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my girlfriend and i hav decided 2 try the scene. both of us have been interested for a while and we've decided 2 give it a try 2nite.
now heres the thing - im quite close 2 xanadus so we were thinking of going there so i was wondering if anyone could let me know what their experiences of the place have been.........i dont want it 2 be a disaster!!!
cheers
Our 1st time at a swinging club was at xandaus, and we did'nt like it at all, it was very cliquey, and quite a few single men who soon as we moved they followed us, we havent been back needless to say , but that was over a year ago and it may have changed by now..
Hope you both have fun were ever u decide to go biggrin
Lindaxxx
There has been a recent thread basically saying Xanadus is not so good to start out in. Perhaps you might like to try Cupids in Swinton tonight. (the fact that we are there to-night is pure co-incidence biggrin ).
If you do go, say hello to us!! Just listen for the couple with the Geordie accents. Oh, and Shels knickers, same as in the photo lol
John & Shel
I always think it quite difficult to give a opinion on clubs as everyone likes different and there are so many 'types' of clubs about now days, i always say to new couples try a club on a couples night for your first time, couples nights are always more relaxed and i find people tend to chat more and you can move about without the single guys following you (unless thats what you want wink ) then manybe move onto a mixed night when you have found your feet a bit and know the scene a little better smile
either way have fun :thumbup:
u know i didnt know there was one in swinton! but a friendly face might help (ur wife's legs dont hurt either biggrin
Or there is Partners in Bury???
Whatever you do, dip your toe in the shallow end before you go diving in the deep end.... no rush, and have fun.
Have a look at the "clubs and parties" tab at the top of this page for clubs in the NW.
I would recommend Liaisons in Rochdale. The hosts (and the clientele) are very friendly, and the place unpretentious. There is very rarely any pushy behaviour there. See details under "clubs and parties".
Mike.
So Manctripod, where did you go last night then? And did you have fun?
John & Shel
Xans isn't the best place to start....... anywhere but Xans is better.
As it's Sunday morning now, tell us where you did end up going! smile