Swinging and the Web

23 Mar 2007

Having read some very interesting threads recently, some questions have popped into my mind so I thought I’d ask in here for your views / experiences.
How effective has the www been in your search for fun and playmates or any other part of the lifestyle?
Now pleas don’t post any url’s or links or we will all be subjected to the wrath of admin and the MODs, and rightly so.
So generally how much of a role has the web played in your lifestyle choices / experiences, the other thing that interests me is how many of you have managed to successfully introduce ’vanillas’ to the scene?
In SH tradition I’ll start the ball rolling.
For me the web has had a huge influence and I have met all but 3 of my swing partners through the internet. Not sure how much location / financial status has to do with it but as some of you know I live way out in the sticks and usually find myself skint so I don’t get out and about to socialise even locally as much as I’d like so the web has been a real lifeline for me.
I have managed to introduce 3 vanillas to the scene and last I heard they are still having a great time, a fourth is still looking into the whole idea and has admitted she is very curious, so watch this space lol

So good people of SH, I would appreciate some of your view’s, ideas and experiences wink

23 Mar 2007

the net has been fantastic for me in meeting playmates but even more so has given me a great place to meet, keep in contact and make new friends as well as playmates
i too have introduced vanillas and they are having fun, we are all so far apart geographically that the net serves the purpose of keeping us all closer to each other
EArthy xx

23 Mar 2007

Hi Pete
Good thread :thumbup: Well the net started it all for us, that fated google search to find out what dogging was all about!!
We have found half of our playmates on the web (this very site actually) and the other half (well slighty less) from visiting clubs.
This Forum for me has been all about learning more, flirting, sharing experiences and talking about good ol' sexy stuff that is harder to do in vanilla company.
I agree with Earthy, keeping in contact with people via the web has been great.
Have we turned any vanilla's? No we are far to guarded of our lifestyle to do that, but it has been strange the amount of conversations that have evolved around swinging, is it just that we are noticing it more (like when you buy a red car you suddenly see loads!) or are we acting differently? :shock:
pink x

23 Mar 2007

Hi Pete,
When I was 18 my then girlfriend and I used to enjoy 3somes and 4somes, but even as little as 10 years ago it was a lot more hit and miss because we had to go out nad find these people at pubs or clubs. Things are very different in 2007!
In a nutshell the internet hasn't influenced my tastes but it has certinaly made it easier to get the type of sex I want with the type of people I want to have that sex with.

23 Mar 2007

i would say it has influenced everything, if i had not come across this site chatted to all of you guys and girls and that would have not put me in touch with my first fun. cool

23 Mar 2007

I used to have regular swinging meets using classified ads in publications in the pre-internet days.
I have been on swinging websites for over three years now, and have only had three swinging meets in all, including two via this site - it's probably the greater competition. :cry:

23 Mar 2007

I was introduced into the whole swinging-thing as a result of a vanilla date.
Apart from him though, all my other friends and liasons have come via the marvellous interweb.
Hurrah!

24 Mar 2007

Quote by Miss_Kiss
...In a nutshell the internet hasn't influenced my tastes but it has certinaly made it easier to get the type of sex I want with the type of people I want to have that sex with.

I don't think I could put it any better myself.
But may I add that I have also forged some fantastic friendships with the type of people I like to be with as well :thumbup:

24 Mar 2007

Well, it has certainly helped, but hasn't stopped us meeting up with people that we haven't found on the net!
Although, I suppose it has given us the balls to search out 'regular' people- we seem to think everyone in everyday situations is a potential swinger now!
Take for example the waitress that served us dinner the other night (when we were both out with my dad please note!)
We both thought she was gorgeous and sure there was some subtle glances going on, so at the end of an alcohol fuelled night, i wrote a wee note with our phone number on it, and gave it to den to give to her.
Only problem being he handed it over when she was standing next to her mate, and right in front of my dad!
what a numpty- now my dad thinks den is chatting up other girls whilst out with me- how do i explain to dearest daddy that it's his daughter that's the naughty one! hehehe!
maz xx