Sorry to all the decent single guys but I need to rant .....

11 Oct 2009

We went dogging last night. We have not been for about a year but fancied a change from meets and clubs. As usual we were inundated by single guys.... now this doesnt bother me, in fact, I quite like it ..... what I dont like is the one or two of them who feel that it is their God given right to do what the fuck they like!! I am a woman and am out dogging so I must want them right? .... No!!!
I was horny as hell, and to be honest the mood I was in, I prob would have taken them all on one after the other ... when I was ready ... not at their beck and call!!
Pushy single blokes just spoils things for everyone, especially the decent single guys .... I dont need your hints or your cock shoved in my face and dont fuckin touch me without asking .... especially if im just sat in my car chatting and having a fag ffs!!!!!
Why do they do that???? mad

..... and breathe!!! ..... ok rant over

11 Oct 2009

Quote by Funlovers2009
We went dogging last night. We have not been for about a year but fancied a change from meets and clubs. As usual we were inundated by single guys.... now this doesnt bother me, in fact, I quite like it ..... what I dont like is the one or two of them who feel that it is their God given right to do what the fuck they like!! I am a woman and am out dogging so I must want them right? .... No!!!
I was horny as hell, and to be honest the mood I was in, I prob would have taken them all on one after the other ... when I was ready ... not at their beck and call!!
Pushy single blokes just spoils things for everyone, especially the decent single guys .... I dont need your hints or your cock shoved in my face and dont fuckin touch me without asking .... especially if im just sat in my car chatting and having a fag ffs!!!!!
Why do they do that????
..... and breathe!!! ..... ok rant over

And did you say that to them at the time? They might not even be members of SH confused

11 Oct 2009

I am sure a mod will move this to "dogging" for you....

11 Oct 2009

Not knowing the 'dogging' etiquette - are you not putting yourself in a risky position dogging anyway? In a Club or at a meet, the environment and set up is controlled whereas literally any lunatic or maniac can turn up in a dark and deserted car park.
I am not that surprised that bad things, like this, happen to doggers - it seems to be a very risky business !!
But each to their own I guess. Good luck in the future.

Quote by Funlovers2009
We went dogging last night. We have not been for about a year but fancied a change from meets and clubs. As usual we were inundated by single guys.... now this doesnt bother me, in fact, I quite like it ..... what I dont like is the one or two of them who feel that it is their God given right to do what the fuck they like!! I am a woman and am out dogging so I must want them right? .... No!!!
I was horny as hell, and to be honest the mood I was in, I prob would have taken them all on one after the other ... when I was ready ... not at their beck and call!!
Pushy single blokes just spoils things for everyone, especially the decent single guys .... I dont need your hints or your cock shoved in my face and dont fuckin touch me without asking .... especially if im just sat in my car chatting and having a fag ffs!!!!!
Why do they do that????
..... and breathe!!! ..... ok rant over

11 Oct 2009

Yeah, I said something about the touchin through the window thing but the same person still went on to shove his cock in my face and then throw in some big hints about condoms, etc....
The same person had already stopped another couple from playing when he went in for the grope when without being invited.
We'd been chatting to a lot of the guys there and most of them were on SH, not sure about this one guy but it happens everytime .... a pushy one who spoils things for everyone.
I just hate it when they think that because you are female and you are there that you're ok with an uninvited grope or cock in your face!!
Singles guys who are polite and understand the 'rules' are more likely to have fun but some just dont realize it and thats a shame because they spoil things for the decent ones.
Just because you're in a car park dont mean the etiquette should be different than in a club!! Dont you think?

11 Oct 2009

Its not just about dogging .... its about single guys ... the same thing has happened to us in clubs only there they can be removed!!

Quote by fabio
I am sure a mod will move this to "dogging" for you....

11 Oct 2009

lol, these car parks are far from deserted!!
Basically its the same as in a club, dont touch without an invite and no means no!!
Just as in clubs, the majority of guys stick by this and also will have a word with guys who dont.
We dont go often and I would never go alone, my hubby is always with me and I dont just play with anyone and that's kind of my point ... this has happened in clubs too ... the odd single guy who lets the side down and spoils it for the others!

Quote by Too Hot
Not knowing the 'dogging' etiquette - are you not putting yourself in a risky position dogging anyway? In a Club or at a meet, the environment and set up is controlled whereas literally any lunatic or maniac can turn up in a dark and deserted car park.
I am not that surprised that bad things, like this, happen to doggers - it seems to be a very risky business !!
But each to their own I guess. Good luck in the future.
We went dogging last night. We have not been for about a year but fancied a change from meets and clubs. As usual we were inundated by single guys.... now this doesnt bother me, in fact, I quite like it ..... what I dont like is the one or two of them who feel that it is their God given right to do what the fuck they like!! I am a woman and am out dogging so I must want them right? .... No!!!
I was horny as hell, and to be honest the mood I was in, I prob would have taken them all on one after the other ... when I was ready ... not at their beck and call!!
Pushy single blokes just spoils things for everyone, especially the decent single guys .... I dont need your hints or your cock shoved in my face and dont fuckin touch me without asking .... especially if im just sat in my car chatting and having a fag ffs!!!!!
Why do they do that????
..... and breathe!!! ..... ok rant over

11 Oct 2009

You should have accidentally burnt his cock with your cigarette then ask the others in attendance if any more of them are lacking patience. But really this does belong in the dogging forum, despite your gripe being worthy of a rant it is still gutrenching to see yet another thread complaining about single blokes, especially in the title.

11 Oct 2009

Quote by Funlovers2009
................ Just because you're in a car park dont mean the etiquette should be different than in a club!! Dont you think?

It is all about control isn't it? If some maniac turns up in a car park, why would he want to follow any rules or etiquette - even if he knew what the rules were? Not sure you can really tarnish single guys with this accusation. Label the guy as a maniac, or a lunatic maybe, but using it as stick to beat single guys in the 'swinging' environment seems to be a tad unfair.

11 Oct 2009

Its not just about dogging .... its about single guys ... the same thing has happened to us in clubs only there they can be removed!!
well then.... if it is about ettiquette... trust me i have seen as many couples removed from clubs as I have single guys....
And i have as many couples in clubs like total idiots as i have single guys... and even single women...
an arse is an arse... is an arse... regardless of them being single/couples/bi/straight/fat/thin/old/young/black/white ect ect ect.............

11 Oct 2009

Im sorry, I think you have taken me the wrong way ....
I am not slagging off single blokes .... I was asking why the odd one has to spoil things for all of the decent blokes out there .... I know from personal expereince that there are a lot of them!
I have nothing against single blokes .... in fact .... I like them a lot!!! I play with them a lot!!!
This isnt about dogging .... this happens in clubs, in the chatrooms and in car parks!!!
All I was saying is (from my expereince) that the odd single bloke spoils things for everyone by thinking that they can do what the hell they want as if women on this 'scene' are here just for their pleasure!!
I agree that an arse is an arse is an arse and am sure that there are as many couples and single fems who are arses but I was just speaking from my personal expereince (which on this occassion just happened to be in a car park ... it has also happened in clubs).
I also feel that it is a little unfair to class people who enjoy outdoor fun as lunatics!!
I am sorry if I have offended anyone .... this was not my intention. I mearly wanted to vent some frustration. xx

11 Oct 2009

A lot of guys probably think a woman going dogging, is easy meat to them. Sorry but we have been to clubs in a controlled environment and some guys still think that because women are there, they will fuck anyone.
Even on this very site, when women are on cams, they can treat them like old slappers, and say the most disgusting things....I have seen this many times on here over the years.
Dogging is different to a club or entertaining at home, in that I think it is far more dangerous. Way too dangerous for us to contemplate, but each to their own.
Yes some guys can be real tossers in this scene, but something we will always see. It is how you deal with it that matters. IF another guy does that kick him hard in the bollocks, that usually is a sure fire way of getting your point across.
Just the mere thought of the dangers of dogging, makes me shudder though.

11 Oct 2009

Funlovers, I know exactly what you are getting at, and it is bad that the odd person can end up spoiling it for the rest.
We dont meet couples any more because apart from one brilliant, fantastic couple who we played with off this site, the rest have frightened the hell out of me, being pushy and expecting a lot more than we were willing to offer. Ok, it doesnt mean all couples are like that, but it has been enough to put us off risking meeting any more of them.
Also, we are fairly regular doggers and very rarely do you meet proper doggers who are like the guy you mentioned. It is just the odd pratt who think you are there purely for their pleasure and sod to manners or waiting to ask. However, as you said, this is not just out dogging, and again, we have had way more bad experiences in the so called 'controlled' environment of clubs (which again, is why we dont go very often and then only stick to Partners where we know we are safe as the management take these kinds of issues seriously).
Dont give up, and dont let the pratts ruin it for you (whether they be single or couples) wink

11 Oct 2009

No one said that everyone who enjoys outdoor fun is a lunatic.
There are no rules outdoors are there? Certainly not to some random guys - that is what we are talking about.
Controlled dogging by invite and you stand a chance of rules being followed - but turning up in a dark car park and I think you really cannot expect rules to be followed.
I wonder how many people have been attacked and/or injured dogging?

11 Oct 2009

Quote by Too Hot
No one said that everyone who enjoys outdoor fun is a lunatic.
There are no rules outdoors are there? Certainly not to some random guys - that is what we are talking about.
Controlled dogging by invite and you stand a chance of rules being followed - but turning up in a dark car park and I think you really cannot expect rules to be followed.
I wonder how many people have been attacked and/or injured dogging?

Doggers know the rules and know that you dont touch without asking or being asked. Dogging is actually about watching and being watched and not about shagging the entire car park. Controlled dogging really is not possible, however, pre-arranged meets can help if you know the people you are meeting but that is outdoor swinging and not dogging in the proper sense.
However, the same pratts who go to these dogging sites now seem to be moving to the clubs so the car parks are often safer (plus the propper doggers dont let the pratts get away with too much) wink

11 Oct 2009

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Funlovers, I know exactly what you are getting at, and it is bad that the odd person can end up spoiling it for the rest.
We dont meet couples any more because apart from one brilliant, fantastic couple who we played with off this site, the rest have frightened the hell out of me, being pushy and expecting a lot more than we were willing to offer. Ok, it doesnt mean all couples are like that, but it has been enough to put us off risking meeting any more of them.
Also, we are fairly regular doggers and very rarely do you meet proper doggers who are like the guy you mentioned. It is just the odd pratt who think you are there purely for their pleasure and sod to manners or waiting to ask. However, as you said, this is not just out dogging, and again, we have had way more bad experiences in the so called 'controlled' environment of clubs (which again, is why we dont go very often and then only stick to Partners where we know we are safe as the management take these kinds of issues seriously).
Dont give up, and dont let the pratts ruin it for you (whether they be single or couples)

Thank you!!!! I thought I was going mad for a minute and everytime I tried to explain mysellf, I was just diggin myself in deeper .... Im not gonna say anymore .... I feel my rant here is done!! :wink: (and I wouldnt want to piss anyone else off!!) redface

11 Oct 2009

Single guys are great. I have met a few who haven't followed the rules and I have then changed how I have phrased the bit of the conversation when I discuss rules with potential shags.
I rarely have incident now.
I Don't meet couples because they terrify me.
I am 100% sure that the couples that have terrified me and have put me off meeting couples are perfect for someone else..... just not me.
Am also 100% sure that putting a thread up talking about couples as a single entity would be taken very badly by couples and those who like them.
rant over.
rolleyes