Quote by duncanlondon
Ice Pie.
Are you simply saying that you want to fall in love?
Well I've got to say I'm intrigued - there is some motive behind it - but what I wonder!!
Quote by westerross
I wonder what inspired this - I obviously missed the deleted thread so I don't think I can comment. Without the context it seems a pretty random subject to open up - care to elucidate?
Quote by Ice Pie
I wonder what inspired this - I obviously missed the deleted thread so I don't think I can comment. Without the context it seems a pretty random subject to open up - care to elucidate?
Quote by PoloLady
Why-o-why is it that some people just can?t be honest about what they want?
Quote by candyfloss
One of the first things I said to him was that honesty was everything to me,and that if he ever changed his mind, or found he'd made a mistake, then though i'd be hurt, I made him promise that he'd tell me,and not let me make a fool of myself.
Unfortunately, he couldnt be honest, and he cheated, so now not only am i left with a broken heart but the betrayal to.
Honesty, guys and gals, the only thing you need, remember that.
candyfloss xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by candyfloss
I have a sneaky suspicion, that the post in debate was mine.
We'd all stop worrying so much about what others think of us, if only we realised how seldom they do
Quote by candyfloss
eerm angelchat i never said, i was convinced it was me, just said a suspicion, and it wasnt a
go at ice pie, would never presume i was everyones topic of right its very
sad that someonelse is going through what i'm going through and whoever it is i wish them happiness and a speedy recovery.
As you said you have had your say on this matter, and as i remember you had a lot to say it would be nice of you to let others gain whatever small bit of healing they can from opening up their hearts, as you must of done, instead of presuming that we're all doing it for the attention as some obviously have done.
candyfloss xxxx
Quote by Angel Chat
eerm angelchat i never said, i was convinced it was me, just said a suspicion, and it wasnt a
go at ice pie, would never presume i was everyones topic of right its very
sad that someonelse is going through what i'm going through and whoever it is i wish them happiness and a speedy recovery.
As you said you have had your say on this matter, and as i remember you had a lot to say it would be nice of you to let others gain whatever small bit of healing they can from opening up their hearts, as you must of done, instead of presuming that we're all doing it for the attention as some obviously have done.
candyfloss xxxx
Quote by westerross
OK, purely academically, of course, let’s explore on of the areas where this could be heading.
What if you’re in a relationship with someone and for whatever reason you say you love them – might be in the heat of the moment or that you genuinely believe it at the time. But then you realise that, in fact, you don’t. Now you really like this person and they are obviously besotted with you and you really don’t want to hurt them – what would you do (and don’t say you wouldn’t say it in the first place because it does happen and it would spoil the question anyway).
Would you:
1) Come straight out with it and say ‘I’m sorry – I said I love you but I don’t’
2) Keep going with the deception for fear of causing an upset
3) Get a friend to tell them straight or
4) Get a friend to raise the subject in a round about way to see if the partner gets the message on their own
5) Other – please specify
Sorry my typesetting is crap and I couldn't possibly start a poll!
Quote by Happy Cats
If you were pissed, then that is the cop out - "God I hope I didnt do or say anything stupid"
If not - I reckon I would try to be honest.
Quote by duncanlondon
So having done all this. Am I correct in assessing that Ice narrowed things down and wanted the get out.
That the woman,(not sure who it is),
wanted and was open to the full settlement?
Quote by Ice Pie
it is not, from my point of view, about any particular individuals.
Quote by Ice Pie???
Someone posted something, I had an opinion, I expressed it.
So do we need a judge,a referee or Solomon?
Quote by x-man0223
now this has been a interesting read
i cant say what anyone else on here is looking for but for me it is simple i want to be able to have a laugh when i cant afford to go out i want to meet new friends which i have i am not in it for a shag i havent even posted a add and i have been very lacking in pm's(sending). if i do end up meeting somone then i have to expect that it proberly wont be what normal people would consider a normal relationship and if it dosent work out then so be it.
so i think i am saying is come to the site and eventualy i will make a munch maybe i will meet somone and if i do i will remeber where i met them but most of all i hope i have the most fun i can have all the way thru and not upset anyone and if the sex ever comes into it then leave the major emotions at the door as it proberly is not going to go anywhere if it ever happens
enjoy the site all and just have fun
Quote by duncanlondon
Apolgies Ice if you were/are pissed off.
Quote by PoloLady
Some (not all) single women only meet single guys because they have a hidden agenda to gain a partner (more than a swinging partner).
Some (not all) single guys only meet single women because they have a hidden agenda to shag as many women as possible and think this is the easy way of doing it.
Quote by duncanlondon
Which brings me to the expression 'hardened swingers'. I assume they have had considerable experience, and there is no way they will fall into a messy emotional state with anyone.
So do we narrow our experiences by controlling our thoughts and emotions, and avoid hurt and disaster.
Or do we go with the flow and do that special, wonderful thing?
Are we so in control that we can turn these thing on and off as and when we require?