i have not read it all yet - too much for me in one sitting.... but
How come new newbies don't get to go to socials but non-members do?
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The Munch
I thought this was a social?
And IMO far too long, cricky I have a head ache reading all that lot
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None of the below is my work just information ive gathered from this site & advice sent to me via pm..all ive simply done is edit it to apply to what i think would be suitable as a
SOCIAL RULES & GUIDLINES
I think ive covered every thing but its still a work in progress
Your opinions Please
Thanks
Mike
A Social is a purely social event held in a totally neutral environment, often somewhere like a pub, where selected (by the Social organisers) members of Swinging Heaven & invited guests get to meet each other. As there's no play involved everyone can relax which gives newbies a chance to ask questions of the more experienced without any fear of getting jumped on, and gives the regulars time to catch-up with old friends and make new ones.
Usually they are organised by one or two people who are more than likely well known members of Swinging Heaven. The exact location is kept strictly secret between the organisers and those who have been invited; strictly secret before and after the event. Organisers will usually only give out the exact location information to those who are invited just a few days before the event.
Getting an invite most likely involves getting known on the forum or chatrooms and PMing (sending a Private Message via the forum or chatrooms) to the organiser asking to be invited, and added to the list - it's that simple.
A Social is open to all that the organisers choose to invite. The exception to this is the brand new newbie, i.e. those who have just joined the site or have not been an active participant. This is only to prevent gawpers, journalists and those who are just TOO curious. Remember, if you are keen to attend a Social and meet other swingers, but are considered too new for this one, join in and keep posting because there'll be another Social coming along shortly.
We have a strict rule that anyone organising a Social on here is doing so solely for current and active Swinging Heaven members & Organisers personal friends and is not promoting any other website, club or group. Only people who have been specifically invited are allowed to attend the Socials that are advertised on here.
Note: If someone is currently banned from either the Forum or the Chatroom, they are not eligible to attend.
Socials are a great way to finally meet all those people you've been chatting with on the Swinging Heaven Forum or in the Swinging Heaven Chatroom - and then who knows where it might lead!
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IMO anyone reading that lot and considering arranging a social for the first time would be put off for life...............sorry
You have made something that is very simple, very complicated. You have tried to hash together everything about a munch and everything about a social and it doesn't work that way. No-one is going to read all that for a social of half a dozen people in a local pub. you have made a lot of suppositions which are unnecessary and incorrect.
Munches are site regulated, socials are not.
Mal
Munches are site regulated, socials are not.
Mal
It appears to be describing more of a munch, as social events can be held in many different places by any site member.
Personally I think little gem was not far off the mark in the other thread, but I'd also like to see it in writing that:
The events must be free
Details must not be published in the forum or chatroom e.g. exact location
Personally I think little gem was not far off the mark in the other thread, but I'd also like to see it in writing that:
The events must be free
Details must not be published in the forum or chatroom e.g. exact location
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i have not read it all yet - too much for me in one sitting.... but
How come new newbies don't get to go to socials but non-members do?
One would presume (said in best posh voice) that the non member would be know to the organiser unlike a total newbie
ah - so the organiser can invite who they want - but others can't.
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So its too long AND i got it wrong
:doh:
:doh: Back to the :notes:
Or to put it another way - thanks for trying but don't give up your day job :giggle:
And why should anyone arranging a social, have to follow your rules / guidlines anyway??
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You have made something that is very simple, very complicated. You have tried to hash together everything about a munch and everything about a social and it doesn't work that way. No-one is going to read all that for a social of half a dozen people in a local pub. you have made a lot of suppositions which are unnecessary and incorrect.
Munches are site regulated, socials are not.
Mal
So its too long AND i got it wrong
:doh:
:doh: Back to the :notes:
Mike >>
"Nil Illigitemi Carborundum" and never say die.
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IMO anyone reading that lot and considering arranging a social for the first time would be put off for life...............sorry
I think that's because the bulk of it is taken from a site obsessed with making rules for every possible variable.
A site otherthan SH
Thank you Dambuster, HLB had me worried there for a moment, I was about to ring you both and ask xx
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From a guy in the know :thumbup:
Are you taking the piss ?
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HLB hun
It was ALL taken from this site just slightly edited
What utter bollocks.
The autofilter won't let me post a link, and I have too much respect to do so, but when I read your initial post MIke, it rang all sorts of bells in my head.
From the point where you wrote "FIRST POST" and downwards it is virtually, if not exactly, word for word the same as a sticky in the meeting forum of another site
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Quote by mike48
IMO anyone reading that lot and considering arranging a social for the first time would be put off for life...............sorry
I think that's because the bulk of it is taken from a site obsessed with making rules for every possible variable.
HLB hun
It was ALL taken from this site just slightly edited
Sorry MIke48 utter bollox, you got that from else where
