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Swinging is dominated by couples True or false?

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I have recently got into swinging and have found that Couples have domination over swing clubs, sites, chat etc..
What do you people think?
Here are some of my thoughts on this matter!!
1. Most men want a mff or mfmf as there fantasy? Very few want mmf??
2. Lots of women are bi so in a couple situation the female tends to want the females and most are in couples!!
3. Most if not all clubs let in single females free??? BUT CHARGE SINGLE MEN £20 to £25
I could go on but I personally think that there should be a strictly SINGLES only SWINGING WEBSITE NOT SINGLES and SWINGING club with even numbers of male to female ratio so that there is more fun for all.
Answers on a post card lol
you could try your idea but as part of a couple that has attended a club, the problem with SOME of the single men is that they are under the impression that since they have paid they are entitled to conduct themself in what every manner the feel fit ith total disregard for everyone else.
Also some women feel more at ease knowing that the man has a woman. So the guy has been vetted so to speak.
Quote by Scottalottie
I have recently got into swinging and have found that Couples have domination over swing clubs, sites, chat etc..
What do you people think?
Here are some of my thoughts on this matter!!
1. Most men want a mff 3some as there fantasy so as a couple they are always going to want either a single female or a couple which includes the single female!!!!
2. Most women are bi so in a couple situation the female with want the female not the single male.
3. Most if not all clubs let in single females free??? BUT CHARGE SINGLE MEN £20 to £25
I could go on but I personally think that there should be a strictly SINGLES only website and club with even numbers of male to female ratio so that there is more fun for all.
Answers on a post card lol

Not this male, I like MMF
When and where lmao!!!
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I have recently got into swinging and have found that Couples have domination over swing clubs, sites, chat etc..
What do you people think?
Here are some of my thoughts on this matter!!
1. Most men want a mff 3some as there fantasy so as a couple they are always going to want either a single female or a couple which includes the single female!!!!
2. Most women are bi so in a couple situation the female with want the female not the single male.
3. Most if not all clubs let in single females free??? BUT CHARGE SINGLE MEN £20 to £25
I could go on but I personally think that there should be a strictly SINGLES only website and club with even numbers of male to female ratio so that there is more fun for all.
Answers on a post card lol

Not this male, I like MMF
Quote by blkuk2000
you could try your idea but as part of a couple that has attended a club, the problem with SOME of the single men is that they are under the impression that since they have paid they are entitled to conduct themself in what every manner the feel fit ith total disregard for everyone else.
Also some women feel more at ease knowing that the man has a woman. So the guy has been vetted so to speak.

I haear your point. SOME of the men are like that but ones like me get the cold shoulder...how is that right??
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When and where lmao!!!
I have recently got into swinging and have found that Couples have domination over swing clubs, sites, chat etc..
What do you people think?
Here are some of my thoughts on this matter!!
1. Most men want a mff 3some as there fantasy so as a couple they are always going to want either a single female or a couple which includes the single female!!!!
2. Most women are bi so in a couple situation the female with want the female not the single male.
3. Most if not all clubs let in single females free??? BUT CHARGE SINGLE MEN £20 to £25
I could go on but I personally think that there should be a strictly SINGLES only website and club with even numbers of male to female ratio so that there is more fun for all.
Answers on a post card lol

Not this male, I like MMF
Every weekend we get a chance really lol
Quote by brucie
I have recently got into swinging and have found that Couples have domination over swing clubs, sites, chat etc..
What do you people think?
Here are some of my thoughts on this matter!!
1. Most men want a mff or mfmf as there fantasy? Very few want mmf??
2. Lots of women are bi so in a couple situation the female tends to want the females and most are in couples!!
3. Most if not all clubs let in single females free??? BUT CHARGE SINGLE MEN ?20 to ?25
I could go on but I personally think that there should be a strictly SINGLES only SWINGING WEBSITE NOT SINGLES and SWINGING club with even numbers of male to female ratio so that there is more fun for all.
Answers on a post card lol

doh. have you looked up teh definition of swinging? that may help you understand that single men arent really swingers, they are just promiscuous.
Swinging is for everyone to have fun and should be re-defined in that case to individuals being promiscous!!
Quote by Freckledbird
False.

Which questions do you think are false and reasons why...false is a lame answer!!!
Quote by Scottalottie
False.

Which questions do you think are false and reasons why...false is a lame answer!!!
lol
Thought it was a good answer actually :lol:
Quote by corrie2010
False.

Which questions do you think are false and reasons why...false is a lame answer!!!
lol
Thought it was a good answer actually :lol:
haha
Singles all the way !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote by Scottalottie
False.

Which questions do you think are false and reasons why...false is a lame answer!!!
False is my answer to your thread title. And it's not lame.
There are singles and there are couples. Some couples won't meet singles. Get over it and look for those who do.
I am not bi I am not bi I am not bi :bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce:
Okay got that off my chest and all that bouncing hurt my well rounded nodules that stick out in front of me!
Quote by Scottalottie
I have recently got into swinging and have found that Couples have domination over swing clubs, sites, chat etc..
What do you people think?
Here are some of my thoughts on this matter!!
1. Most men want a mff or mfmf as there fantasy? Very few want mmf??
I think that's assumption on your part. And what about what the women want?
2. Lots of women are bi so in a couple situation the female tends to want the females and most are in couples!!
Not all women are bi - I'd say there's a fair percentage of straight women. And no, they're not all in couples.
3. Most if not all clubs let in single females free??? BUT CHARGE SINGLE MEN ?20 to ?25
The clubs can charge what they want - if you don't like it, don't use them. I doubt they'll change because of moany single men.

I could go on but I personally think that there should be a strictly SINGLES only SWINGING WEBSITE NOT SINGLES and SWINGING club with even numbers of male to female ratio so that there is more fun for all.
Even if that were to happen, there's never any guarantee that all will have fun - just because the numbers are even doesn't mean there will be someone for everyone. You're assuming that all the women will see a man they fancy and vice versa.
Answers on a post card lol
Haha I have got a right debate going here lmao !!
Quote by Scottalottie
I have recently got into swinging and have found that Couples have domination over swing clubs, sites, chat etc..
What do you people think?
Here are some of my thoughts on this matter!!
1. Most men want a mff or mfmf as there fantasy? Very few want mmf??
2. Lots of women are bi so in a couple situation the female tends to want the females and most are in couples!!
3. Most if not all clubs let in single females free??? BUT CHARGE SINGLE MEN £20 to £25
I could go on but I personally think that there should be a strictly SINGLES only SWINGING WEBSITE NOT SINGLES and SWINGING club with even numbers of male to female ratio so that there is more fun for all.
Answers on a post card lol

1 - Loves a good MMF here, or a MFM or any other combinations of M's & F's!!!
2 - Errrrrrrr Nope
3 - Send me a list of these Clubs - £20-25ffs! Cheapest around here is £50 - £85
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Haha I have got a right debate going here lmao !!

rolleyes:yawn:
Just for the record, we're MMFers too.
I started on SH as a single fem, definitly not bi, still not bi and only met single guys one at a time, so what did that make me?
Now I am part of a couple we don`t swap but we enjoy open air sex, dogging call it what you will, so again what does that make us?
I think swinging is more about the sexual freedom than being single or a couple or whatever.
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Haha I have got a right debate going here lmao !!

Its not a debate hun just everyone telling you how wrong you are
for the record I am bi and when i meet a couple its because i want both of them......at the same time :twisted:
seems to me there are a variety of people on here and in clubs with different needs/wants/preferences, you just have to look for them
my experience of single men in clubs has been on one extreme there are the polite ones who take the time to speak to you and wait for an invitation then theres the ones who just hang around following females or couples waiting to pounce, personally i prefer the first type
and yes its called consumerism, us single females are more of a rarety compared to the amount of single guys, if you dont want to pay that then dont go and if your just looking for singles for fun get ya self down to a nightclub
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Haha I have got a right debate going here lmao !!

well enjoy it as long as you realise you may need a thick skin and I dont mean your foreskin wink
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Haha I have got a right debate going here lmao !!

Its not a debate hun just everyone telling you how wrong you are
for the record I am bi and when i meet a couple its because i want both of them......at the same time :twisted:
seems to me there are a variety of people on here and in clubs with different needs/wants/preferences, you just have to look for them
my experience of single men in clubs has been on one extreme there are the polite ones who take the time to speak to you and wait for an invitation then theres the ones who just hang around following females or couples waiting to pounce, personally i prefer the first type
and yes its called consumerism, us single females are more of a rarety compared to the amount of single guys, if you dont want to pay that then dont go and if your just looking for singles for fun get ya self down to a nightclub
It is a debate and im entitled to my opinion. smile
Touche!!!!
Search results for couples seeking bi females within 10 miles of my post code
= 178
Search results for couples seeking single men within 10 miles of my post code
= 38
Swinging is basically wife swap. SIMPLE.
Single men are a cash cow for clubs to make extra money
Case closed !!!!!
Oh and as far as going to a club to meet women thats what swingers do but in pairs!!
WATCH THIS SPACE FOR SINGLES ONLY SWINGING EVENTS!!!!!
Quote by Gufuncouple
I have recently got into swinging and have found that Couples have domination over swing clubs, sites, chat etc..
What do you people think?
Here are some of my thoughts on this matter!!
1. Most men want a mff or mfmf as there fantasy? Very few want mmf??
2. Lots of women are bi so in a couple situation the female tends to want the females and most are in couples!!
3. Most if not all clubs let in single females free??? BUT CHARGE SINGLE MEN £20 to £25
I could go on but I personally think that there should be a strictly SINGLES only SWINGING WEBSITE NOT SINGLES and SWINGING club with even numbers of male to female ratio so that there is more fun for all.
Answers on a post card lol

1 - Loves a good MMF here, or a MFM or any other combinations of M's & F's!!!
2 - Errrrrrrr Nope
3 - Send me a list of these Clubs - £20-25ffs! Cheapest around here is £50 - £85

EUREKA SINGLE MALES FACT
Quote by Scottalottie
Search results for couples seeking bi females within 10 miles of my post code
= 178
Search results for couples seeking single men within 10 miles of my post code
= 38
Swinging is basically wife swap. SIMPLE.
Single men are a cash cow for clubs to make extra money
Case closed !!!!!
Oh and as far as going to a club to meet women thats what swingers do but in pairs!!
WATCH THIS SPACE FOR SINGLES ONLY SWINGING EVENTS!!!!!

Just because they're your search results, doesn't mean it's the same across the board.
Single men may be a cash cow - deal with it.
And swingers go to clubs to meet other swingers, not always coupled ones.
Oh, and the singles only events will be overpopulated with single males, just so you know. It's been done lol
Countless people have raised the same points as you, countless times. They tend to be single and male confused
Yes, you have got a 'right debate going' here.. because it's a Forum for debating and more to do with that rather than anything to do with you, I'm afraid :-?
The debate has also been 'going' probably lots of times before so if you're feeling special right now then think on.
Taken from your own profile:
"I am very laid back and down to earth. Chat with me and feel at ease. I am not pushy and know when to talk and when to listen."
You seem more agressive and 'in your face' to me than 'laid back'. I'd suggest you take some of your own advice right now and take time to understand some of the history and personalities here before you call responses things like 'lame'. You'll do yourself a lot of favours and maybe then people might feel more 'at ease' wink
To be honest, I wouldn't meet you for a mmf because of your smug bastard/smart arse attitude far and above anything else at all.
MMF here all the way, always and every time - huge market for it, massive, bigger than mff I'd say innocent
Love BIoke x
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MMF here all the way, always and every time - huge market for it, massive, bigger than mff I'd say innocent

Yep... and yep! :rascal: Gotta love being a f! wink
Its an arguable point I suppose. couples certainly rule the roost when it comes to a 2 on 1 situation.
But every event is oversubscribed with single guys, so in sheer numbers singles tend to dominate. This is somewhat apparent at the end of the 'couples only' shift, at any club,as singles arrive and suddenly the couples are knocked off their perch.
Thanks for the wonderful feedback
The truth is I have a lot of support outside Swinging Heaven on my belief.
As for Bi whatever your name is do you find it appropriate to swear and be offensive ?
I will do a national search and I am 99.9% sure it will be mostly male female seeking couples with bi female or single bi fem!!
It seems none of you like to be challenged on such matters. I tell it how I see it and I don't swear at people and direct insults.
I think you will find the reason that single men debate this topic is because Couples can be rude and offensive, which this has proven as most of the comments are from couples.
I will start my own singles only site and will also be ending this debate as people are becoming offensive and rude.
There is no right or wrong just opinions...MINE HAS BEEN HEARD!!
Good bye Swinging heaven..what a waste of Membership!!!
smile
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Thanks for the wonderful feedback
The truth is I have a lot of support outside Swinging Heaven on my belief.
As for Bi whatever your name is do you find it appropriate to swear and be offensive ?
I will do a national search and I am 99.9% sure it will be mostly male female seeking couples with bi female or single bi fem!!
It seems none of you like to be challenged on such matters. I tell it how I see it and I don't swear at people and direct insults.
I think you will find the reason that single men debate this topic is because Couples can be rude and offensive, which this has proven as most of the comments are from couples.
I will start my own singles only site and will also be ending this debate as people are becoming offensive and rude.
There is no right or wrong just opinions...MINE HAS BEEN HEARD!!
Good bye Swinging heaven..what a waste of Membership!!!
smile

Like someone said, you'll be needing a thicker skin! If you're offended just by that, after the nature of your comments, good luck building your own site.
wave byeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :)