some people eh?

29 Jan 2005

Just having to let off some a response to my ad last thursday night i replied and asked for a photo-fair enough me thinks!On receipt of the photo i explained just to be honest that i would not be able to meet till next week-due to previous arrangements.I logged on to my computer today to find an abusive email telling me to go f*ck myself-if she wasnt worth a f*ck that night-not to bother you waste of space!now is it me with the problem or her?Very confused right now. evil

29 Jan 2005

sounds like comunication problem confused

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29 Jan 2005

Quote by ajg426
Just having to let off some a response to my ad last thursday night i replied and asked for a photo-fair enough me thinks!On receipt of the photo i explained just to be honest that i would not be able to meet till next week-due to previous arrangements.I logged on to my computer today to find an abusive email telling me to go f*ck myself-if she wasnt worth a f*ck that night-not to bother you waste of space!now is it me with the problem or her?Very confused right now.

Ho hum. I guess some people are just a bit rude confused

Usually it's the people that reply who think they can have instant sex when they make contact, but hey, ignore her. You did nothing wrong. If she continues to hassle you give her email address to a mod and we'll see if she's in the habit of abusing people confused

29 Jan 2005

Quote by johnneuk1
sounds like comunication problem :

i would hope so/however i dont think i was too unrealistic to expect a more realistic reply/i.e non abusive-after all this was after-what 30 odd hours/maybe it was for the best? confused

29 Jan 2005

Quote by bluexxx
Just having to let off some a response to my ad last thursday night i replied and asked for a photo-fair enough me thinks!On receipt of the photo i explained just to be honest that i would not be able to meet till next week-due to previous arrangements.I logged on to my computer today to find an abusive email telling me to go f*ck myself-if she wasnt worth a f*ck that night-not to bother you waste of space!now is it me with the problem or her?Very confused right now.

Ho hum. I guess some people are just a bit rude confused

Usually it's the people that reply who think they can have instant sex when they make contact, but hey, ignore her. You did nothing wrong. If she continues to hassle you give her email address to a mod and we'll see if she's in the habit of abusing people confused

thanks for that blue smile

29 Jan 2005

Quote by ajg426
sounds like comunication problem :

i would hope so/however i dont think i was too unrealistic to expect a more realistic reply/i.e non abusive-after all this was after-what 30 odd hours/maybe it was for the best? confused

might have built her hopes up, got her all excited,she sends her ,pic you knock her back a week, confused

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maybe shes had it happen before, or encountered timewasters in the past,not confident in herself with regards to pic,
or maybe she is time waster herself
or PMT
wink

29 Jan 2005

Rise above it hunni. You are better than them. Is this really the type of person you would want to have fun with anyway.
Lucky escape if you ask me.
Gill x

29 Jan 2005

Quote by dundeecpl
Rise above it hunni. You are better than them. Is this really the type of person you would want to have fun with anyway.
Lucky escape if you ask me.
Gill x

aw thanks for that and you are quite right-think it was a lucky escape smile

29 Jan 2005

Quote by ajg426
Just having to let off some a response to my ad last thursday night i replied and asked for a photo-fair enough me thinks!On receipt of the photo i explained just to be honest that i would not be able to meet till next week-due to previous arrangements.I logged on to my computer today to find an abusive email telling me to go f*ck myself-if she wasnt worth a f*ck that night-not to bother you waste of space!now is it me with the problem or her?Very confused right now.

A little more tact might have been helpful - like telling her you couldnt meet for a week or so, before you got her picture!!! Cos does look kind of like you said that because of her picture confused

But yeh, her reply was bang out of order, no need for that at all.

29 Jan 2005

You've done nothing wrong and like Dundee couple say a 'lucky escape'. Anyone worth their salt would be prepared to wait weeks, maybe even months before a first meet. That's how it works here on the forum, we like to get to know people before we meet. It makes it all the more special after an exchange of PMs or converations on MSN when finally we do meet someone and have some fun. I really wouldn't trust someone who was so pushy or expecting so much in such a short space of time.
LC

30 Jan 2005

Quote by Lovecommando
You've done nothing wrong and like Dundee couple say a 'lucky escape'. Anyone worth their salt would be prepared to wait weeks, maybe even months before a first meet. That's how it works here on the forum, we like to get to know people before we meet. It makes it all the more special after an exchange of PMs or converations on MSN when finally we do meet someone and have some fun. I really wouldn't trust someone who was so pushy or expecting so much in such a short space of time.
LC

that about sums up how i feel sad

hoping it was just an unfortunate experience-hoping for better luck next time smile