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Has anyone ever gone to a swingers club/party and met a friend, relative or work colleague? Presumably most people play away from their own patch to minimise the possibility.
Shouldn't this be in another forum rolleyes
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Shouldn't this be in another forum rolleyes

It is now :thumbup:
I haven't yet but I do worry about it from time to time. Could be interesting though.
i live near one of the most popular clubs, used to work quite close to it, grew up not far from it and thats the very reason i never go to it :shock:
we've visited many clubs in last 5 years and only bumped into 2 people that we new,1 being a friend of a friend, 1 being a work colleague, and she would be the last person i'd expect to see at a swingers club, mind you she may of thought that about us.
Yes quite a few over the years. It can be a bit embarrassing to look up to see a familiar face which suddenly also recognises you. I can remember looking up during a blow job to see a woman I'd had sex with a few years before. at which I immediately did the 'hello, long time no see'. luckily the blower was an eager young sub guy, who's face was turned back to work.
However even after this extraordinary coincidence we had little to say to each other and even less chance of recreating our former fuck buddy relationship.
Former employers and employees and colleagues can evoke rather awkward conversations, but so what everyone's in the same boat.
I would think that going to a club and finding someone you know is not that bad.
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.... but so what everyone's in the same boat.

On the other hand if someone not in the scene fond that you played...........
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On the other hand if someone not in the scene fond that you played...........

Yeah but the original question was
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Has anyone ever gone to a swingers club/party and met a friend, relative or work colleague?

So unless the people at the club admit to someone not in the scene that you were there then surely there isn't a problem.
picture the scene
Gossiping swinger "OMG you'll never guess who I saw down my local swingers club last night. I bumped into "swinger" !!!!"
Nilla "You bumped into "Swinger" in a swingers club? WTF were YOU doing in a swingers club???"
or more likely
Nilla "huh? WTF is a swingers club???"
At the end of the day if I met someone I knew in a club I'd just smile and wink (unless it's in about 15 years time and the person I meet is my daughter but that's a whole separate issue lol)... I don't have anything to hide and discretion is of course paramount so I doubt they'd go off blabbing about me being there
We have never been to a club but our advert was seen by someone who has been round to our house a few ties - hubby fixes his pc etc- and they couldnt understand why we wouldnt play!!!!
Thier reasoning was its difficult to meet other swingers here so we may as well!!!!!
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Yeah loads, workmates and people who live close to us.
Also, Celestria, at Xtasia we met a mother and daughter! Played with the daughter while mother went for a walk round!
John & Shel
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Also, Celestria, at Xtasia we met a mother and daughter!
John & Shel

Now that is open minded, or just wrong. Not sure how i feel about that? :undecided:
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Also, Celestria, at Xtasia we met a mother and daughter!
John & Shel

Now that is open minded, or just wrong. Not sure how i feel about that? :undecided:
Well I know they're too little to go out on their own yet but fektart and I have actually discussed what we'd do if we met up with one of my kids in a club... we decided best course of action would be to have a chat when we got home and come to some agreement about which clubs we would frequent. If any of my kids end up swinging then that will be their choice, but I'd rather not play in the same clubs as them cos that would just feel wrong to me dunno
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Yeah loads, workmates and people who live close to us.
Also, Celestria, at Xtasia we met a mother and daughter! Played with the daughter while mother went for a walk round!
John & Shel

Ageist lol