should you tell

23 Nov 2006

if a couple come across as extreemley genuine, to the extent that they chat, cam,swap numbers, ask you to contact them, then totally blank you to the extent they sign off whenever they see you sign on, should you warn other cples that you see then chattin to.
we're not fussed either way, but time wasting is a pain and would like to be warned ourselves if pple know someone to be not as genuine as they make out.
What would you do ?color]

23 Nov 2006

I wouldn't bother doing anything to be honest. It happens all the time and they might have a perfectly valid reason for not wanting to contact you anymore but may not know how to tell you.
I've had, what I thought were very successful social meets and both parties agreeing to meet again, only to have all messages and texts ignored or returned.
Chalk it on the experience board and move on :thumbup:

23 Nov 2006

Yep I totally agree with you...........in fact I think the best way to handle this is to name and shame them on the public forum that should sort em out good and proper wave

oops sorry wrong account old DB will be doing his nut over this it's not PK it's SHEDDY apolagies all redface

23 Nov 2006

:shock:
never mind the logging in on eath other's accounts issue Sheddy....
that's possibly the crappest piece of advice I've ever seen dished out on the forum, knowing full well the consequences of following it confused

23 Nov 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
I wouldn't bother doing anything to be honest. It happens all the time and they might have a perfectly valid reason for not wanting to contact you anymore but may not know how to tell you.
I've had, what I thought were very successful social meets and both parties agreeing to meet again, only to have all messages and texts ignored or returned.
Chalk it on the experience board and move on :thumbup:

thats how we're dealing with it, but we dont bite and made that very clear, so there is no reason not to say no thanks

23 Nov 2006

Quote by annienkev
I wouldn't bother doing anything to be honest. It happens all the time and they might have a perfectly valid reason for not wanting to contact you anymore but may not know how to tell you.
I've had, what I thought were very successful social meets and both parties agreeing to meet again, only to have all messages and texts ignored or returned.
Chalk it on the experience board and move on :thumbup:

thats how we're dealing with it, but we dont bite and made that very clear, so there is no reason to say no thaks
I know that, you know that and they probably do too hunni but some people just don't know how to say it dunno

23 Nov 2006

Passing pics and chatting with people who turn out to be someone other than they say is a pitfall of meeting folks over the internet. It's something I've done in the past and only from personal experience can you learn from those events.
Bet next time you ask for the phone call before you give out a stash of photos in compromising positions including faces etc... Lesson learned...say no more and move on.

23 Nov 2006

Quote by Darkfire
:shock:
never mind the logging in on eath other's accounts issue Sheddy....
that's possibly the crappest piece of advice I've ever seen dished out on the forum, knowing full well the consequences of following it

Please accept my apolagies but it just goes to show some people get irony and some don't lol

23 Nov 2006

I can see this thread heading down hill rather quickly so I've locked it, call me meanie if you like but I'm off to bed so won't hear you :lol2:

Quote by Sassy-Seren
I wouldn't bother doing anything to be honest. It happens all the time and they might have a perfectly valid reason for not wanting to contact you anymore but may not know how to tell you.
I've had, what I thought were very successful social meets and both parties agreeing to meet again, only to have all messages and texts ignored or returned.
Chalk it on the experience board and move on :thumbup:

I believe the lovely Sassy has given you the best bit of advice you can have :thumbup: