Spring time and Cleaning up a little

4 Feb 2008

Time to review and make plans for the year so I would like to pose two questions
What would you change about swinging and the swinging lifestyle if you could.
Whats still on your to do list that you would really like to get done with this year?

4 Feb 2008

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What would you change about swinging and the swinging lifestyle if you could.

Make it more acceptable to the vanilla world.

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Whats still on your to do list that you would really like to get done with this year?

Loads :giggle:

4 Feb 2008

I thought we were gonna be talking marigolds and Jif for a mo redface

I'd change my swinging lifestyle by actually DOING some at the moment! rolleyes

I've achieved my squirting fantasy :smug: maybe this year I'll get my ultimate all woman orgy going :twisted:
applications to my mailbox pleeeeeeeeeze???????!
:rascal:

5 Feb 2008

Quote by jivedancer
Time to review and make plans for the year so I would like to pose two questions
What would you change about swinging and the swinging lifestyle if you could.
Whats still on your to do list that you would really like to get done with this year?

A) think I would like to take a lot of the bullshit out of swinging. Make it easier to take the knockbacks and not offend those your knocking back. Increase peoples understanding of the term 'No strings attached' And my personal crusade make barebacking wholly unacceptable.
B) Got nothing to do on my personal Swing to do list. Saying that if something crops up 'in the moment' thats a box to tick I guess.
B1) Mrs Lost, I know, would still like to see two guys f*cking each other without being involved - just as a voyueur

5 Feb 2008

Well the one thing I would change is those people on the scene who have no manners or respect for other people.... So many wonderful people but enough rude and ignorant ones too rolleyes

And as for my to do list....swinging is the one area in my life where I don't plan or make any lists whatsoever biggrin

It's my little bit of freedom to take things as they come and not think or worry about what comes next. So perhaps continue to have fun and meet lovely people but otherwise nothing cool

5 Feb 2008

I have personal goals this year but no swinging goals I'm afraid, there's nothing more we could do on the swinging front that we've not already done :P
I think we'll attend a few more clubs this year and our first munch but other than that nothing much.
I'm with Lost on his 'bareback' crusade.. I'm very much for 'each one to their own' but I personally think it's way too dangerous.

5 Feb 2008

Swingtown
A small town full of swingers. A place where all those tiresome laws about public decency do not exist. Yes I know there have been short term 'camp sites' but that not the same thing, is it?
What do I want to do? Holiday there.

5 Feb 2008

Quote by jivedancer
Time to review and make plans for the year so I would like to pose two questions
What would you change about swinging and the swinging lifestyle if you could.
Whats still on your to do list that you would really like to get done with this year?

I would change the fact that I don't have enough time to swing as much as I would like.
I would change the fact that there are people I would like to meet/shag :twisted: but they live too bloody far away sad

What I would like to get done this year is I would like to go to a club ( still haven't been as I can't seem to find one to suit me).
There's many more thing's I want to get done this year but I may shock you all if I told you redface

Louise xx

5 Feb 2008

I am seeing some fantastic answers here and certainly some interesting views so let me add my own.
1. I would want to move the public mind set on sexuality. Now that Homosexual ( gay/lesbian ) relationships are acceptable its time to make sex less the and social hangup and more the normal part of being a mature adult.
2. Id like to make some new friends and contacts this year people to add to my conversations and ideas and to share a drink and a party with.
thank you to all those who have posted already.

5 Feb 2008

oh jive.. I love that you think that homosexual relationships are accepted. That is liking saying that there is no racism. Just because the law has changed doesn't mean that attitudes have changed. There has been someshift and the law reflects that. I won't even begin to talk about the gauntlet of 'acceptance' my friends and I experience if we attempt to have a quiet drink in a 'straight' pub.
but on topic- what would I change about swinging... mmm nothing generally. I would hope that others enjoy their experiences as I do mine. I think a lot of people like the secrecy that the swinging lifestyle affords them. So a blanket acceptance may remove their pleasure somewhat.
What would I like to do?? goodness that is a never ending list wor lass and I are on the case though and expect to have loads of boxes ticked by her 30th. Actually her getting her own interwebnet connection will improve our swinging lifestyle a huge amount. rolleyes