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Sex God
It's a bit difficult to give advice without knowing what you're looking for. Are you looking to meet other couples through adverts, or at swingers clubs? Before you do either, a bit of advice I would give you maybe is to decide before you embark on anything, what your limits are. For example, I saw a row develop in a couples room in a swingers club once between a couple because the bloke came with someone who wasn't his partner (OK, me 
) -presumably that wasn't in their "rules". It was funny for the onlookers, but not for the man concerned 
The point is, decide if you are going to have "rules" or not between yourselves, and stick to them (or live with the consequences 
)! Be clear of your personal limits too - for example, are you looking for same room fun only, to swap, are you both bi etc etc? Thinking about things like that will save your time and that of others.
That all sounds a bit serious :shock: , but above all swinging is about having fun - so ENJOY it, have a laugh, explore your limits, if one scene doesn't work out have a go at something else, be sensible and safe, and you'll never look back!
Good luck!
Michelle
) -presumably that wasn't in their "rules". It was funny for the onlookers, but not for the man concerned The point is, decide if you are going to have "rules" or not between yourselves, and stick to them (or live with the consequences )! Be clear of your personal limits too - for example, are you looking for same room fun only, to swap, are you both bi etc etc? Thinking about things like that will save your time and that of others. That all sounds a bit serious :shock: , but above all swinging is about having fun - so ENJOY it, have a laugh, explore your limits, if one scene doesn't work out have a go at something else, be sensible and safe, and you'll never look back!
Good luck!
Michelle
Michelle,
Thanks for your advice, which we have taken, after some thought we think that the best way forward is to maybe come and watch, see for ourselves what it's actually like, before we take the plunge.
You mentioned 'same room' stuff, which we assumed, was having sex with each other but in the same room as other couples (and not swapping or getting physically involved, at least not at first). This sounds like the way to go first, and something, which we would feel most comfortable with. We both like the idea of watching its cheeky and it turns us on.
So the question is, are there any people out there that enjoy being watched, and wouldn’t mind us getting off on their pleasure?
We are not sure if this is acceptable, so if anyone could reply with their views.
Also, we have had some issues with clubs, after checking the net for reviews, some of the clubs seem a bit too much for a first time. So do people have parties or the like, where we could come along and enjoy the swinging scene with couples without directly joining in, (single guys are not our thing).
Thank you for your comments and hopefully we might get an invite somewhere. :P
G&R
Thanks for your advice, which we have taken, after some thought we think that the best way forward is to maybe come and watch, see for ourselves what it's actually like, before we take the plunge.
You mentioned 'same room' stuff, which we assumed, was having sex with each other but in the same room as other couples (and not swapping or getting physically involved, at least not at first). This sounds like the way to go first, and something, which we would feel most comfortable with. We both like the idea of watching its cheeky and it turns us on.
So the question is, are there any people out there that enjoy being watched, and wouldn’t mind us getting off on their pleasure?
We are not sure if this is acceptable, so if anyone could reply with their views.
Also, we have had some issues with clubs, after checking the net for reviews, some of the clubs seem a bit too much for a first time. So do people have parties or the like, where we could come along and enjoy the swinging scene with couples without directly joining in, (single guys are not our thing).
Thank you for your comments and hopefully we might get an invite somewhere. :P
G&R
Sex God
Hi
Glad you found my words helpful. Yes, "same room" fun is having sex in the same room as others but with no or little contact with them, and yes, lots of people get off on others watching them! I'm sure you'll get lots of invites if you are either keen on watching or being watched
Take care
Michelle
Glad you found my words helpful. Yes, "same room" fun is having sex in the same room as others but with no or little contact with them, and yes, lots of people get off on others watching them! I'm sure you'll get lots of invites if you are either keen on watching or being watched
Take care
Michelle
Sex God
Hi
Try in the "meeting" section of this forum or in the photo ads section. I don't know anyone off-hand who you could contact, but place an ad and I'm sure you'll have lots of takers!
M
Try in the "meeting" section of this forum or in the photo ads section. I don't know anyone off-hand who you could contact, but place an ad and I'm sure you'll have lots of takers!
M
