My mrs wants to buy a strap on and use on me. Has anyone else used one and apart from lube what other advice can you give me?
Hi Gary
We bought a strap on a few months back as we both love it.
For her, there are many benefits/pleasures - taking control of the sex, seeing you in a subservient/vulnerable position, a whole new viewpoint and perspective for her (as well as learning what it's like for a guy to fuck and the rythm needed), and if you buy a decent one thats got a built in bullet for her clit then she'll get serious physical pleasure too. My wife absolutely loves it. The physical vibrations make her climax and the visual/mental imagery makes it a strong one!!
For him, we'll, once you've agreed the position you're going to take it, add plenty of lube to you and the strap on and assume the position. Depending on your position of choice you get to choose how your needs are met too. And it will feel weird inside you, to start with, but it shouldn't hurt with enough lube, and once your own climax starts to build you'll appreciate her efforts. It'll makes your orgasm hard and plentiful. Well, that's my experience anyway.
Other things to consider - I'd suggest you start slim and work up. Don't force in something your missus could take inside her as you'll be much tighter and tense. Start slim and slow and only move up when you're ready. Also, don't be surprised if you lose your erection at times either. It's a strong sensation to deal with initially.
Otherwise, as described in the other post, it'll be a bit messy and you'll need to mop up more than your normal intercourse afterwards (for a guy at any rate) and you'll walk funny for a few mins afterwards (only joking) :-). Try some anal beads first to get an idea of what youre in for. And have plenty of lube and tissues to hand.
And then enjoy. You should both love the experience!!!