We totally prefer to meet people socially first, then take things from there. However, we have met ppl before actually seeing them first.
Someone said in another thread about pics dont always portray a true pic of some people. I can understand ppl want to put their "best bits" in a photo but it doesnt always paint the same picture of the person u have painted in ur head.
This is why we prefer to meet ppl socially first, which is usually done through socials or munches. I get nervous before meets and it makes it that much easier knowing who ur meeting b4hand and not being in the uncomfortable postiion of meeting someone who isn't ur type and thinking of the niscest possible way of saying "Im sorry, ur are nice but u just aren't my type, sorry!"
Miss Cream xxx
we always meet socially first (away from our home),for obvious weve played after a drink / chat, sometimes we've not, it all depends how we all got on.
I insist on a social meet first. Even if someone sounds really nice there still has to be sexual chemistry there. It happened recently - he liked her, I didn't so we never played.
I think getting to that first meet is very delicate all 's brave of all concerned to get even that far.
For me much of the interest is sexual but I can accept it if that isn't on the agenda for that first time together in the same place, or ever for that don't have to end up in bed with people to like them and still enjoy their if I LIKE like them and they LIKE like me and sex was always the intention then I see no problem with playing there and then.
(Oh in a private setting there and then I mean, not there and then in the bar or whatever public place you first met up in lol!)
