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Sex God
I'd steer clear of telling someone else's wife that her hubby has been having an affair. I reckon she'll freak.... real life isn't a soap opera you know! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
do you honestly think she would take it any better coming from you than her own it this way she will more than likely feel betrayed not only by her husband but also from the people she calls friends! this fantasy you have of having a foursome with this guys wife just so you don't feel left out may just lead to the end of all this....and may become public knowledge workwise!
Just think of the scenio.....you take this women out for a drink you sit her down then tell her that her husband has been f~~king your wife,but its ok because it turns you on. of course she will be over the moon because you have now told her that she is more than welcome to join......i don't think so!.......
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Just think of the scenio.....you take this women out for a drink you sit her down then tell her that her husband has been f~~king your wife,but its ok because it turns you on. of course she will be over the moon because you have now told her that she is more than welcome to join......i don't think so!.......
how about wearin the drink ? .......or worse ! are tickets available ?
Yeah! how about ring side seats!
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sorry, arron, I am sceptical about your post, you want to go swinging and your wife just announced 2 years back to an affair? wasnt disscused ,you just got told? if a proper couple do you not talk an decide things together? and as to interfering in anothers marriage for yours an his gratification, well you is heading for trouble ! are you sure you are all not fantasising ?
this is only my opinion !
You're entitled to your opinon, but I give you my word that nobody is fantasising. I am pobably at a different wavelength form some of you guys, given by more conservative upbringing and that is probably why you feel sceptical. Please remember that both Jaye and I spent the first 25 years of our lives (22 in her case) in India where things are not discussed openly even these days, let alone 15 years ago. But Jaye and I have tried to adapt to western ways since we came to live in the UK.
We have been sexually liberated since 1999 when we indulged in wife swapping games for the first time. But that was with a couple we knew for many years (I have posted that story in the 'Swingers stories' section) and it was the 'first time' for all of us back then. Therefore, my wife knew quite well that I would not consider her affair with John as an infidelity. If you read my post again, you'll see that Jaye did tell me soon after she began her affair with John - which was 2 years ago. But it is this idea of bringing Annika in that is new.
In defence of John, he is quite happy to tell his wife himself about his affair with Jaye, but it is I who have so far stopped him from doing so, because it may spell an end to this idea of a foursome. To be honest, I quite fancy Annika myself and am very keen on taking her to bed, but am not too sure of her reaction to a proposition. She can be a bit tempermental at times and all 3 of us want to get the idea across right.
My own feeling is that I could perhaps express to Annika my own fancy to her without mentioning the affair at first. If she responds positively, the rest could be easy. But if she rejects my advances and tells John, then it is pointless.
Sex God
Having also seen that you have chosen to publish this story in the stories section I am also questioning your motives for asking our advice? If you know this woman as well as you say you do, why do you need to ask anyone's advice anyway? Don't get me wrong, I'm not having a go - the things is, this is a swingers site, not marriage guidance!
