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i was at a hospital not long ago. Just a short drop in to see someone.
I had to walk past casualty (what ever they are calling it this week) waiting room. There was a woman with her new husband and a cut on his head. When I left she was gone. She ambushed me out side, A voice called out from by the door. Being someone who tries not to ignore such things I stopped and talked.
She told me all about how mad she was with her husband for falling over, how it happened and I had the impression that all I needed was a bed. Then again she was not my type.
The question;
when we are stressed do we desire sex, or do we desire contact and sex is just the price to be offered.

Travis
maybe its your aftershave T mann :giggle:
maybe she deals with stressful situations with sex because she gets the feelings of the need to be comforted, held and enveloped in security with the feelings of sex and sexual satisfaction?
hope that makes sense
I remember from a presentation some years ago, delivered by one of these behavioural life coach type gurus. He explained that it is not at all unusual for complete strangers thrown together in a stressful situation to have sex. He cited one or two examples of hostage / kidnapper situations or persons involved in some sort of trauma.
Or maybe she just fancied you.
xx
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maybe its your aftershave T mann :giggle:
maybe she deals with stressful situations with sex because she gets the feelings of the need to be comforted, held and enveloped in security with the feelings of sex and sexual satisfaction?
hope that makes sense
Aftershave, no, my innate charm, charisma, good looks and natural self deprivation...and humility.
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I remember from a presentation some years ago, delivered by one of these behavioural life coach type gurus. He explained that it is not at all unusual for complete strangers thrown together in a stressful situation to have sex. He cited one or two examples of hostage / kidnapper situations or persons involved in some sort of trauma.
Or maybe she just fancied you.
xx
The strange thing is sex does create a lot of stress, or at least the build up to sex. What will they be like; in the flesh, alone, just what do they mean by kinky, will Mrs Blogs come and knock at the door? Then afterwards, relaxed, looking for more.
After a lot of stress, sex, relaxed, stress, sex, relaxed, there must be an association set up. Therefore stress is linked to sex. Could be.
As for Stockholm, it is true...but they are sexy in the Nordic countries.
:lol2:
mate, some times you're so full of it it starts coming out of your ears rotflmao
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I've had a really stressful year and I have to admit I have gone to chams purely with the idea to unwind and destress a bit. I find sex does do that for me and afterwards my smile has returned and I'm much more myself.
I've never ushered over random people off the street though lol.
They do reckon that people who have a regular sex life live longer, which is why I try my best to lol (not very good at getting it though). So maybe there is something in it.
Venus,if we can prove this, perhaps we can get sex on the NHS. Just like our local doctor and fitness centre is doing, three months free work outs.
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Venus,if we can prove this, perhaps we can get sex on the NHS. Just like our local doctor and fitness centre is doing, three months free work outs.

I'll start doing research straight away!!! lol
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Venus,if we can prove this, perhaps we can get sex on the NHS. Just like our local doctor and fitness centre is doing, three months free work outs.

I'll start doing research straight away!!! lol
volunteer guinea pig at your service :rascal: