Quote by duncanlondon
You will know who is having sex within your own swinging group, that is why you have the group. You would be wary of a complete stranger who had no connections within the group, right?
Quote by MQ
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.... but just in case I did read that right I may be some time writing a list :shock: Quote by Rainbows
Seems like a pointless debate to me, and already seems to have gotten backs up.
Quote by duncanlondon
You will know who is having sex within your own swinging group, that is why you have the group. You would be wary of a complete stranger who had no connections within the group, right?
(Unless you go to one of "those" parties in which case there are piccys, discussions etc. etc. but that is a different matter. 
)Quote by bluexxx
:shock:
Errrrrrr, I'm sooooo lost with this debate........ so.... you can't be a swinger unless you know the names of all the people you've shagged?
No, surely that's not right..... off to go and read back up the thread
Quote by duncanlondon
Until you 'know' the new partner you will be doing casual.
The definition is simpler than you think.
:? :? 
:smoke: TSNB Quote by duncanlondon
Its not about having a list of the people you had sex with.
Its knowing who they were with before you have sex with them. Knowing that there is a sequence of partners who are as clean and safe as you.
That is why you have a group of knowing and consenting adults. Otherwise you let in someone who presents a risk.
Quote by duncanlondon
Its not about having a list of the people you had sex with.
Its knowing who they were with before you have sex with them. Knowing that there is a sequence of partners who are as clean and safe as you.
That is why you have a group of knowing and consenting adults. Otherwise you let in someone who presents a risk.
Quote by rogerthedragon
Its not about having a list of the people you had sex with.
Its knowing who they were with before you have sex with them. Knowing that there is a sequence of partners who are as clean and safe as you.
That is why you have a group of knowing and consenting adults. Otherwise you let in someone who presents a risk.
Quote by duncanlondon
The point is that when you know about the sequence of activity of a partner you are swinging. If you don't know who they last had sex with, you go back to doing casual.
Its quite simple.
Quote by duncanlondon
The point is that when you know about the sequence of activity of a partner you are swinging. If you don't know who they last had sex with, you go back to doing casual.
Its quite simple.
Quote by duncanlondon
The point is that when you know about the sequence of activity of a partner you are swinging. If you don't know who they last had sex with, you go back to doing casual.
Its quite simple.
Quote by dundeecpl
The point is that when you know about the sequence of activity of a partner you are swinging. If you don't know who they last had sex with, you go back to doing casual.
Its quite simple.
I'll look forward to it! :twisted: Quote by KitKat
One person ONE PERSON - gave their own interpretation of what the term swinger means, - knowing about each others previous partners - an interpretation which they are quite entitled to and did not in any way ask anyone else to ascribe to- and suddenly, everyone who disagrees with this one statement starts an hysterical assasination of the thread because of this.
Quote by duncanlondon
Its not about having a list of the people you had sex with.
Its knowing who they were with before you have sex with them. Knowing that there is a sequence of partners who are as clean and safe as you.
That is why you have a group of knowing and consenting adults. Otherwise you let in someone who presents a risk.
Quote by bluexxx
Its not about having a list of the people you had sex with.
Its knowing who they were with before you have sex with them. Knowing that there is a sequence of partners who are as clean and safe as you.
That is why you have a group of knowing and consenting adults. Otherwise you let in someone who presents a risk.
Quote by duncanlondon
Its what I think makes the difference in the definition of the two words. And that is all I have talked about.
Quote by dundeecpl
lol, you forgot someone!!!!! that means that he was just a casual fuck and makes you aq casual fucker :twisted:
. First thing Monday morning that secretary of mine is SACKED for not keeping proper records 
Quote by PoloLady
The seemingly pointless need to label, categorise, define and even stereotype all relate back to a combination of our sociological and psychological need to create our self-identity and the need for sense of belonging or ‘community’ with others (whether consciously or subconsciously). I would happily explain this statement in more detail, along with referenced writings on the subject – but I would rather find-out where the sex is at and get shagged!
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