Signs to look out for?

Back in the 70s people would have a pampas grass as an indication that they played, is wearing a Key on a chain a sign that you are obedient of a mistress or master or is it a padlock? Are they all urban legends?

Although I have not seen, I have heard that a woman wearing a black ring is a sign that she is a swinger and also anklets, toe rings and thumb rings are another. But it would be good if there was something more obvious for identifying other like minded people. What signs do you yourself use?

I guess it's not necessary these days with sites like these.

Although I have met people on here, not everyone is on sites likes this. It would be good if there was some kind of hint what others are into. From experience I know many people can be prudes and even suggestion of swinging can have some people running a mile 🤣

Yes very much so, hopefully some more experienced players could fill us in.

I thought that a lady wearing a key showed that she had her partners cock in a cage and ready to play.......I am going to carry a pot full of pampas grass where ever I go from now on! That should give me an edge, lol!!

You might find some more signs here:

https://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/forum/search/posts?keywords=Pampas&match=any&author=&forum=&last=0&display=threads&return=200&submit=Search