We're all signed up to this site for a reason only I don't seem to be very successful at finding no-strings sex with an older woman.
I'm thinking the men to women ratio on this site is totally disproportionate and their may be better places to look. Afterall, is this predominatly a 'Swinging' site rather than a one-to-one sex site?
For the record, I am a regular sort of guy just over 30, athletic and intelligent. I do however, have an insatiable appetite for the guilty pleasures of promiscious sex with a stranger.
Does this make me come across as the socially inept loner type? If so what am I doing wrong?
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Some advice please - Attracting Older Women
hi ,
welcome to sh.
humm i think where ever you go there will be more guys than single women.
there are tons of different people here, with different out looks on what swinging is and what they are looking for.
one thing that irritates me is when a guy feels a few drinks and a chat before or after sex constitutes to strings.
the other is the ones who give all the chat before then cant pass time of day in a chat room after.
but you seem to be very open and honest about what your loking for. profile looks nice etc.
depends how much you want it and how much time you put in to finding it.
good luck
xxx fem xx
welcome to sh.
humm i think where ever you go there will be more guys than single women.
there are tons of different people here, with different out looks on what swinging is and what they are looking for.
one thing that irritates me is when a guy feels a few drinks and a chat before or after sex constitutes to strings.
the other is the ones who give all the chat before then cant pass time of day in a chat room after.
but you seem to be very open and honest about what your loking for. profile looks nice etc.
depends how much you want it and how much time you put in to finding it.
good luck
xxx fem xx
The best tip I can give is to get known on the site. I noticed this is your first post in the forums (:welcome
but many of the people using the site spend time here and in the chat room. Roll your sleeves up, forget about trying too hard to find the right meet, and just enjoy the ride. Once people get a feel for the sort of person you are they're more likely to want to meet you.
In edit: Put your name down for some of the socials/munches too ;-)
but many of the people using the site spend time here and in the chat room. Roll your sleeves up, forget about trying too hard to find the right meet, and just enjoy the ride. Once people get a feel for the sort of person you are they're more likely to want to meet you.In edit: Put your name down for some of the socials/munches too ;-)
Hello
Quote by Nordicmale
Does this make me come across as the socially inept loner type?
welcome to the Fora... I have nothing to say about attractine people, though I do relate to the above.
as for the 'older woman' bit, I have always had a bit of a'thing' for the more mature woman too.... however, this 'taste' developed when I was a wee whipper-snapper.
as I have aged (I would say matured, though I am niether mature, nor a cheese, so feel it wouldn't fit) my taste has remained the same...
... this has continued to the point where the age range, if I were to be specific, of the type of woman/person I would find attractive is actually well within my own age range... even younger!... blimey.
I'm old! What happened? It should never have come to this... I should never have been allowed to survive this long.
It's a natural travesty!
shoot me now (silver bullet... and a steak to the heart just to be sure, thanks)
lp
Sex God
older woman ?
lots will go to clubs to play as they have teenagers..
most can only play when they get a chance.. but most will like to know a guy befor jumping in bed with just a hi.....
lots will go to clubs to play as they have teenagers..
most can only play when they get a chance.. but most will like to know a guy befor jumping in bed with just a hi.....
Sex God
When does being old start?? 
i can tell you some of the best meet come from people you wouldnt just happen and when they do great friendships are to be had.
ladies of all shapes and sizes buddy.
They are all human beings and not just a piece of meat.
You will find plenty here who will chat to you just remember to be yourself and polite.
ladies of all shapes and sizes buddy.
They are all human beings and not just a piece of meat.
You will find plenty here who will chat to you just remember to be yourself and polite.
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
When does being old start??
I'll let you know when I get there
Does that mean you will be crossing the bridge, sometime soon??
Sex God
You have always had an open offer!
Sex God
If the OP finds the answer can he please let me know ;-)
Sex God
Quote by Steve
If the OP finds the answer can he please let me know ;-)
You should do your own research and not rely on others to do it for you!!!!! :giggle:
Sex God
Quote by Sarah
If the OP finds the answer can he please let me know ;-)
You should do your own research and not rely on others to do it for you!!!!! :giggle:
I've been researching since 2003 :lol2:
Hi Mike here.
Speaking as the husband of someone who gets a lot of requests from younger guys, I can say that in my opinion you have answered your own question. Lucy like many other women on this site, find it difficult to keep up with replying to all the messages from younger guys, never mind meeting any of them.
Having read some of the other replys to your question, I think the advice given so far has been good. You have to get yourself known in the chat rooms, or as you have done in the forums. Dont whisper, and dont say "nice tits love"!! Despite at first the seeming large number of people on the chat rooms, it does not take long to get to know a lot of people, and it is amazing what a bit of witty banter can do for you.
In the end you have to stand out a little from the rest of the crowd
Good luck in your search.
Mike
Speaking as the husband of someone who gets a lot of requests from younger guys, I can say that in my opinion you have answered your own question. Lucy like many other women on this site, find it difficult to keep up with replying to all the messages from younger guys, never mind meeting any of them.
Having read some of the other replys to your question, I think the advice given so far has been good. You have to get yourself known in the chat rooms, or as you have done in the forums. Dont whisper, and dont say "nice tits love"!! Despite at first the seeming large number of people on the chat rooms, it does not take long to get to know a lot of people, and it is amazing what a bit of witty banter can do for you.
In the end you have to stand out a little from the rest of the crowd
Good luck in your search.
Mike
Master of Sex
Quote by Lucyandmike7
..... and dont say "nice tits love"!!
So that's where I've been going wrong!
