Not a new topic, I know; I was just going to bump the one I wrote a few years back, but couldn't find it.
First of all, get a sim card which is just for your "swinging" friends, you can swop real numbers later, with those who become real friends.
It's worthwhile confiding in someone who you can share certain info with. They don't have to know what you're up to, just tell them you're going on a first date. "Phone a friend", it's what many call girls do, and it's just an extra to help keep them safe.
Always arrange to meet in a public place, and don't be shy about asking a friend to tag along. If your meet is genuine then they won't object to you considering your safety, nor will they feel they need to be anonymous.
If you are going to an address or a hotel room, check it out, and let someone know where you're going. Don't ever be diverted to a different location from that which you had first arranged. Apologies for the dramatics, but if he said I'm in room 22, but meets you in the bar and then wants to take you to room 32 ?? alarm bells should be going off.
Never get into a car with someone you don't know without first, at least, sharing the car details with a friend.
There are people who just want to identify you, and to find out where you live, so be cautious when handing out information. From my own experiences, these people are usually just time wasters, and I didn't really worry about who knew where I lived, but better to be safe.
I'm sure I've missed something out, but any steps taken to ensure a safe and relaxed meet is worthwhile.
Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
Staying Safe
Orgasminator
Totally agree with you on this subject Skinny, better being safe than sorry, so many want to meet, but when they have been asked for information on hotel details ect, ect, and they get jumpy, leave well alone, and skinny brings up a good point, always let someone know where you r going, eg, on a first date ect, myself always tells one of my family when I have a date/meet, I'm lucky that my family know what I get up too, many don't want there families to know, so always take the steps to safety xx
She roars
She screams
She cries
She weeps
like a tiger.
She groans
She moans
She roams
Like a tiger.
Oh and I purr like a tiger if treated right mwahhhhh.
cheers Tigerfluff
She roars
She screams
She cries
She weeps
like a tiger.
She groans
She moans
She roams
Like a tiger.
Oh and I purr like a tiger if treated right mwahhhhh.
cheers Tigerfluff
Having had a very bad experience 4 years ago I totally agree that keeping safe is the best way forward.
My top Lone Female tips are: -
1. Always meet in a public place first, then you can make your excuses and leave if you need to
2. Have a friend to text/call at a pre-arranged time while you are out to check you are ok
3. Always take your handbag and drink with you if you need to use the bathroom, although rare it has been known for drinks to be spiked
4. Carry your own condoms, never be caught out unprepared
It's all common sense really, stay safe and have fun
My top Lone Female tips are: -
1. Always meet in a public place first, then you can make your excuses and leave if you need to
2. Have a friend to text/call at a pre-arranged time while you are out to check you are ok
3. Always take your handbag and drink with you if you need to use the bathroom, although rare it has been known for drinks to be spiked
4. Carry your own condoms, never be caught out unprepared
It's all common sense really, stay safe and have fun
