Quote by essex34m
Why is that most threads deteriorate and are off topic by about the 3rd page ( most times sooner )?
just look at the names of the regular posters, that should answer your question
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Quote by Abilene
Why is that most threads deteriorate and are off topic by about the 3rd page ( most times sooner )?
Human nature.....how many times have you had a conversation with someone,changed the subject a dozen times.....then say "what were we actually talking about?"
Never ....
Give me a minute to get the right quotes and I'll show you why this never stood a chance....
Quote by Freckledbird
How can people say things like 'probably half the single men on here are probably involved with someone' and 'probably because 95% do lie'? Where do you get the figures from? It's very silly to make those kinds of comments and to be fair, they are unlikely to be accurate.
i put my hand up to that frecklebird, it probably wasn't right to state those figures there probably a little to low maybe more like 99% as everyone lies at some point wether big or small they do but only some will admit it anyhow do you have figures to prove otherwise? and where do i get these figures from? 2 years on this site, you learn a lot althouth for some reason the peeps that frequent the forums seem to be more up front and honest than the one's that just use the chatroom, not that all in the chatrroms do either, anyway back to the subject i know people cheat and thats really down to them and it thats what they wanna do they can get on with it, i for one won't encourage it or be any part of it an if that upsets someone then so be it, yes there ar genuine guys on here that there wives know what there doing but thats not the minority i'm speaking about, i've also heard i depends on there circumstances well sorry i tottaly disagree with that statement, if someone is having problems in a relationship they should be speaking to there wives and sorting it out rather than joining a swinging site and if thats all been done and hasn't worked and joining a swinging site is the last resort then there status should then be divorced not single married male, sorry if i've offended anyone but cheating is cheating regrdless of the circumstances and making excuses to cheat is just a way of removing some of the guilt.
Quote by louise_and_joe
I was approached in the chatroom by what appeared to be a single man asking to arrange a meet. When i checked his profile he was listed as a married man (not as a couple). I dont know how i feel about going with someone who is obviously lying to their better half. Especially if they live pretty close. What if the wife finds out? Is he to be trusted? What do you think?
IS IT OK TO MEET SINGLE (MARRIED MEN)?
Quote by PoloLady
Let's not get hung up on statistics - false or otherwise. This is a serious thread about the credibility of married men and I believe Louise_and_Joe are genuinely seeking guidance.
We know it is complex and that there is no simple answer. You've got to get to know people and be sure they are genuine - no other way. Sounding like a broken record me!
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The answer is simple tune... you fuck whoever you are happy fucking. It means jack-shit what other people think (they won't be doing it for you)
Touché - but there's enough grief about without creating any more. P'raps I'm a bit sensitive about the subject. I'll shut-it now!
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It is one thing to ask people for their opinions about the subject generally - and how we feel as individuals about the situation may well be a complex matter.
Asking advice on who should or shouldn't be met is not something anyone can really give/take advice on - what if the majority suggest something the individual is not happy with... should they follow the advice?
Regardless of how other people feel there is only one person who truly knows how you feel.
Anything beyond “it is up to you†becomes a battle of morals and values (some blinkered)
Quote by essex34m
Why is that most threads deteriorate and are off topic by about the 3rd page ( most times sooner )?
just look at the names of the regular posters, that should answer your question
Quote by essex34m
I have had a quick read through the thread but I think a combination of not getting to bed until 5am Sunday morning and the resulting 'yukky' feeling means i'm not firing on all cylinders, so if i'm repeating whats been said, sorry :S
You was only asked to show Dlep where marcusos was, did you follow him, instead of him following you?
No thats what happens when you take Calista to the after munch party at Marcusos... we get home late
to be fair, Dlep could get lost in a lift
No he couldn't.... he'd never get in it.... he'd spend all night trying to figure out which one of the 2 doors he should go in thru :rotflmao:
and thats after he has stared blankly for an hour at the two buttons that open the doors
Tum-ti-tum-tum
Quote by da69ve
Tum-ti-tum-tum
and EXACTLY how many words was that young lady???
Who cares - it was woth it for the point making purpose
True ... lol
Oi ... where did my sig go?????
It's probably gone off with a married guy with a nice cock :lol:
Shhhh!!......don't tell essex that! :lol:
its not her signature i want
Quote by H-x
Out of interest does anyone want a sensible answer to the thread question?
H.x
Yes - did you not see it through all of the smoke?
Quote by PoloLady
I was approached in the chatroom by what appeared to be a single man asking to arrange a meet. When i checked his profile he was listed as a married man (not as a couple). I dont know how i feel about going with someone who is obviously lying to their better half. Especially if they live pretty close. What if the wife finds out? Is he to be trusted? What do you think?
IS IT OK TO MEET SINGLE (MARRIED MEN)?
Quote by PoloLady
Let's not get hung up on statistics - false or otherwise. This is a serious thread about the credibility of married men and I believe Louise_and_Joe are genuinely seeking guidance.
We know it is complex and that there is no simple answer. You've got to get to know people and be sure they are genuine - no other way. Sounding like a broken record me!
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The answer is simple tune... you fuck whoever you are happy fucking. It means jack-shit what other people think (they won't be doing it for you)
Touché - but there's enough grief about without creating any more. P'raps I'm a bit sensitive about the subject. I'll shut-it now!
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It is one thing to ask people for their opinions about the subject generally - and how we feel as individuals about the situation may well be a complex matter.
Asking advice on who should or shouldn't be met is not something anyone can really give/take advice on - what if the majority suggest something the individual is not happy with... should they follow the advice?
Regardless of how other people feel there is only one person who truly knows how you feel.
Anything beyond “it is up to you†becomes a battle of morals and values (some blinkered)
This is only my view, each to their own I say - whatever works for you. Disclaimer over.
I am seeing a married guy, well he's in a SLTR. And for this reason I definately wouldn't do it again. Although it's all above board and there is no deceit involved, it still makes me feel uneasy. I don't like the fact that I'm putting him in an awkward position, and ,although our relationship is strictly speaking, more than swinging, the practical problems involved would be the same, and they'd be even worse if he wasn't honest with his partner. Planning is nigh on impossible.
Plus having been in a serious monogomous long term relationship myself, I know how devestated I'd have been if my then partner had been seeing someone else.
I don't go to clubs (the consept hasn't reached south wales as yet
) and so I don't think I can comment on that aspect of swinging.
I appreciate the guys who are honest about being marred and I don't think they should be slated for it, it's just a shame that this honesty sometimes doesn't start closer to home.
H.x
I am seeing a married guy, well he's in a SLTR. And for this reason I definately wouldn't do it again. Although it's all above board and there is no deceit involved, it still makes me feel uneasy. I don't like the fact that I'm putting him in an awkward position, and ,although our relationship is strictly speaking, more than swinging, the practical problems involved would be the same, and they'd be even worse if he wasn't honest with his partner. Planning is nigh on impossible.
Plus having been in a serious monogomous long term relationship myself, I know how devestated I'd have been if my then partner had been seeing someone else.
I don't go to clubs (the consept hasn't reached south wales as yet
) and so I don't think I can comment on that aspect of swinging.I appreciate the guys who are honest about being marred and I don't think they should be slated for it, it's just a shame that this honesty sometimes doesn't start closer to home.
H.x
Has no-one thought that maybe there are some 'single', 'married' men due to them having a one sided open relationship!
i.e. --- the wife knows and consents to him 'getting it' elsewhere as she may have little or no sex drive in an otherwise loving relationship..... but may not wish to know of all his activities!! -in other words she may be turning a blind eye because he is a loving husband in every way SHE wants him to be?
Where else is he going to fulfil his sexual desires ---- openly being unfaithful with females who may be looking for a relationship, either in his locallity - or on a dating site ????
Surely far better to be upfront and honest about the fact he's married ...... and then only have sexual encounters with single females and couples who are OBVIOUSLY not looking for a long term relationship (other than friendship and sex)......allowing him to continue to love his wife and family, whilst not being a total b'stard!
Well that's my tupence worth........ and hopefully food for thought that not everything is black or white!
i.e. --- the wife knows and consents to him 'getting it' elsewhere as she may have little or no sex drive in an otherwise loving relationship..... but may not wish to know of all his activities!! -in other words she may be turning a blind eye because he is a loving husband in every way SHE wants him to be?
Where else is he going to fulfil his sexual desires ---- openly being unfaithful with females who may be looking for a relationship, either in his locallity - or on a dating site ????
Surely far better to be upfront and honest about the fact he's married ...... and then only have sexual encounters with single females and couples who are OBVIOUSLY not looking for a long term relationship (other than friendship and sex)......allowing him to continue to love his wife and family, whilst not being a total b'stard!
Well that's my tupence worth........ and hopefully food for thought that not everything is black or white!
Quote by Kiss
???? but I don't have a cock? Not one of my own anyway!!
I thought I was bringing mine!
FFS Kiss ... if you keep teasing me I am soooooo gonna call your bluff and drive your way !!!!
My bluff is ready to be called. 8-)
Called ..... Called ... Called ..... now dammit ... PM me with arrangements !!! :twisted:
Quote by Atlantis
Has no-one thought that maybe there are some 'single', 'married' men due to them having a one sided open relationship!
i.e. --- the wife knows and consents to him 'getting it' elsewhere as she may have little or no sex drive in an otherwise loving relationship.....
Been in this situation with a woman rather than a man, and we asked to meet her husband just to make sure (didn't want to be named as 2nd respondent in a divorce case ;) ) but I realise for some this takes it away from the 'bit of quick fun' and into a more serious type of arrangement.
To be honest it comes down to how you feel with the person, we all make so many judgements of each other that may or may not be true, but thats how we base our reactions and this is just another one of those situations.
