Quote by davej
eermm that word again....
Tongue sandwich :bounce:
Tonsil tickling :bounce: :bounce:
or, as it`s known on my planet........
Sucking the life-force out of unsuspecting humans! :twisted:
Venusxxx
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Snogging at munches
Sex God
Quote by Sgt Bilko
Sarge thinks about giving Davej a big tonguey snog next time they meet.
On reflection, he thinks again and strikes Davej off his Snog list!!!
davej reminds himself to eat a wheelbarrow full, of spicy Dorito's just in case the Sarge leaves his list at home.
Venus Nooo..... :scared: there just has to be better words.
Sex God
but kissing just sounds altogether too chaste. not sure neckings any better? called petting in your day dave tho eh? ;-) 
as usual i was being very flippant about the whole thing before. the only serious bit was asking Mars how he felt? i hope i was clear on when i could and couldn't. and blowing me rep right out the water, there were only a few TBH. much more of the warm hugging than full on stuff. usually pretty clear from others actions at the first approach whether it's a hug, polite peck, or full on snog. having said that alcohol, in copious amounts, does tend to blur the boundaries a bit. if i thought i'd been obnoxious in the way Venus suggested, or otherwise caused offence, i'd be mortified. i know for some kissing even in a swinging situation is a no-no, let alone a social meet.
neil ;-)
as usual i was being very flippant about the whole thing before. the only serious bit was asking Mars how he felt? i hope i was clear on when i could and couldn't. and blowing me rep right out the water, there were only a few TBH. much more of the warm hugging than full on stuff. usually pretty clear from others actions at the first approach whether it's a hug, polite peck, or full on snog. having said that alcohol, in copious amounts, does tend to blur the boundaries a bit. if i thought i'd been obnoxious in the way Venus suggested, or otherwise caused offence, i'd be mortified. i know for some kissing even in a swinging situation is a no-no, let alone a social meet.
neil ;-)
Sex God
Isn't snogging (or french kissing for Dave) a bit of a liberty with someone you don't know - unles you've volunteered for an orgy! Kind of devalues the real thing.
I think Ice could put a small suffix on the badges for those who are Ok with it - something like "puckered".
I think Ice could put a small suffix on the badges for those who are Ok with it - something like "puckered".
Quote by Steve_Lincs
I know what you mean Mars,i was quite reserved............to start with,then after several vodka's and cokes i really didnt care and was giving them on the principle that it was the polite thing to do.
Clare would have gladly given you a snog,as i'm sure would several of the other girlies there.
It used to bother me when Clare snogged other people in swinging situations but i'm well and truely over that now and i loved to see her giving and recieving snogs off the blokes,but especially the snogs she got off Venus.:wink:
I think at the Notts munch everyone should snog,just to be polite,coz it's just another way of saying hello,and it's much better than a hand shake:lol:
I quite agree. Snogging should be de rigueur at munches. It's the Swinging Heaven equivalent of the Masonic handshake.
I look forward with much anticipation to the next snogathon at Nottingham.
LC :wink:
Ok, I admit I kissed a few ladies on the night, but only when I fel it would be the correct thing to do, such as seeing the lady leaning toward me with the obvious intention of recieving a kiss.
As in all things, I respect the ladies judgement, and allow her to offer her lips or cheek, whichever she feels comfortable with.
Surely, even with lip to lip contact, it doe's not take a geniuse to work out whether the lady expects a deep searching kiss or not. Question; are the lips parting as you kiss, do you feel her pulling you closer as you embrase, is she haolding the back of your head causing deeper and more passionate contact? It only take a split second to know and resond accordingly, and if you should miss-judge the situation; simply appologise and show that you're man enough to.
Thanks Venus
As in all things, I respect the ladies judgement, and allow her to offer her lips or cheek, whichever she feels comfortable with.
Surely, even with lip to lip contact, it doe's not take a geniuse to work out whether the lady expects a deep searching kiss or not. Question; are the lips parting as you kiss, do you feel her pulling you closer as you embrase, is she haolding the back of your head causing deeper and more passionate contact? It only take a split second to know and resond accordingly, and if you should miss-judge the situation; simply appologise and show that you're man enough to.
Thanks Venus
I have to agree with Davej (someone mark that on the SH calendar please!)
I jokingly referred to having snogged Morbius in a previous thread, but what actually ocurred was a rather chaste kiss on the lips as Se7 and I were leaving the club.
There was one other snogging incident, and I enjoyed that very much, but my lips are sealed on who that was ;) (And se7 is in on the secret before anyone wonders about that lol)
However, if people were to come up, say hello and then attempt to snog me, I'd be taken aback to say the least, and definitely uncomfortable and perhaps even offended :shock:
Full on snogging (for me anyway) is something I'd rather share with a very special person, not to be distributed amongst anyone and everyone
I jokingly referred to having snogged Morbius in a previous thread, but what actually ocurred was a rather chaste kiss on the lips as Se7 and I were leaving the club.
There was one other snogging incident, and I enjoyed that very much, but my lips are sealed on who that was ;) (And se7 is in on the secret before anyone wonders about that lol)
However, if people were to come up, say hello and then attempt to snog me, I'd be taken aback to say the least, and definitely uncomfortable and perhaps even offended :shock:
Full on snogging (for me anyway) is something I'd rather share with a very special person, not to be distributed amongst anyone and everyone
Sex God
sorry Angel Chat / Mr Angel Chat!
i won't do it again!
*hangs head in shame* ((( tm easy 2004 )))
;-)
right. so it's one o' them boundary issues i heard so much about??? ;-)
n x x x
i won't do it again!
*hangs head in shame* ((( tm easy 2004 )))
;-)
right. so it's one o' them boundary issues i heard so much about??? ;-)
n x x x
Sex God
Just to clarify matters ......................on the mouth ???
Sex God
Quote by Angel Chat
I have to agree with Davej (someone mark that on the SH calendar please!)
I jokingly referred to having snogged Morbius in a previous thread, but what actually ocurred was a rather chaste kiss on the lips as Se7 and I were leaving the club.
There was one other snogging incident, and I enjoyed that very much, but my lips are sealed on who that was ;) (And se7 is in on the secret before anyone wonders about that lol)
However, if people were to come up, say hello and then attempt to snog me, I'd be taken aback to say the least, and definitely uncomfortable and perhaps even offended :shock:
Full on snogging (for me anyway) is something I'd rather share with a very special person, not to be distributed amongst anyone and everyone
Hope you didn't mind the impromptu "grope".
I do some funny things when I'm excited.
ops: :o Quote by westerross
Isn't snogging (or french kissing for Dave) a bit of a liberty with someone you don't know - unles you've volunteered for an orgy! Kind of devalues the real thing.
I think Ice could put a small suffix on the badges for those who are Ok with it - something like "puckered".
No I don`t think so. As long as the parties involved are ok with it, it`s valuable in it`s own right. I found it thoroughly liberating and fun, which for me wasn`t at all cheap. Like Misshief said, I was glowing. I personally prefer not to snog people I don`t `know`, although one or two I`d only met that night so how well I knew them could be debated! The badge idea would be a nightmare
it might encourage complete strangers to grab, which I wouldn`t be up for. To have to repeatedly rebuff people could ruin the night. I completely respect the bounderies of people like Davej, and just hope that in a party situation that my homing in on such a person wouldn`t be too much of a faux pas. If you don`t like it, then please shout! In a roomful of people who are mostly into this fun, I can see it becoming a fairly easy mistake.
I think as it`s impossible to put complete faith in ones own judgement, it was prudent for me not to try anything other than a friendly snog, that way if it was unwelcomed, I wouldn`t have overstepped the mark into `groping territory`, that would have been much more difficult to back-peddle from, and with the wrong person might be viewed upon as assault. Gosh, me a sex pest! Can you imagine?! :shock:
If say, Neil, had squirmed out of my grasp and said `no`, I would have respected that (then run over to Mars and told him to beat Neil up! :P ) If I`d ended up a little embarrassed, that was a risk I was prepared to take, I`d much rather that than someone going along with it through `politeness`, better me embarrassed the other person manhandled.
Others at the munch were much more daring than I, allowing themselves to play in the groping territory, and I did find myself thinking `it`s a good thing they tried that with me, and not someone more reserved, else they might find themselves in trouble!` But they did try it with me, so perhaps like me they were just trying to read the right person. I was never offended, but it did make me think about how to react to anyone I`d be less receptive too.
At my first munch I snogged noone, I wanted to, there were a couple there who we`d been getting along with. I asked Mars, I hovered, I drank a little more, and by the time I worked up the courage it was too late! I made up for lost time! :twisted:
Davej, I prefer `snog` because it is slang, and reflects how `unserious` the gesture is to me.
Anyway, I might try something different at the next Munch, like maybe, erm, conversation! I`ll let you all know how I get on
:mrgreen:Venusxxx
Quote by Calista
Snog sounds so teenage to me .... I tend to "smooch" with people ..
Isn't that when your neck gets all wet too? Or is smoch and necking different when it crosses the Atlantic?
I tend to agree with Venus, that something non-important should have another term, but snog or snogging does have a certain school girl/boy ring to it, and pecking seems quite victorian.
Perhaps someone with more acedemic brains than we have could think up an ideal expression to fit the twentyfirst century, and our liberated lifestyle
: Now who do we know on here for guidance, Neil perhaps, or even our Sarg? Maybe our Mods could get their heads together and come up with something suitable :?: Who knows, we could be giving each other lupps when meeting next :idea:
As ive said,yep im into snogging,but each to their own i guess!!
Well as were working soooo hard to make the Notts munch the best we possibly can i think we'll deserve a few just for being so damn good at arranging And then a few just because!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ive already got a few on my list,now i need some more :twisted:
Well as were working soooo hard to make the Notts munch the best we possibly can i think we'll deserve a few just for being so damn good at arranging
And then a few just because!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Ive already got a few on my list,now i need some more :twisted:
Sex God
I wish to point out at this early stage that I am quite happy to be snogged by any of the ladies at the Notts Munch. (I think it would be polite for any of the guys to ask first though )
I am stating this now so that you all know I will not be offended by being pinned to the floor beneath a heaving mass of female flesh the moment I walk through the door. :lol: :lol: ........................I wish!!!!!!
Roger (The most snoggable Dragon going to the Notts Munch.)
)I am stating this now so that you all know I will not be offended by being pinned to the floor beneath a heaving mass of female flesh the moment I walk through the door. :lol: :lol: ........................I wish!!!!!!
Roger (The most snoggable Dragon going to the Notts Munch.)
Quote by davej
Rather against the flow here but for us its a definate no. We would be offended at a munch in the same way that we would be offended in any other pub on a Saturday night. We have always reserved the type of kiss that is being described, solely for each other and find it a very intimate act that we have always kept between ourselves.
If as Venus has mentioned people are able to judge a situation and can work out if the recipiant will welcome the attention then fine, unfortunately our experiance has shown that there are a very small minority that can't.
It would seem by your responses, that most do not mind and each to their own, however I would urge that jumping in with both feet (does that sound right...nope) may not always bring a pleasant nor positive response. I supose all I am saying is the same as Wilki. Some like it others don't.
Ive felt the same in the past,especially in swinging situations.I used to really bother me,but i'm trying to loosen up now,and Clare really likes it so i'm going with the flow nowadays.
I do understand your thoughts though,everyone has theyre own feelings of things and thats cool.
I wasnt gonna go up to you and snog you anyway,so your safe from me
davej is now gonna go catch a wasp in his hand and let it sting his typing fingers.....
Another a bit against the flow, I know Mrs TnH would go ballistic if someone tried to snog her, or indeed me (not that I wouldn't enjoy it). I like the block on pressure at munches, and if people felt they had to be open for a 'snog' then I know Mrs TnH wouldn't go to any more.
Having said that people should feel open within there own limits, and if both parties up for a snog I have no problems with it. The door swings both ways
Having said that people should feel open within there own limits, and if both parties up for a snog I have no problems with it. The door swings both ways
Quote by tallnhairy
Another a bit against the flow, I know Mrs TnH would go ballistic if someone tried to snog her, or indeed me (not that I wouldn't enjoy it). I like the block on pressure at munches, and if people felt they had to be open for a 'snog' then I know Mrs TnH wouldn't go to any more.
Having said that people should feel open within there own limits, and if both parties up for a snog I have no problems with it. The door swings both ways
I already knew that and wouldn`t have dreamed of trying :) , if I didn`t already know, I would have probably picked up on it, but people do need to be aware that there are people like yourselves at munches with these bounderies and be careful with thier judgements as a result.
Oh my god, I think I just had a Jerry Springer moment!
Venusxxx
Sex God
Quote by VenusnMars
Oh my god, I think I just had a Jerry Springer moment!
Venusxxx
Ve-nus! Ve-nus! Ve-nus! Ve-nus! Ve-nus!
(Take care of yourselves... and each other.)
Jer-ry who? Never heard of him. ;)
I already knew that and wouldn`t have dreamed of trying , if I didn`t already know, I would have probably picked up on it, but people do need to be aware that there are people like yourselves at munches with these bounderies and be careful with thier judgements as a result.
Oh my god, I think I just had a Jerry Springer moment!
Venusxxx
No you're alright Venus, there's no-one throwing chairs about, or trying to punch one another, so I would take it that you simply spake words of wisdom.
, if I didn`t already know, I would have probably picked up on it, but people do need to be aware that there are people like yourselves at munches with these bounderies and be careful with thier judgements as a result.Oh my god, I think I just had a Jerry Springer moment!
Venusxxx
No you're alright Venus, there's no-one throwing chairs about, or trying to punch one another, so I would take it that you simply spake words of wisdom.
Quote by VenusnMars
No you're alright Venus, there's no-one throwing chairs about, or trying to punch one another, so I would take it that you simply spake words of wisdom.
Well seeing as he earns more than I, I might start a `Carnage` thread :twisted:
Venusxxx
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: No-one could have sweeter lips than you. Sorry wrong thread, but true.
psst, Venus doesn't know how to accept compliments, she said, so lets try?
