surgestions opinions , views and ridicule welcome :P

31 Jul 2005

ok heres the thing concidering setting up an orgy with some ppl we've met/chatted too and maybe some we havnt now for the questions....
1. would you surgest in our own home or hiring a house for it ?
2. is the idea even surgestable ? :P
3. how many should be invited , allowing for no shows?
4. should we invite mainly couples witha few singles or ithe other way round?
5. this is an apendum to 1 .. what about location?im guessing down south would be be better than up here if we did hire somewhere (though would love a party like this up north of the border ;))
ok think thats enough questions for now :P except the last ..any mods/veterans to SH want to help with the invites if theres enough intrest? we can do all the rest of the work if we decide to go ahead but would be nice to have someone help decide who should be on a list as we are still reletivly new ourselfs smile

matt and crystal

31 Jul 2005

Quote by heaysyandck
ok heres the thing concidering setting up an orgy with some ppl we've met/chatted too and maybe some we havnt now for the questions....
1. would you surgest in our own home or hiring a house for it ?
Depends how many you invite.
2. is the idea even surgestable ? :P
Eh? you just did.
3. how many should be invited , allowing for no shows?
Isn't that up to you?
4. should we invite mainly couples witha few singles or ithe other way round?
Again, your orgy, you decide.
5. this is an apendum to 1 .. what about location?im guessing down south would be be better than up here if we did hire somewhere (though would love a party like this up north of the border ;))
Apendum??
Locate it wherever YOU want it.
ok think thats enough questions for now :P except the last ..any mods/veterans to SH want to help with the invites if theres enough intrest? we can do all the rest of the work if we decide to go ahead but would be nice to have someone help decide who should be on a list as we are still reletivly new ourselfs
Considering the fact that you're relatively new, how would anyone know who to invite, as they don't know much about you or your preferences?
matt and crystal

My suggestions/opinions in red, for what they're worth.

31 Jul 2005

well i have to agree with freckledbird its your party you set the rules if people don't like them they don't have to come, u invite as many as you like and a mixture of couples and singles that apeal's to you, tho i must comment on the allowing for now shows thing, being quite new to the site i think you will find most genuine couples will be weary of putting their names down due to the amount of time wasters who join the site put a few posts up and then leave, i would suggest u get yourself know b4 doing a party.

31 Jul 2005

Quote by heaysyandck
1. would you surgest in our own home or hiring a house for it ?
2. is the idea even surgestable ? :P
3. how many should be invited , allowing for no shows?
4. should we invite mainly couples witha few singles or ithe other way round?
5. this is an apendum to 1 .. what about location?im guessing down south would be be better than up here if we did hire somewhere (though would love a party like this up north of the border ;))

1. If you feel comfortable with inviting people to you house it will save you some money... lol

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2. Yes, definately, if you want to do it
3. Entirely up to you. Do you want a small intimate gathering or a large free for all, or a party-type situation? You will get no shows.... probably more so if you are inviting complete strangers... with strangers you may get LOTS of no shows - prepare for this.
4. Again, entirely up to you... no-one can dictate your preferences.
5. I'd say the location is not really an issue - if people want to be with you they'll travel.
:lol:

31 Jul 2005

Quote by heaysyandck
..any mods/veterans to SH want to help with the invites if theres enough intrest?

I missed this.....
Mods are not here to help people organise orgies :shock: :shock: :shock: . If you want to get people you know to help you organising, fine..... but don't expect people who don't know you to muck in. This has to be your gig, you sort it out! confused

31 Jul 2005

Quote by bluexxx
..any mods/veterans to SH want to help with the invites if theres enough intrest?

I missed this.....
Mods are not here to help people organise orgies :shock: :shock: :shock: . If you want to get people you know to help you organising, fine..... but don't expect people who don't know you to muck in. This has to be your gig, you sort it out! confused

I was asked by pm about 3 weeks before the Nottingham munch by a single male to arrange his bed partner for the night :shock: :shock: :shock:
Arranging munches are fine, arranging bed partners, sort it out yourselves :twisted:
Mine you Bluexxx I could have set him up with you and your strap on!! :shock: that would have sorted out the problem

31 Jul 2005

It would definitely put someone off asking again lol