I no longer defend single males, the syndrome has worn me down.....
we too like single males, infact we have an ad up looking for jus that, but as with cpls and fems, we dont meet every single male that replies to our ad.
i do think that some single guys do get some "stick" on here, but surely swinging is about each to there own, jus because something is right for us, might not be right for the next cpl/single male/single fem that comes along.
Everybody will want different things from the swinging scene, and i think everyone should be respected for every wish for what they are looking for themselves.
So though i dont agree with single males getting a hard time on here, i think everybody should respect what other people are looking for
Mrs Hell
To be honest, when I saw this title I thought "What now???..." so had to read.
Its as though every week there's a new whinge about what one single male or the other has done (usually perfectly acceptable if done by a couple or single fem) or some dinlow (sp) of a chap whispering without asking permission (ps: As a single male, the unspoken rule is to be grateful when I receive such a whisper from a female or couple)
With regards to the "NO SINGLE MALES!", I fully understand why some people put that (not saying its right way to communicate, but I understand), however I've found putting "NO TIMEWASTERS!" on my profile doesn't make such females or couples think "Oops, I'm a timewaster - he clearly doesn't want me then!".
So,...
Mids hunny, thank you for this - its been a slow day, my flat-mate hunting exercise isn't going as planned, and my computer hates me, but through it all you've warmed my heart and put a smile on my face.
You deserve a bug hug and kiss, which you're more than welcome to redeem at a time of your own choosing xxxxx
stepping into my alhpa male shoes, and from a single guys point of view, you need a few idiots on the site. as if every guy that come on here was, repectful, kind caring and honest, the likes of myself and a few of the genuine ones would be lost in the crowds! lol.... fair enough by having the idiots around, you have to work that liitle bit hard at gaining trust, but it rewards it self.
i think some single guys dont help themselfs by being rude ,manners dont cost anything as im a single male myself i always try to be polite an dosnt get me meets but what the hell it dosnt harm anyone
we just love single males and dont get much hassle.
Single males irritate the hell out of me and I am one. :P