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Since I joined this Site and disclosed my correct age, I have been receiving an increasing number of Spam E-mails for Rollex Watches and penis enlargement - the daily flood is now up to my age in years - over 60!
Trying to extract my genuine e-mails (one or two do go to the Spam filter by mistake) everytime I sign in is getting just too much, so I am going to change my E-mail address shortly - sadly, I think I might have to consider coming out of the Group first, if so, then I would like to thank all of you who have communicated with me over these months. Have a great time.
Plim :giveup:
Why not keep the account you use at the mo, and open up a new, entirely vanilla account in a new name dunno
That way you don't have to leave.
Hang on, I've drunk waaaay too much to be this rational. :dry:
Is it an Orange account Plim?
I get about 150 junk mails a day on my orange account (which i hardly use and will be shutting down soon), the junkmail filter they have is useless and the server is as quick as a Sinclair ZX81.
I'm sure someone will be along in a minute to tell me that I'm wrong, but as far as I know this site does not give your details out to 3rd parties. May be it's another site that you've given your details to that is sending you the spam not something to do with SH?
As I said I might be wrong but that is my understanding of things and I've never had a problem with being sent spam linked to my membership here smile
Im given to believe the same as PK and I too, have never received any spam since been here.
Have you asked admin if they can throw any light on things for you?
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Im given to believe the same as PK and I too, have never received any spam since been here.

Nor have I ....
Must be all those dodgy porn sites your visiting Plim ;-)
just had a beer with elvis
Quote by annejohn
just had a beer with elvis

And?? what had that got to do with Spam? :lol2: :lol2: Or am i not with it this fine morning? confused
Anyway, isn't Elvis dead? lol lol
Anyway, isn't Elvis dead?

Nooooooo, he works down the chip shop!

lol
We visited a Bar/Restaurant recently and the owner was a dead ringer for Freddie Mercury!
I have to say that I get little if any spam mail to either the account I use here or my 'vanilla' account. I doubt it is SH that is your problem Plim, sorry can't be more help than that but if I were you I would just set up a separate account for using normally (bad choice of words I know, forgive me.. a tad hungover!)
Nola x
I don't get any spam emails from being a member on here! :shock:
In fact I don't get any spam emails whatsoever... Orange seems to be pretty good or maybe I don't visit anywhere to leave my details? dunno
I don't get any spam on the email account I use for this site - MrFB doesn't either.
The spam is probably as a result of you clicking links from elsewhere.
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I'm sure someone will be along in a minute to tell me that I'm wrong, but as far as I know this site does not give your details out to 3rd parties. May be it's another site that you've given your details to that is sending you the spam not something to do with SH?
As I said I might be wrong but that is my understanding of things and I've never had a problem with being sent spam linked to my membership here smile

You are 100% correct PK, the site does not give out email addreses to anyone, so if Plim is getting spam emails, he is very wrong in assuming they are coming as a result of this site.
Quote by martin_bg_2000_uk
Anyway, isn't Elvis dead?

Nooooooo, he works down the chip shop!

lol Well bugga me!!! Its all happening in the fish shop initlol lol
Quote by anais
Anyway, isn't Elvis dead?

Nooooooo, he works down the chip shop!

lol Well bugga me!!! Its all happening in the fish shop initlol lol
aaaw it was nice to reminisce (sp?) ... Top of the Pops 1981 class wink (I always wanted to dance in the audience sad )
Quote by Mr-Powers
could be just an excuse to flounce! dunno

what could confused:
hello stranger wink
Quote by Mr-Powers
could be just an excuse to flounce! dunno

i think this is just a "semi-flounce"....
wink
awwww Plim....dont go, you havent even found out who sent you your mystery valentines note on the valentines thread yet!!
I think its probably a genuine question....why shouldn,t it be??
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I have more than one email account, one of them is specifically for use when we give out an addy to other people on swinging sites.
It`s the address that gets the least spam, in fact hardly any at all !!!
The fact that you know what these emails contain suggests to me that you are opening them. I had always understood that opening or deleting this crap was what indicated to the sender that your email account was live. I might be wrong , but as I say I don`t think this site is your problem.

No, you don't have to open an E-mail to read the heading - opening them would really be asking for all sorts of trouble!
Plim :shock:
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awwww Plim....dont go, you havent even found out who sent you your mystery valentines note on the valentines thread yet!!

Oh dear, Oh dear - I have not even read the Valentine's thread.
Plim redface redface redface
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I'm sure someone will be along in a minute to tell me that I'm wrong, but as far as I know this site does not give your details out to 3rd parties. May be it's another site that you've given your details to that is sending you the spam not something to do with SH?
As I said I might be wrong but that is my understanding of things and I've never had a problem with being sent spam linked to my membership here smile

You are 100% correct PK, the site does not give out email addreses to anyone, so if Plim is getting spam emails, he is very wrong in assuming they are coming as a result of this site.
I accept what you say, it could be co-incidence. However, cannot those with the knowledge find out even if the Site owner is confidential?
Wishing I knew more about how the Internet works.
Plim sad
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I accept what you say, it could be co-incidence. However, cannot those with the knowledge find out even if the Site owner is confidential?
Wishing I knew more about how the Internet works.
Plim sad

Plim, I wasnt being flippant, I can guarantee 100% that the site does not give out email addresses to anyone. We dont allow users to post their emails anywhere on the site and have various filters in place to remove them if they are displayed.
It may seem a co-incidence, and as others have said, lots of people suffer from spam at some point or another, but please, don't automatically jump to conclussions and think that it is anything to do with this site giving your email details to anyone.
Quote by Plimboy
I accept what you say, it could be co-incidence. However, cannot those with the knowledge find out even if the Site owner is confidential?
Wishing I knew more about how the Internet works.
Plim sad

The bit in bold is not a nice accusation really.
You know enough about the internet to surf it and find then join a swingers site, set up email accounts and the like. You must have picked up the spam links from elsewhere.
No more I say - I promise to be good.
Plim :giveup:
Plim, why dont you just change your email address to a free one or something? I never get spam on my email address I have with the address I use with this site. And if I did start to get them now after nearly five years of being a member, I would look to see where else I have joined recently.
On my other address, I use groups etc now on that one I do get spam! I knew I would an accept thats part an parcel of being a member of those sites. Still annoying though! confused
As for confidentiality, I wouldnt be a member here if I thought that my email address would be given out to a third party. I have every confidence that my details, including email address are confidential and trust the site owners implicitly.. smile smile
Hiya Plim wave
I get a billion spam mails every day offering me pills, enlarging machinery, rolexes, all sorts of stuff.
BUT - my email provider( ) filters the spam ones out and puts them into a separate inbox, without me having to do anything.
Get a new email, as others have said.
:thumbup:
Thanks to you all:
Good point, about Groups at , I belong to six of them and have been in and out of others that were spammed to bits (which is why I left them).
I am re-assured about this Site, thanks - I think the Moderators and others officials work very hard too, I know their efforts are unpaid.
Plim biggrin :thumbup: