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Swinging clubs.......HELP...........
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Sexlightened
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Sex God
look out for people saying they are going to a club on here in lets meet up. You will probably find its an invite to share a beer as opposed to a wife, and they can introduce you to the club scene, first off though decide what kind of club you fancy, they all have their own merits, some may suit you others may not, it depends on what your hopes are.
Finally as for whether it is a good w2ay to get into the scene only you can decide that, its certainly an easy way of having sex with other people, or just watxching or just sounding out, sounding out is good especially if you or your partner have doubts, feel free to pm us
wrats
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Finally as for whether it is a good w2ay to get into the scene only you can decide that, its certainly an easy way of having sex with other people, or just watxching or just sounding out, sounding out is good especially if you or your partner have doubts, feel free to pm us
wrats
xx
Sex God
Can only speak at a single, but not sure that makes any difference as at the end of the day, you can only go on recommendations given here/elsewhere and I think whichever club it is, even the really popular ones - the nature of 'things' is that it's not so much the club or even how many or few people there are at a club on any particular night, but the collection of people there on the night that make the difference.
I've been to various clubs when it's been extremely busy in terms of numbers there, and absolutely no play has happened of any kind, and I've been to nights when there have only been a handful of people there and they've been fantastic.
I've been to various clubs when it's been extremely busy in terms of numbers there, and absolutely no play has happened of any kind, and I've been to nights when there have only been a handful of people there and they've been fantastic.
Ty for the sensible replies........... plus pm help that we have had which has been quite helpful too ............
On reflection, plus a private party invite (omg how exciting) - think we will go that way first - seems a bit more friendly (not that we are looking for meaningful realtionships
) Clubs i fear may have to be worked up to for us 
Thank you all
D&G
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On reflection, plus a private party invite (omg how exciting) - think we will go that way first - seems a bit more friendly (not that we are looking for meaningful realtionships
) Clubs i fear may have to be worked up to for us Thank you all
D&G
xxx
I have come to realise that the advice on what club will be best is likely to be quite subjective.
What is seedy to you is not to someone else.
If you go with an image in your head that swinging clubs can be seedy - you may just find what you think you will find because your mind is expecting it.
What is a good club to me may be nothing like what you want to find.
What I think is a good night could be your worst nighmare.
My advice would be:
Read the club websites.
Decide what you may want to do when you are there.
Phone the clubs and ask them questions.
Ask if you can go for just a look around.
Try a few you like the sound of.
Take advice from people you know, who have a better idea of what you may enjoy.
What is seedy to you is not to someone else.
If you go with an image in your head that swinging clubs can be seedy - you may just find what you think you will find because your mind is expecting it.
What is a good club to me may be nothing like what you want to find.
What I think is a good night could be your worst nighmare.
My advice would be:
Read the club websites.
Decide what you may want to do when you are there.
Phone the clubs and ask them questions.
Ask if you can go for just a look around.
Try a few you like the sound of.
Take advice from people you know, who have a better idea of what you may enjoy.
