Hello to all who take time to read this, and especially to those who reply or send me a pm.
I fairly new to this site (3months or more) and have posted only a couple of times.
I am one of those rare commodities, a genuine single guy. As with all guys on this site (understandable at times and with some in particular) we get tarred with the same brush.
But I would like it to be known we aren't the only ones. I have replied a numerous, pleasantly etc, and whilst I have a the normal minimal genuine replies, I have received a number of responses along the lines:
"Due to the number of timewasters etc on this site I am now on ............ and would recommend that you vist me at ..........."
You get the picture??
You get directed to a site, to find it is membership by subscription. Are these people just soliciting for other sites, attempting to move members away from this on, and onto another.
Not sure how we can stop them or if indeed there is anything we can do, but it is fustrating. Anway enough bleating now, for those who are interested ad is 370579, look me up and mail me if interested.
Mark :cry:
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Sorry -but this has to be a whinge!!
Quote by spinner65muk2
Hello to all who take time to read this, and especially to those who reply or send me a pm.
I fairly new to this site (3months or more) and have posted only a couple of times.
I am one of those rare commodities, a genuine single guy. As with all guys on this site (understandable at times and with some in particular) we get tarred with the same brush.
But I would like it to be known we aren't the only ones. I have replied a numerous, pleasantly etc, and whilst I have a the normal minimal genuine replies, I have received a number of responses along the lines:
"Due to the number of timewasters etc on this site I am now on ............ and would recommend that you vist me at ..........."
You get the picture??
You get directed to a site, to find it is membership by subscription. Are these people just soliciting for other sites, attempting to move members away from this on, and onto another.
Not sure how we can stop them or if indeed there is anything we can do, but it is fustrating. Anway enough bleating now, for those who are interested ad is 370579, look me up and mail me if interested.
Mark :cry:
Piss off with your bullshit whinging!
There are loads of 'genuine' single males on here, most of the men not part of couples that I have met around here are genuine single males.
Your whinging won't help mark you out as a fun, happy guy with a good sense of humour and positive utlook on life now, will it?
Chris
Sex God
Quote by spinner65muk2
I am one of those rare commodities, a genuine single guy.
Mark :cry:
:shock: Single genuine guys are rare??? I don't think so.
Oh and why don't you use the "report this ad" section instead of as you quite rightly identify your own post as.... " A whinge" Not only a whinge but one in the wrong place to the wrong people.
What's the point of the systems being put in place if no-one bloody well uses them??? :?
Gem. x
Quote by spinner65muk2
"Due to the number of timewasters etc on this site I am now on ............ and would recommend that you vist me at ..........."
You get the picture??
You get directed to a site, to find it is membership by subscription. Are these people just soliciting for other sites, attempting to move members away from this on, and onto another.
Oh, and what Gem said too!
Chris.
Sex God
You know what annoys me more about this post.... that he thinks that everyone treats single guys in the same way. It's like the self fullfilling prophecy where you convince yourself you're useless and so become.... erm... useless!
I find it a waste of time, energy and thought to be bothered to reply to an advert that is so wishy washy without a picture but once you've established that I'm genuine you'll judge whether or not you want to send me a picture??? Get real.
I wanna see a pic on adverts even if its only a torso shot, no faces are needed at that stage. You sound very unsure of what you want and your ad starts out with a whinge too! why on earth do I want to spend my social time with someone who is going to whine on about this that and the other.... cos that is what your advert is telling me by reading between the lines from a female perspective.
And then there is the kind of replies to adverts you send..... the content of them can be make or break, piccie or not.
:?
Gem. x
I find it a waste of time, energy and thought to be bothered to reply to an advert that is so wishy washy without a picture but once you've established that I'm genuine you'll judge whether or not you want to send me a picture??? Get real.
I wanna see a pic on adverts even if its only a torso shot, no faces are needed at that stage. You sound very unsure of what you want and your ad starts out with a whinge too! why on earth do I want to spend my social time with someone who is going to whine on about this that and the other.... cos that is what your advert is telling me by reading between the lines from a female perspective.
And then there is the kind of replies to adverts you send..... the content of them can be make or break, piccie or not.
:?
Gem. x
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Hey all no offence to anyone intended,
Like most timewasters to any of us are just pains, thats all.
I wasn't offended in the slightest, just annoyed by what I saw as a 'woe is me, can I have some sympathy' attitude. I believe that will get you nowhere, but frustrated.
Timewasters? I don't think I've EVER had a problem with timewasters here. That'd be because I never meet people, or correspond with anyone then....
I've only ever had one ad on here, that was a jokey pisstake one, I've rarely replied to any ads off here either, most of the ads I've read are those of people that I recognise and respect from the forum who've had links in their sigs. Now, I'm pretty sure that you don't want a meet with me, and that's fine because I'd only beat you at chess :-), but my guess is that many of the women from here would do a similar thing. Show people that you have a sense of humour and would be interesting to spend a little time with and they'll click on the ad link in your sig, like I say, that's sort of an assumption on my part as I have no ad.
Maybe someone can confirm this?
HTH
Chris
PS Here's one of the coolest 'ads' I've seen
well i'm with you on the not meeting epople off here thing, i must admit i did have a bit of a problem with time wasters at one point but then made a dessision not to meet anyone i didn't know, so now i only go to clubs and parties and only meet private with people i already know from munches etc and hey presto problem sloved 
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:thumbup: Quote by goodtimez
Theres a lot of genuine single males on here and the ones who do have a goodtime are usually the ones who join in and get known on the forums chat room etc
ayou have to put something in to get something out so its up to you
thats so true a lot of guys come on here and think its a quick shag site and all they have to do is put a add up and the ladies will come running, to be honest lads you'd have better luck at pulling down at your local, women on here like to get to know you b4 they meet, put yourself in their shoes if you was a single fem would you meet a total stranger off the internet or would you meet someone who is known and trusted?
Sex God
my comments are the one in the red
well there you go.... i'll leave you with one other piece of information....
men seking couples ads......5826
couples seeking men ads......1387...
4 times as many...
have you done anything to sell yourself?????
Quote by spinner65muk2
Hello to all who take time to read this, and especially to those who reply or send me a pm.
I fairly new to this site (3months or more) actually to us in the FORUM you have been here all of 3 weeks... we can see that by your joining date and have posted only a couple of times. all of 3 times before this whinge
I am one of those rare commodities, a genuine single .... why i guess we should all thank you, thanks for the grossly inaccurate statement anyway As with all guys on this site (understandable at times and with some in particular) we get tarred with the same brush. not all of us mate.....maybe if you took the time to get yourself known then you might find that ut us not like that at all
But I would like it to be known we aren't the only ones. I have replied a numerous, pleasantly etc, and whilst I have a the normal minimal genuine replies, I have received a number of responses along the lines:
"Due to the number of timewasters etc on this site I am now on ............ and would recommend that you vist me at ..........."
You get the picture?? Oh i get the picture.....another person Complaining about the ADS in the Forums again..... TUT TUT TUT
You get directed to a site, to find it is membership by subscription. Are these people just soliciting for other sites, attempting to move members away from this on, and onto another.
Not sure how we can stop them or if indeed there is anything we can do, but it is fustrating. Anway enough bleating now, for those who are interested ad is 370579, look me up and mail me if interested. had a look at your ad mate... not particularly good if you don't mind me saying so.....
Mark :cry:
well there you go.... i'll leave you with one other piece of information....
men seking couples ads......5826
couples seeking men ads......1387...
4 times as many...
have you done anything to sell yourself?????
:roll: :roll: