For those of us that play these games, are you sub or dom or do you switch?
Whatever role you prefer, why?
For me im naturally sub. Only done the dom thing over the net (a Yank once offered me $500 to fly over and dominate his, which i thought was a bit cheapstake) and not sure i could carry it off in reall life.
Love the sub thing cos its so far away from real life, no resoponsabilty , n o need to think.
What about you?
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Sub or Dom?
Sex God
I can switch when I'm with a female. 
:wink:
With other guys though I'm definitely (and always) sub.
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:wink: With other guys though I'm definitely (and always) sub.
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Sex God
This is such a complicated one as I am so switch it depends on the other person. If they are really dominant I love to play sub, if they are really sub then dominant it is. I don't prefer one over the other as they are completely different roles.
Or is it just me being damn awkward again!?
Or is it just me being damn awkward again!?
Orgasminator
Quote by little gem
This is such a complicated one as I am so switch it depends on the other person. If they are really dominant I love to play sub, if they are really sub then dominant it is. I don't prefer one over the other as they are completely different roles.
Or is it just me being damn awkward again!?
Just like little gem says.
Only for me it is not complicated at all. I enjoy taking either role depending upon my partner or my/my partners mood.
When we played these games I was always dominant with my wife because she just couldn't be dom, it just made me laugh 'cos she was so meek & mild.
But other partners, who are naturally more assertive in life, I have been more than willing to be submissive to their demands.
It doesn't work for everyone but variety certainly is the spice of life.
I'm naturally sub, but with the wildest of domme fantasies :shock:
I don't think I could ever carry out the domme fantasies, cos it really is so far from my nature, I would just feel silly
Someone saying "errrm scuse me, could you just move that way a tiny bit, yep, that's it, ta everso"
and "ooooh shit, sorry, did that hurt" :? is gonna have much of an impact 
Soooooo in conclusion, I s'pose I'm a domme trapped in a subs body :undecided:
I don't think I could ever carry out the domme fantasies, cos it really is so far from my nature, I would just feel silly
Someone saying "errrm scuse me, could you just move that way a tiny bit, yep, that's it, ta everso"
and "ooooh shit, sorry, did that hurt" :? is gonna have much of an impact Soooooo in conclusion, I s'pose I'm a domme trapped in a subs body :undecided:
Sex God
Domme here and love it, although I do have a passive side in the bedroom, not big enough really to be classed as a submissive side though.
There's only certain people who see that side too. I find it so much easier to carry off the Domme role and can be somewhat of a control freak I guess.
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There's only certain people who see that side too. I find it so much easier to carry off the Domme role and can be somewhat of a control freak I guess.
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Sex God
deffo sub (H`red)
Sex God
Can be either depending on who and the situation but neither more sub nor more dom ... I guess with more practice and experience I'd determine which I prefer most.
Funny though, I always associated the sub/dom question more with the fetish scene than swinging ...
Funny though, I always associated the sub/dom question more with the fetish scene than swinging ...
Master of Sex
i can be both depends who im playing with
Quote by J3diMast3r
Can be either depending on who and the situation but neither more sub nor more dom ... I guess with more practice and experience I'd determine which I prefer most.
Funny though, I always associated the sub/dom question more with the fetish scene than swinging ...
It is possible to do both!!
Sex God
Quote by foxylady 123
Can be either depending on who and the situation but neither more sub nor more dom ... I guess with more practice and experience I'd determine which I prefer most.
Funny though, I always associated the sub/dom question more with the fetish scene than swinging ...
It is possible to do both!!
Sure is ... though the time I went to Fetish Night at a swingers club, I felt like the most dressed up person there
which was a first :lol2: 
Warming the Bed
Naturally - I'm DOMand I love evey minute of it! 
But then who doesn't enjoy being tied up and blindfolded every once in a while - I love every min of that too! :wink: :wink:
But then who doesn't enjoy being tied up and blindfolded every once in a while - I love every min of that too!
:wink: :wink: 
Sex God
Quote by MrBeen
who doesn't enjoy being tied up and blindfolded?
Me
Sex God
Definately a Domme, ok, well I have occassionaly been ever so slightly submissive too but only on rare occassions, and not enough to count as having sub tendancies.
Casanova
Im actually very sub when it comes to me and Mr Tigs, but when it comes to fem or fem I find that I can be very dom.
So I suppose that would make me a switch
So I suppose that would make me a switch
Orgasminator
Alot who know me might wonder why i struggle with this, yes i am sub (very sub sometimes) but i am like MISSCHIEF i have fantasies of being Domme.... but they make me giggle thinking about them :giggle: never mind actually doing them ops: 
Sex God
I would like to consider myself an aggressive submissive, if that oxymoron is allowed??
Silky :twisted:
Silky :twisted:
Sex God
Anyone who has responsibilities is liable to be a Sub - just to get away from the responsibilities of life. Doms are made in heaven.
And if you think I owe you an apology for this observation my sweetness then think again - just remove your knoickers and come and lay over my knees!!
And if you think I owe you an apology for this observation my sweetness then think again - just remove your knoickers and come and lay over my knees!!
