Since Cynthia Payne stopped having her paties many years ago is there anywhere else in UK where over-sixties singles and couples can go to enjoy themselves with other mature swingers.
I go to Swingers clubs in south and North west but us oldies (especially) male are tolerated rather than welcomed.
Any ideas?
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No country for old men?
Yes, that seems to be the case. I've never been into clubbing: too noisy for me. But my impression (after just a few weeks, though) is that this whole site is not really bus-pass-holder friendly. That shouldn't be any surprise, however. I suppose it's inevitable that most users are going to be 35+, and under 50. And as for straight men, we all know we're heavily outnumbered by women. We've just got to be patient.
Those of us who've turned sixty know we're far from over the hill, but still have a lot to offer. We know we make caring, sensual lovers, with years of experience. It's just a matter of convincing the ladies to give us a try! I can hardly blame you women in your 40s and 50s for wanting a younger man; it's only natural. Socially and in work I have no trouble relating well to younger women, but sex seems to be another matter. I suppose lots of younger guys want to put on a show all the time. They want to be a porn star every time they have sex. We're past all that, but can provide something rich and wonderful.
I'm sure there are plenty of people out there - couples or single women - who can sing the praises of us older men. Let's hear from you!
Dave.
Yes, that seems to be the case. I've never been into clubbing: too noisy for me. But my impression (after just a few weeks, though) is that this whole site is not really bus-pass-holder friendly. That shouldn't be any surprise, however. I suppose it's inevitable that most users are going to be 35+, and under 50. And as for straight men, we all know we're heavily outnumbered by women. We've just got to be patient.
Those of us who've turned sixty know we're far from over the hill, but still have a lot to offer. We know we make caring, sensual lovers, with years of experience. It's just a matter of convincing the ladies to give us a try! I can hardly blame you women in your 40s and 50s for wanting a younger man; it's only natural. Socially and in work I have no trouble relating well to younger women, but sex seems to be another matter. I suppose lots of younger guys want to put on a show all the time. They want to be a porn star every time they have sex. We're past all that, but can provide something rich and wonderful.
I'm sure there are plenty of people out there - couples or single women - who can sing the praises of us older men. Let's hear from you!
Dave.
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Age is a number; you have preconceptions that you've brought here. Leave them at the door and close it behind you. You'll find that if you put in little, you'll get little out of the site, and vice versa.
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Age is a number; you have preconceptions that you've brought here. Leave them at the door and close it behind you.
here here fbI played with a few couples in their 60's & trust me if it weren't for their attitudes & down right friendly personalities I would not be replying to this post!
to double quote fb... it will be your own preconceptions that will affect the way others see you
Good luck & have fun!
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I must admit that I would not play with someone who was 20 years older than me (that would be 63) BUT by the same token I would not play with anyone 20 years younger than me either (that would be 23) I have a preference for those around my own generation. So you see I'm not just singling out those older but the younger one's too. What interests me though is that you rarely see posts on here from the younger folk around 23 or so being upset that 43 year old's won't have sex with them.
It's down to preference and mine is to not sleep with youngsters my son's age and ladies the same age as my Mum.
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It's down to preference and mine is to not sleep with youngsters my son's age and ladies the same age as my Mum.
Love
Fire x
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I found similar attitudes so just bought a boxed set of 'Diagnosis Murder' DVD's, set the recorder to tape Countdown and accepted it. 
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I found similar attitudes so just bought a boxed set of 'Diagnosis Murder' DVD's, set the recorder to tape Countdown and accepted it.
Mine isnt an attitude, just a preference
Oh and can I borrow your Diagnosis Murder DVD's ?
Quote by davej
I found similar attitudes so just bought a boxed set of 'Diagnosis Murder' DVD's, set the recorder to tape Countdown and accepted it.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: People will believe you! :giggle:
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Quote by dan63uks
Since Cynthia Payne stopped having her paties many years ago is there anywhere else in UK where over-sixties singles and couples can go to enjoy themselves with other mature swingers.
I go to Swingers clubs in south and North west but us oldies (especially) male are tolerated rather than welcomed.
Any ideas?
Cynthia Payne's parties were nothing to do with swinging, they were events where men were "entertained" by prostitutes, hookers, working girls, call them what you wish.
I agree with the response here that age is just a number - just act as if you've forgotten what age you are.
It's good to see Uncle Dave posting in here again.
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Quote by davej
I found similar attitudes so just bought a boxed set of 'Diagnosis Murder' DVD's, set the recorder to tape Countdown and accepted it.
Flippin' 'eck! Breath of fresh air just blown in!
I haven't got a clue what 'Diagnosis Murder' is - so it must've been before my time.
I also can't operate the recorder and need a youngster to do it for me.
I must be just the right age fer this place!
:bounce: (Jeez, I'm out of breath now!)
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It's in ya profile
We both agree that sexiness comes from within. So we will invite people into our bed what ever their age/size/skin etc, just as long as we find them sexy and attractive (thats attractive to us and maybe not to you - we are all differrent). We would be very happy to play with over 60's and have done in the past.
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BUT by the same token I would not play with anyone 20 years younger than me either (that would be 23)
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Fire x
shucks does that mean nearly 25 is out? :twisted:
I prefer to play with people older than myself but there is different theories in my head 1 50 year old may seem somewhat older while another 50 year old may seem somewhat younger so it really is just a number its more whats in your head and heart that counts
Some great contributions to this thread.
Of course those who say that you should forget about your age are right, and there are obviously people who do. But I just ask you to consider the ads: it is quite rare to see those looking specifically for oldies. I suspect that for those who do it is a sort of fetish thing: the randy old git has an appeal all of his own for some women - many much younger than the men they want to attract. While I can see there might be some pleasure in this I'd much sooner be taken for what I am: someone with the sexual appetite of a younger bloke in a body that first saw the light of day before the Normandy Landings. I really do not think much about my age; age, like size, colour, marital status, is just no big deal. What really matters is the person under the (even if slightly wrinkled and sagging) skin.
I do respect those who say they want to play just with their own age group. It would be very arrogant of me to expect women who could be my daughter (or, heaven forbid, my granddaughter) to even think about sex with me. But there is no commandment saying 'thou shalt not have sex with people much younger or older than yourself.'
But, eh, this is getting too serious. We've got our new bus passes now. Here's a challenge: how far can anybody get in a day on a bus for free and go and play? You'd have to be back within the day, too.
Any takers? I'm game to try!
Dave.
Of course those who say that you should forget about your age are right, and there are obviously people who do. But I just ask you to consider the ads: it is quite rare to see those looking specifically for oldies. I suspect that for those who do it is a sort of fetish thing: the randy old git has an appeal all of his own for some women - many much younger than the men they want to attract. While I can see there might be some pleasure in this I'd much sooner be taken for what I am: someone with the sexual appetite of a younger bloke in a body that first saw the light of day before the Normandy Landings. I really do not think much about my age; age, like size, colour, marital status, is just no big deal. What really matters is the person under the (even if slightly wrinkled and sagging) skin.
I do respect those who say they want to play just with their own age group. It would be very arrogant of me to expect women who could be my daughter (or, heaven forbid, my granddaughter) to even think about sex with me. But there is no commandment saying 'thou shalt not have sex with people much younger or older than yourself.'
But, eh, this is getting too serious. We've got our new bus passes now. Here's a challenge: how far can anybody get in a day on a bus for free and go and play? You'd have to be back within the day, too.
Any takers? I'm game to try!
Dave.
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Im in the group that prefers to play with my own generation too. Anyone old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my son is not on the radar. Sorry but that's how i feel right now.
Same for us - we've set boundaries that reflect this
Having said that though - when we met folks at socials/clubs etc age isn't something that gets asked - if we click with someone we let it play out and see how we go
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You know, it's quite possible that there are people who actually prefer to play with those older than themselves, rather than with people of their own age.
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Quote by Cherrytree
You know, it's quite possible that there are people who actually prefer to play with those older than themselves, rather than with people of their own age.
There have been exceptions but yes generally I do.There aren't as many people who post that they've been brushed off in favour of someone older though
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Quote by Cherrytree
You know, it's quite possible that there are people who actually prefer to play with those older than themselves, rather than with people of their own age.
There have been exceptions but yes generally I do.I would say that a majority of the people I have played with have been older than me.
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