I was just curious as to whether or not friends and family know you swing? and if so what are their thoughts?..
Also If you have not let anyone in on it then why not?
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I've got so used to talking about swinging that it does tend to come out in conversation as tho it was the most normal thing in the world... I was asked where I had been on sat as I'm normally down the local... I said I'd been to a swingers munch before I'd even thought about wether I should say that or not, lol.
Raised a few eyebrows I can tell you, lol.
I think the only person that doesnt officially know that I'm on the swingers scene is my mum... but she's probably got a damn good idea... she knows about the BDSM side of things cos she asked me what BDSM stood for, lol
Raised a few eyebrows I can tell you, lol.
I think the only person that doesnt officially know that I'm on the swingers scene is my mum... but she's probably got a damn good idea... she knows about the BDSM side of things cos she asked me what BDSM stood for, lol
Quote by MQ
I tell very few people. Some of my online friends know about it and my brother and sister know but friends, no. They can be rather judgemental and panicky about anything they don't understand so it's easier for them not to know. It would be fun to see their faces though if I did tell them
Your right about the judgemental bit,it likes because you swing your after sex with anyone....like would a female friend trust you alone with her husband as an example.
Sex God
magik did it a few days ago, but here it is again . . . ..
i have no probs with the whole idea! but then i'm a single bloke and noone to hurt with it! ;)
not about to tell me mam, though she sometimes wonders exactly what these weekends away are all about!
and sometimes i'm tempted. she wouldn't understand i'm sure.
i've always been the local poof ((( apologies for the word, that's just how it is! ;) ))) so i really couldn't give a flying one!
i'm finally past all that! took a while, but call me what you will, my names neil, deal with it! if not! like i really care!
neil x x x ;')
Quote by neil
my sis has always known i'm on here, mainly cos a girl i was seeing a while back felt the need to tell every single person in the entire world that i was shock, horror, going on swinging sites. so naturally she asks about munches and parties and stuff. ((( oh and she's a closet bifem, but shush noone's meant to know, least of all me! )))
so, blues party. think she kinda sussed it was that kinda party i went to cos of the huge cheshire cat grin i had on me face for about 4 days after, so naturally she asks what went on.
now i was daft enough to mention that i might just have seen some piccies from blues party. her eye's went like saucers!
oooooooo can i see? says she?
erm . . . says i!
no let me? i wanna see what they're like! says she!
erm . . . ooookkkkkkkkaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy!
<<<< hurriedly pulls off 3 piccies he dare actually show her . . . >>>
quite intrigued she was! can't think why?
n x x x
i have no probs with the whole idea! but then i'm a single bloke and noone to hurt with it! ;)
not about to tell me mam, though she sometimes wonders exactly what these weekends away are all about!
and sometimes i'm tempted. she wouldn't understand i'm sure.i've always been the local poof ((( apologies for the word, that's just how it is! ;) ))) so i really couldn't give a flying one!
i'm finally past all that! took a while, but call me what you will, my names neil, deal with it! if not! like i really care!
neil x x x ;')
Sex God
Quote by neilinleeds
magik did it a few days ago, but here it is again . . . ..
my sis has always known i'm on here, mainly cos a girl i was seeing a while back felt the need to tell every single person in the entire world that i was shock, horror, going on swinging sites. so naturally she asks about munches and parties and stuff. ((( oh and she's a closet bifem, but shush noone's meant to know, least of all me! )))
so, blues party. think she kinda sussed it was that kinda party i went to cos of the huge cheshire cat grin i had on me face for about 4 days after, so naturally she asks what went on.
now i was daft enough to mention that i might just have seen some piccies from blues party. her eye's went like saucers!
oooooooo can i see? says she?
erm . . . says i!
no let me? i wanna see what they're like! says she!
erm . . . ooookkkkkkkkaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy!
<<<< hurriedly pulls off 3 piccies he dare actually show her . . . >>>
quite intrigued she was! can't think why?
n x x x
i have no probs with the whole idea! but then i'm a single bloke and noone to hurt with it! ;)
not about to tell me mam, though she sometimes wonders exactly what these weekends away are all about!
and sometimes i'm tempted. she wouldn't understand i'm sure.i've always been the local poof ((( apologies for the word, that's just how it is! ;) ))) so i really couldn't give a flying one!
i'm finally past all that! took a while, but call me what you will, my names neil, deal with it! if not! like i really care!
neil x x x ;')
Bloody excellent post neil, go on my son
Gill x
My family ......... no but if they knew they eventually see the fun .....
his family ..... hell no, never, never ever .....
Friends ........... a fair few know ;)
Work colleagues ... landed myself in it once so a couple do know
Uni mates ............ queueing up for invites to clubs :shock:
Those who understand know, those who don't understand never will so no ....
Calista xx
his family ..... hell no, never, never ever .....
Friends ........... a fair few know ;)
Work colleagues ... landed myself in it once so a couple do know
Uni mates ............ queueing up for invites to clubs :shock:
Those who understand know, those who don't understand never will so no ....
Calista xx
Sex God
Quote by the_magik_s
I was just curious as to whether or not friends and family know you swing? and if so what are their thoughts?..
Also If you have not let anyone in on it then why not?
My mum wouldn't bat an eyelid, my sisters would be amused, and my dad wouldn't know wtf I was on about.
My brother on the other hand would jump up on his soapbox, declare me the servant of Satan, bar me from seeing my nieces unsupervised if at all, lock his missus in the cupboard whenever I went round there, lecture me family values, self-respect, and the "trouble with society today..." blah blah blah.
Ironically, Mister Morality is the only member of the family who has ever been in prison.
