So we're dabbling in a little Hotwifing and are members of another site to do with the lifestyle. I'm undecided what it is, but the bulls (for want of a better word although we're not into the cuck side of it) on there are so different from the single males on any swinging site we're on (and we're on many)
They're respectful of the Hotwives, polite, friendly, no "fancy a shag" pm's and then whinging when you say no.
No "woe is me, i'm a single male, no one will give me a chance"
I can't decide whether it's to do with the lifestyle or the fact that it's mainly Americans on there and they have a different way of looking it.
Rather than a piece of meat (as I have sometimes felt on swinging sites) I feel respected, almost like the holy grail. The bulls know they have to prove themselves and understand they are priveleged to be bought into a marriage and make it known that they appreciate it. They are horrified that at least 6 of the meets we've arranged (for me solo) were cancelled on us.
Maybe if single males in the swinging world/in the UK behaved more like this, they'd get more luck? Does anyone else have any thoughts on this?
Oh, and this isn't a single male bashing thread, i'm just curious as to why the stark difference?
*Her*
Orgasminator
