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Quote by midsprincess
What op ??????????? do u actually read anything or just make unfounded opinionated statements!!!!
As in Original post or poster
sorry op to me in SH terms means chat or forum op/moderator
S'ok...
In forum terms it refers to the original post :-)
Quote by midsprincess
We meet single guys and we I think have been lucky with our choices.
Yes single males get a bad press on here, but God do some of them deserve it at times.
In chat some of them are just down right rude and nasty. They whisper without asking, in fact a lot are just complete arseholes but.....there are many decent honest guys out there, and a few we have met.
There is room for nice guys on this site, and no room for a few of the tossers out there. I am just glad that our experiences have been good ones, but maybe that is down to our own intuitions, and the way we go about weeding out the losers.
There are far more nice guys on this site, than there are idiots but....sometimes it is the minority that spoil things for the majority, which happens in all walks of life.
just like couples and single fems then
You think so?
As there are 100 single guys to every couple...my opinion, if you are more likely to meet guys then the percentage of wallys increases.
I never said that couples and single fems are idiots, as we know there are a few who could well be but....the stats show that single guys are a bigger problem on sites like this, than couples and single fems, purely maybe because of the numbers.
This thread IS refering to single guys, so why bring up couples or single fems? If it was about them I would have made a comment like I just have. The op was asking about single guys......simple really.
As there are 100 single guys to every couple...my opinion
Opinion is just that your thoughts Fact is what is needed you should always be able to back your opinion up with fact.
What op ??????????? do u actually read anything or just make unfounded opinionated statements!!!!
People make nasty comments about single males there are as many nasty single fems and couples as single males and there are as many nice guys a s girls and cpls.
think you have proved my point
I do read everything, obviously in this case you had no idea what I was talking about.
Appolgy excepted. :P
we too like single males, infact we have an ad up looking for jus that, but as with cpls and fems, we dont meet every single male that replies to our ad.
i do think that some single guys do get some "stick" on here, but surely swinging is about each to there own, jus because something is right for us, might not be right for the next cpl/single male/single fem that comes along.
Everybody will want different things from the swinging scene, and i think everyone should be respected for every wish for what they are looking for themselves.
So though i dont agree with single males getting a hard time on here, i think everybody should respect what other people are looking for
Mrs Hell
i do think that some single guys do get some "stick" on here, but surely swinging is about each to there own, jus because something is right for us, might not be right for the next cpl/single male/single fem that comes along.
Everybody will want different things from the swinging scene, and i think everyone should be respected for every wish for what they are looking for themselves.
So though i dont agree with single males getting a hard time on here, i think everybody should respect what other people are looking for
Mrs Hell
Quote by hell1970see mrs hell does make sense sometimes
we too like single males, infact we have an ad up looking for jus that, but as with cpls and fems, we dont meet every single male that replies to our ad.
i do think that some single guys do get some "stick" on here, but surely swinging is about each to there own, jus because something is right for us, might not be right for the next cpl/single male/single fem that comes along.
Everybody will want different things from the swinging scene, and i think everyone should be respected for every wish for what they are looking for themselves.
So though i dont agree with single males getting a hard time on here, i think everybody should respect what other people are looking for
Mrs Hell
Orgasminator
To be honest, when I saw this title I thought "What now???..." so had to read.
Its as though every week there's a new whinge about what one single male or the other has done (usually perfectly acceptable if done by a couple or single fem) or some dinlow (sp) of a chap whispering without asking permission (ps: As a single male, the unspoken rule is to be grateful when I receive such a whisper from a female or couple)
With regards to the "NO SINGLE MALES!", I fully understand why some people put that (not saying its right way to communicate, but I understand), however I've found putting "NO TIMEWASTERS!" on my profile doesn't make such females or couples think "Oops, I'm a timewaster - he clearly doesn't want me then!".
So,...
Mids hunny, thank you for this - its been a slow day, my flat-mate hunting exercise isn't going as planned, and my computer hates me, but through it all you've warmed my heart and put a smile on my face.
You deserve a bug hug and kiss, which you're more than welcome to redeem at a time of your own choosing xxxxx
Its as though every week there's a new whinge about what one single male or the other has done (usually perfectly acceptable if done by a couple or single fem) or some dinlow (sp) of a chap whispering without asking permission (ps: As a single male, the unspoken rule is to be grateful when I receive such a whisper from a female or couple)
With regards to the "NO SINGLE MALES!", I fully understand why some people put that (not saying its right way to communicate, but I understand), however I've found putting "NO TIMEWASTERS!" on my profile doesn't make such females or couples think "Oops, I'm a timewaster - he clearly doesn't want me then!".
So,...
Mids hunny, thank you for this - its been a slow day, my flat-mate hunting exercise isn't going as planned, and my computer hates me, but through it all you've warmed my heart and put a smile on my face.
You deserve a bug hug and kiss, which you're more than welcome to redeem at a time of your own choosing xxxxx
Quote by niceandgentle
midsprincess thank you for putting up this thread I thought here we go another single male knocking thread but then I saw you'd put it up and I knew it'd be a for rather than against
Here's to all us sincere single guys, world peace and free chocolate for all!
free chocolate now ya talkin
Quote by Ahabs
To be honest, when I saw this title I thought "What now???..." so had to read.
Its as though every week there's a new whinge about what one single male or the other has done (usually perfectly acceptable if done by a couple or single fem) or some dinlow (sp) of a chap whispering without asking permission (ps: As a single male, the unspoken rule is to be grateful when I receive such a whisper from a female or couple)
With regards to the "NO SINGLE MALES!", I fully understand why some people put that (not saying its right way to communicate, but I understand), however I've found putting "NO TIMEWASTERS!" on my profile doesn't make such females or couples think "Oops, I'm a timewaster - he clearly doesn't want me then!".
So,...
Mids hunny, thank you for this - its been a slow day, my flat-mate hunting exercise isn't going as planned, and my computer hates me, but through it all you've warmed my heart and put a smile on my face.
You deserve a bug hug and kiss, which you're more than welcome to redeem at a time of your own choosing xxxxx
im glad its made you happy cant be having a sad ahab now can we hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by essex34m
I like single men. I like them so much that I fuck them.
Absolutely right. Single males, fuck 'em
Dave_Notts
Oh yeah! :twisted:
Preach it brothers!
And send the cute ones this way............
I am one of the biggest fans of single men, and have met some fab ones in my time! Just wanna say thanks to them! And shame on the ones that keep asking me to piss on them in caps in a whisper....
Sex God
Did we resolve in that other thread if we are allowed to express preferences or not?
If so, I like single men. In fact, I prefer them. :rascal:
They are my men of choice.
If so, I like single men. In fact, I prefer them. :rascal:
They are my men of choice.
Orgasminator
what i find frustrating is I only ever send a pm if they specically ask for a single male, they moan that cant find anyone reliable.
Then they dont even read your add let alone reply. :jagsatwork:
any way reliable single male here.
Then they dont even read your add let alone reply. :jagsatwork:
any way reliable single male here.
Warming the Bed
Quote by midsprincess
I am sick and tired of hearing people windge and moan about single males.
Some of us actually like single males and feel they are being made to feel outcasts in this community.
I have opened this tread for people to show solidarity with single males and say :
"Single males We Like You!"
come on all of you that appreciate sngle males lets say so
well said as now i've become single not many people will talk to me but when i was on here as a couple i had loads of people to that spoke to me & i never once ignored a single male when i was on here as a couple
stepping into my alhpa male shoes, and from a single guys point of view, you need a few idiots on the site. as if every guy that come on here was, repectful, kind caring and honest, the likes of myself and a few of the genuine ones would be lost in the crowds! lol.... fair enough by having the idiots around, you have to work that liitle bit hard at gaining trust, but it rewards it self.
Sex God
Quote by TheLovelyOne
... I like single men. In fact, I prefer them. :rascal:
They are my men of choice.
i'm with you on that one honey xxx
And I'm with you both!
And if there are 100 single men here for every woman, could I have the rest of my share washed and brought to my boudoir please?
Oooh, and send me mine please too :rascal:
Quote by Ukwineman
what i find frustrating is I only ever send a pm if they specically ask for a single male, they moan that cant find anyone reliable.
Then they dont even read your add let alone reply. :jagsatwork:
any way reliable single male here.
Just spotted this.....a prog rock man!!!!!
Orgasminator
Quote by Mr_jones74
I am sick and tired of hearing people windge and moan about single males.
Some of us actually like single males and feel they are being made to feel outcasts in this community.
I have opened this tread for people to show solidarity with single males and say :
"Single males We Like You!"
come on all of you that appreciate sngle males lets say so
well said as now i've become single not many people will talk to me but when i was on here as a couple i had loads of people to that spoke to me & i never once ignored a single male when i was on here as a couple
Err... how do I put this delicately? I'll use an example:
I (once) changed my profile to "couple" for three months (those that knew us knew the lady in question, despite her never having a face pic, not even in private gallery). A couple I had tried chatting to for ages (over a year) suddenly decided they wanted to meet "us". Two problems arose:
1) They were convinced we were right for them despite not seeing my female half's face.
2) Their male half was SOOO not what my female half wanted (and she stated her preference on the then joint profile).
We debated the response, she opted to ignore replying of they ignored her clearly written response - before we could resolve that however, we went our separate ways so the matter was left alone.
The couple incidentally, when I then went back to reply had taken my once again (restored) single male profile off their friends/favourite list. Strange.
It would appear in both your and my cases, people were only interested in what we had to offer - the female (and couldn't care less about us, or what she looked like), but the scary truth is there are people like that walking around: "You're female, you'll do!".
Sex God
I like single men, so much so that I married one of them
Seriously, I take people as I find them, whether they be single males, females or couples. If they are polite and friendly then I can 100% guarantee I will be the same back to them
Seriously, I take people as I find them, whether they be single males, females or couples. If they are polite and friendly then I can 100% guarantee I will be the same back to them
Orgasminator
Quote by Lucyandmike7
what i find frustrating is I only ever send a pm if they specically ask for a single male, they moan that cant find anyone reliable.
Then they dont even read your add let alone reply. :jagsatwork:
any way reliable single male here.
Just spotted this.....a prog rock man!!!!!
Something wrong with that ????
I do have a very eclectic range in musical taste to be honest, but at heart yes i'm a prog rock man 8-)