Right tonight we are meeting up with a couple, us being swingers this may not seem like a big deal, but to us, who swing very infrequently it is a little bit nerve wracking......
Not in the sense of meeting and having a drink together seeing if there is an attraction and whether we feel the "chemistry is there to lead to hanky panky", as this is the bit we really enjoy, the social side and the anticipation and flirting that accompany the build up to "sealing the deal" for want of a better phrase

We kind of get SLIGHTLY nervous about the transition from being in the pub and having a drink together getting to know one another, to actually getting down to the sexual side of the meet up!! :shock:
So, we thought, "why dont we play a game?", now im not talking guess who, scrabble or battleships here, im talking about sexually orientated games, and we were wondering "does anybody else do this type of thing or as adults do they see it as a little immature?"
Here's our game, its called imaginatively "Top Trump, Truth Dare or Strip" and this is the basic premise of the game.......
we have a pack of the kids favourite from way back when "top trumps" and each player gets equal amount of cards......
they also get three shot glasses filled with peach schnapps....
we go in turn giving our "top trump figure" and the one who gets the best or highest gets to ask the lowest figure player whether they want truth,dare or strip!!
if they choose truth or dare they have to drink one shot of their 3 drinks then tell the truth about the question or do a dare.
When all the 3 shots are gone and they then lose during a round they HAVE to strip an item of clothing!!!
Sounds really corny but i think it will be really fun and loosen the atmosphere and any nerves about the transition between chatting an flirting and getting to the sexual stuff!!
So over to you guys, do any of you play games like this during meet ups or do u think its either unnecessary or lame?? Tell the truth we dare you, or you might have to strip :lol: