We are regulars around the Clubs of the NW and interested to hear the views of others regarding condoms and their use at Swing Clubs and generally in the Swinging World.
It is common to see women performing oral sex on men (or groups of men) without the use of condoms yet condoms are invariably, and quite rightly, insisted on with any other type of penetrative sex.
We ourselves have played with single guys and with the male of a duo and Mrs Hot has not given a second thought to the need of a condom whilst sucking a male. We enjoy threesomes and foursomes and along with what seems to be the 'norm' we just use condoms for penetrative sex.
last week we spoke to a couple who are really into the dogging scene and she said that she often sucked guys in car parks and said that one evening last summer sucked 16 different guys - all strangers. We asked if she had ever had any problems with infections or such like and they said that they had been swinging for 20 years and never used condoms for oral sex had never had a single problem, nor did they know of anyone who had.
To be honest we felt that we were pushing our luck by sucking without condoms and one day we would get caught out, but what is the general view and experience of genuine swingers on this site? How long have you been swinging? Do you use condoms with oral sex? have you ever been caught out? Do you know anyone that has?
Cheers
K - hot
T - hot
(too hot)
Mmmm Deja Vou ???
Is this thread a parrott?
Is this Kill Swinging day............ Doom and Bloody Gloom or what!! Bloody hells bells Is there anything worth doing these days that doesn't come with a health warning!! No need to be reckless but if your a swinger your taking a risk, Full Stop! If you can't touch or don't like whats happening buy a video..... sorry DVD and sit with a cushion in case you bump your blindin head putting it in! Whats the point in being a swinger if you can't touch lol?
Mike x
wear a condom, better safe than sorry :!:
and if you say it stops / numbs feeling then just cut the top off :P
Grrrrrrrrrrrrr
Thats better lol!
I agree But a voyeur wouldn't need worry about condoms surely! Unless a bit of splatter is an issue too........... My point is people moaning about the risks of Swinging and the use of condoms.... Yes use them for sure but be real about the risks involved! Oh and the fact that 2 threads are going about the very same thing lol seems like the killjoys are out in force....... F*ck I'm moaning now and Iv'e had a great day too lol......
I'm off for a bit................
Mike xx
We are far removed from the mood of killing swinging - we love to swing, but to our own rules.
We are only asking if everyone else shares similar views that oral is OK but penetrative sex needs a condom?
It's a straightforward question as yet not received any straightforward answers.
WE don't swap partners so (T) never wears a condom and when I / we play with guys orally we don't either. But on special occasions where a single guy gets very well traeted then we insist on condoms - but we just trying to work out if we are fooling ourselves.
Sorry if it sounds negative or killjoy we just interested in other people's view points.
Thanks
Unless its Tony i'm doing it to, I have always asked the guy to wear a condom before i give him oral and they have never had a problem with that... and most have come back for more!
yes there will always risk's when your swinging but we feel if them risk's can be reduced than we will take the precautions needed.. within reason... as far as something like a dental dam then we wouldn't go that far... but saying that, just because someone else might use one i wouldn't think bad of them or think there being to over cautious.
I wouldn't say swinging isn't for someone and to go and buy a video just because there idea of safety levels is higher than mine.
We all have our own idea's of how safe we should be, we have no rights to question the next person, If you don't like there yes and no's then move on.... don't play with them full stop!
Thats my point anyway...
Shaz x
Whilst I would never consider penative sex without a condom the reverse is true for a b/j.
If i wanted to suck rubber I have a car with perfectly good tyres!!
Much prefer the taste of dick to the taste of rubber, even the flavoured ones!!
Lifes full of risks , though I would guess that I have more chance of being run over in the street than catching anything from the average cock sucking session.
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Can I clarify a point or two here lol........ at no point would I criticise anyone whatsoever in there choices of safety...... If I have given that impression I'm sorry, really I am! What I do mean is that there’s just as much risk in oral sex or even sex between two women in terms of most things we can catch off each other… Yes there’s a risk and it’s a real one for sure but if someone were to have unprotected oral you really have almost the same chance of catching (some but not all) anything that person may be carrying!!
I will not and do not judge anyone for what they choose to do!! Hope that’s clear lol. We all have a choice…… and we (yes that’s us as a couple) stick to anyone’s limits just as we would ask anyone to stick to ours!
Rant over for today……… just seen a little swipe at something I said sorry xxxx
Mike x
You might find this site gives you some helpfull information on sexual health and some links to other sites which may or may not aleviate your fears/concerns
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/advice/sexual-health.html
Personally I don't find condoms make much difference to oral, even feel a little happier wearing one in unknown mouths After all it works both ways, your mouth may protect you from the things, but it also may harbour something and pass it to the next man if there only a few seconds gap there...
