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Right forum folks, I'm after some help.
I'm hoping to purchase a strap on to help me fulfill my 2009 sexual to-do list.
Does anyone have any advice or guidance as to what I should be considering or looking out for?
Nola x
Size matters!
Don't go for anything too big, unless you know your intended victim can take it.
I have been on the receiving end of one of these and it is a good (for me) comfortable size, both anally and orally.
And if you need any help with practice once you get one, inbox button is over there <<< :twisted:
was recommended to me aaaaages ago, I just haven't got around to buying it yet. It's on my shopping list though, and I'm thinking I'll finally get round to ordering it when my next salary gets paid in :twisted:
It's apparently suitable for the *ahem* larger lady (I've had a problem before with not being able to actually fasten the strap around me redface ) and because it has leg straps as well as waist straps it's nice and sturdy and leaves your hands free... and you're still fully accessible as well (if you know what I mean :rascalsmile
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Size matters!
Don't go for anything too big, unless you know your intended victim can take it.
I have been on the receiving end of one of these and it is a good (for me) comfortable size, both anally and orally.
And if you need any help with practice once you get one, inbox button is over there <<< :twisted:

I have one of those and although the size is okay I'm not convinced about the texture. Its fairly rigid and the veins sorta put me off although it does stick to the wall as I recently found out! lol
In my head I think something perhaps a little softer, or maybe more flexible (?) might be better?
I'm gonna watch and learn here though cause I got a request last night from someone who wants to try it with me! :rascal:
Quote by Angel Chat
This one was recommended to me aaaaages ago, I just haven't got around to buying it yet. It's on my shopping list though, and I'm thinking I'll finally get round to ordering it when my next salary gets paid in :twisted:
It's apparently suitable for the *ahem* larger lady (I've had a problem before with not being able to actually fasten the strap around me redface ) and because it has leg straps as well as waist straps it's nice and sturdy and leaves your hands free... and you're still fully accessible as well (if you know what I mean :rascalsmile

And that was the harness I was looking for to go with that, thank you.
Yes, I'm quite keen (for the sort of scene I will be playing when wearing it) to have a fairly realistic attachment. Now obviously I know they aren't the same as the real thing, but from the receivers point of view, I would like it to be as pleasurable as possible.
It's just been pointed out to me that my recommendation is just a strap, and yes it is, but it's a fairly universal size apparently and you can buy the dildo to put in it separately.... which leaves you pretty much open to choose a size and texture that you personally like rather than being stuck with the one they supply ;)
I'll be watching the topic for replies on that score too :twisted: :twisted:
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Yes, I'm quite keen (for the sort of scene I will be playing when wearing it) to have a fairly realistic attachment. Now obviously I know they aren't the same as the real thing, but from the receivers point of view, I would like it to be as pleasurable as possible.

The one I mentioned is definitely pleasurable, feels quite comfortable, due to not being overly large.

I have mine in pink leather with three dildo's that I can use. The dildo's are colourful and easy to clean. I don't like the veiny things as I think they are ugly and also harder to clean.
This women in the shop are also soooooo bloody friendly and helpful I have never felt embarrassed when telephoning about anything.
worlass has got a harness that she really likes but it is narrower and not as flexible in sizing for those of us who are larger and also has nylon straps which she is happy with but when I had that sort of harness I found it cut into me. So I prefer the softer leather from Sh!.
Ummm I love my strap-on more and more. So ensure you get something that you really love and are comfortable wearing, if possible try someone else's before you invest as they are really individual. The lady that worlass and I were with recently much prefered worlass' harness and is going to be getting one of her own. (If worlass ever wakes up I will find out where her's was from)
ahem... I have had a 24 hour fuck fest so am a little over-excited and aroused and will stop now.
Quote by noladreams30
Right forum folks, I'm after some help.
I'm hoping to purchase a strap on to help me fulfill my 2009 sexual to-do list.
Does anyone have any advice or guidance as to what I should be considering or looking out for?
Nola x

This is on my to do list as well this year as I have never had the pleasure of using one or the experience of one smile
I shall be looking with interest in this thread.
Anyone who would like a first time experience with me pm box >>>>> wink
A meet we had with a couple a few months ago now, said she really liked my strap-on to hers. Hers was one that was wasn't "flexible", where-as mine was flexible. She said hers used to be a bit uncomfortable as it didn't have any give. The one I have, u can bend it and it stays in that position

This is the one I have. If you become a menber of the site, this strap-on will cost you It's rubbery and veined but bloody brilliant for the price! We use this site a lot for sex toys as it's really good value for money!
Good luck in your search! biggrin
Miss Cream xxx
And don't forget the big packet of lard...
I have a strap-on, but the box (lets be clear...packaging) is long gone, so don't know the make.
Its the third one I've had and the best! Its got leather straps, much better than any form of plastic and the actual dildo bit is a rubberish material with just enough give in it. Its hollow so is not too heavy.
Something which is vital for me, I have to put a condom on it before it is used on me. Two reasons, 1, hygene, 2, find the rubber dries me out a lot, condom lubrication helps.
I actually had some fun with it last night. The woman I was with had never used a strap-on before, she loved being on the recieving end, but found she did not like to give with it.
Shel
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Strap ons?
<Shudders>

Methinks one doth protest too much! innocent
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Anyone gets within 10 feet of me sporting one of them?
You'll hear me protest alright.
lol :lol: