After much thinking I've decided to leave the swinging scene, due to the fact there doesnt appear to be many genuine single males on here. I've lost count of the number of males claiming to be single only to find out they are married or have a girlfriend.
I'm a single parent with limited free time and anyone whos seen my previous forum post will know I definately dont want the hassle of married men or those with girlfriends.
I would like to say I have made some great friends on here, some have also left the scene who I am still in touch with and some still on the scene who I hope to stay in touch with. I'd also like to say I've chatted to some great people especially those in the southcoast room and bristol room.
I hope all you genuine swingers continue to have fun and I may pop back from time to time just for a chat.
Take care everyone,
Soulie xx
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Soul-girl is calling it a day
Sex God
I have thought about it a lot lately for exactly the same reason's as yourself. I don't really meet anymore due to very rare free time but keep thinking things might change a bit in the future.
Best wishes and take care.
Best wishes and take care.
must be catching, i am pretty much only here socially and have been for months, and my time is about to get a lot more limited with 2 jobs and 2 college courses to fill my time
I will say i have met a lot of genuine single guys on here and am very grateful to those who openly admit they are not, it makes it much easier for my preferences
I will still be around now n them to post the odd thing but not nearly as much as i would like
good luck soul girl am sure will see you pop back for a natter now n then xxx
I will say i have met a lot of genuine single guys on here and am very grateful to those who openly admit they are not, it makes it much easier for my preferences
I will still be around now n them to post the odd thing but not nearly as much as i would like
good luck soul girl am sure will see you pop back for a natter now n then xxx
Sex God
Ladies Ladies.....
There are some genuine single guys around......You just have to know where to look :-)
There are some genuine single guys around......You just have to know where to look :-)
Sex God
we wish you well ........... im sure you could do a thread about being a single girl and looking for a single guy on a swinging site before you go tho.. i reckon it could be a BUTE
Sorry to see you decide to leave Soul.
I have enjoyed our banter in the forums and your arguements and opinions I have always thought were fair.
Yes there are timewatsers here,,,,blimey how hard is it to find a nice single guy?
Good luck in whatever you do in life, from the both of us. xxx
I have enjoyed our banter in the forums and your arguements and opinions I have always thought were fair.
Yes there are timewatsers here,,,,blimey how hard is it to find a nice single guy?
Good luck in whatever you do in life, from the both of us. xxx
Orgasminator
do you know what i have seen this put in many couples and singles profiles, complaning about so called single males we are here you know.
Soul-girl this is not a go at you so please dont take it as such.
As a single guy who takes the time to read profiles and only reply to the relevant ones, and some one that has been here for a while, posted regular, been to socials and munches. no one ever replies
ok i maybe a minger in some peoples eyes, or not the stud they looking for, but there are truely single males out here.
Soul-girl this is not a go at you so please dont take it as such.
As a single guy who takes the time to read profiles and only reply to the relevant ones, and some one that has been here for a while, posted regular, been to socials and munches. no one ever replies
ok i maybe a minger in some peoples eyes, or not the stud they looking for, but there are truely single males out here.
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do you know what i have seen this put in many couples and singles profiles, complaning about so called single males we are here you know.
Soul-girl this is not a go at you so please dont take it as such.
As a single guy who takes the time to read profiles and only reply to the relevant ones, and some one that has been here for a while, posted regular, been to socials and munches. no one ever replies
ok i maybe a minger in some peoples eyes, or not the stud they looking for, but there are truely single males out here.
Ukwineman, I dont see it as a go at me, but I do sometimes wonder why people often think its easy for single females and couples on here.
I've spent alot of nights in the chatrooms and on msn chatting to people and arranging meets and then at the last minute to find out their wife or girlfriend wont let them out, why they couldnt have told me they were married or had girlfriend in first place does annoy me. And I guess this is one of the reasons why I'm giving up.
I'm a single female so I want to meet single males, but I would also like the single males to live within a reasonable distance from me so if they or I get any free time its not alot of travelling involved.
I guess its just life, you cant always find what you are looking for.
Orgasminator
Quote by soul-girl
do you know what i have seen this put in many couples and singles profiles, complaning about so called single males we are here you know.
Soul-girl this is not a go at you so please dont take it as such.
As a single guy who takes the time to read profiles and only reply to the relevant ones, and some one that has been here for a while, posted regular, been to socials and munches. no one ever replies
ok i maybe a minger in some peoples eyes, or not the stud they looking for, but there are truely single males out here.
Ukwineman, I dont see it as a go at me, but I do sometimes wonder why people often think its easy for single females and couples on here.
I've spent alot of nights in the chatrooms and on msn chatting to people and arranging meets and then at the last minute to find out their wife or girlfriend wont let them out, why they couldnt have told me they were married or had girlfriend in first place does annoy me. And I guess this is one of the reasons why I'm giving up.
I'm a single female so I want to meet single males, but I would also like the single males to live within a reasonable distance from me so if they or I get any free time its not alot of travelling involved.
I guess its just life, you cant always find what you are looking for.
well for me it seems everyone in my area is looking for single females or other couples, and the ones that want single guys want young studs with hugh dicks.
not sure whats worse.. being led on by a married guy or not being contaced at all :haha:
Quote by Ukwineman
do you know what i have seen this put in many couples and singles profiles, complaning about so called single males we are here you know.
Soul-girl this is not a go at you so please dont take it as such.
As a single guy who takes the time to read profiles and only reply to the relevant ones, and some one that has been here for a while, posted regular, been to socials and munches. no one ever replies
ok i maybe a minger in some peoples eyes, or not the stud they looking for, but there are truely single males out here.
Ukwineman, I dont see it as a go at me, but I do sometimes wonder why people often think its easy for single females and couples on here.
I've spent alot of nights in the chatrooms and on msn chatting to people and arranging meets and then at the last minute to find out their wife or girlfriend wont let them out, why they couldnt have told me they were married or had girlfriend in first place does annoy me. And I guess this is one of the reasons why I'm giving up.
I'm a single female so I want to meet single males, but I would also like the single males to live within a reasonable distance from me so if they or I get any free time its not alot of travelling involved.
I guess its just life, you cant always find what you are looking for.
well for me it seems everyone in my area is looking for single females or other couples, and the ones that want single guys want young studs with hugh dicks.
not sure whats worse.. being led on by a married guy or not being contaced at all :haha:
being lead on by a married guy and then you get a phone call from the wife asking who you are :shock:
Sex God
Soul-Girl, in light of your post just above mine . . . . crap when that happens innit? 
You won't be the first, you definitely won't be the last. No comfort at all there is there?
Sorry! :( You've said you know many genuine people here. Keep count of the genuine ones, yeah? ;)
Just don't burn your bridges just cos there are liars on here. It goes with the territory unfortunately. Not exactly being consoling now, but stay, and make it work on your terms. They evidently tried to make it work on theirs? :?
You really gonna let 'em defeat you?
I won't patronise you with a ((( hug ))) but take it as read!
;)
N x x x ;)
You won't be the first, you definitely won't be the last. No comfort at all there is there?
Sorry! :( You've said you know many genuine people here. Keep count of the genuine ones, yeah? ;) Just don't burn your bridges just cos there are liars on here. It goes with the territory unfortunately. Not exactly being consoling now, but stay, and make it work on your terms. They evidently tried to make it work on theirs? :?
You really gonna let 'em defeat you? I won't patronise you with a ((( hug ))) but take it as read!
;)
N x x x ;)
Unfortunately a swingers web site will always be a magnet for " married guys ". I do not understand why people would be suprised at that.
We have met " genuine " single males...but are/were they? We do not know. We are not looking for anything other than a night of fun.
Yes there are some genuine single guys out there, but very few on a swingers site. Sorry that is how I see things here.
When we put an advert on looking for a ....( well check our advert ) we get very few replies. Now mrs777 is a very attractive lady yet we still struggle to meet people. We have been swinging for five years now, and think we know the scene rather well.
Maybe it is us? Or more possibly the distinct lack of genuine single males.
We have met " genuine " single males...but are/were they? We do not know. We are not looking for anything other than a night of fun.
Yes there are some genuine single guys out there, but very few on a swingers site. Sorry that is how I see things here.
When we put an advert on looking for a ....( well check our advert ) we get very few replies. Now mrs777 is a very attractive lady yet we still struggle to meet people. We have been swinging for five years now, and think we know the scene rather well.
Maybe it is us? Or more possibly the distinct lack of genuine single males.
Sex God
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talk to me soul.
i'll send you a
aawww tyr my little lovely, at least my days on here have been more fun with you and some of the other from southcoast room. maybe the southcoast socials need to start again
soulie, your always fun and i just got to see whats in that box.
ive already had ideas what we can do
