec 2004

and what would you do if in my excitement I got carried away and ripped them all off
waaahhaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Going to bed now for a dream heheheheheheh
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted: