Swinging while pregnant...??

11 Sep 2009

Due to the fact that I am currently pregnant we have decided to take a break from playing.
Personally, if we were both comfortable with it I would still 'play' but since Mr M isn't comfortable with that situation it's not going to happen. (Just to make it clear I am not talking about arranging a gangbang when I'm ready to pop or anything too extreme!!)
I feel that just because I am pregnant it doesn't mean I have to stop being me.. I still have the same feelings/needs (more in fact!!!!!!!! :twisted: lol)
How do people feel about women swinging while pregnant??

11 Sep 2009

Ive chosen not to play while pregnant, and thats just purely a personal thing....i guess its down to the preferences of both partners in the relationship....there are plenty of guys who would love to shag a pregnant woman, but I dont think its appropriate if one of the couple has a prob
......I think thats inviting trouble into a relationship at an already stressful time...but again thats just my two pennorth

11 Sep 2009

This is only something that you and M can decide for yourselves and you must be 100% sure that you both feel very comfortable if you do decide to swing. Obviously you will need to think about your health and that of your baby, but you have already taken that into account wink

A pregnant women is extreamly beautifull and many people find them very, very sexy. Your hormones will no doubt be rampantly doing somersaults all round your body and you could also be feeling very sexy (well, if the morning sickness etc has not stopped you feeling that way) :wink: But pregnancy is also a very special time for you and your partner, and in my view, I dont think it is necessarily a time that I would want someone else invading. Just my view for what its worth :wink:
Only you can decide if it feels right for you both, and if you do take a break, swinging will still be ther when the pregnancy is over, but the pregnancy will only last for a limited time so enjoy it while you can.
Good luck with it biggrin

11 Sep 2009

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
This is only something that you and M can decide for yourselves and you must be 100% sure that you both feel very comfortable if you do decide to swing. Obviously you will need to think about your health and that of your baby, but you have already taken that into account
A pregnant women is extreamly beautifull and many people find them very, very sexy. Your hormones will no doubt be rampantly doing somersaults all round your body and you could also be feeling very sexy (well, if the morning sickness etc has not stopped you feeling that way) :wink: But pregnancy is also a very special time for you and your partner, and in my view, I dont think it is necessarily a time that I would want someone else invading. Just my view for what its worth :wink:
Only you can decide if it feels right for you both, and if you do take a break, swinging will still be ther when the pregnancy is over, but the pregnancy will only last for a limited time so enjoy it while you can.
Good luck with it

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11 Sep 2009

Yep.. mine and the baby's health is obviously number one priority here.
Like I said, as he is not comfortable with it the decision has already been made that we will not play. I am not looking to change his mind/convince him otherwise. Maybe my own personal opinion on it will change when I actually feel more pregnant dunno

ie bump etc.
Just thought it would be an interesting subject to find out other peoples opinions on.

11 Sep 2009

Quote by Thebonediggers
This is only something that you and M can decide for yourselves and you must be 100% sure that you both feel very comfortable if you do decide to swing. Obviously you will need to think about your health and that of your baby, but you have already taken that into account
A pregnant women is extreamly beautifull and many people find them very, very sexy. Your hormones will no doubt be rampantly doing somersaults all round your body and you could also be feeling very sexy (well, if the morning sickness etc has not stopped you feeling that way) :wink: But pregnancy is also a very special time for you and your partner, and in my view, I dont think it is necessarily a time that I would want someone else invading. Just my view for what its worth :wink:
Only you can decide if it feels right for you both, and if you do take a break, swinging will still be ther when the pregnancy is over, but the pregnancy will only last for a limited time so enjoy it while you can.
Good luck with it

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Ditto Mrs Bone :thumbup: NWC Sometimes dont you just wanna hug her!
Other times just wanna flip her over and f*** ermmmm ermmm innocent

11 Sep 2009

Quote by Thebonediggers
This is only something that you and M can decide for yourselves and you must be 100% sure that you both feel very comfortable if you do decide to swing. Obviously you will need to think about your health and that of your baby, but you have already taken that into account
A pregnant women is extreamly beautifull and many people find them very, very sexy. Your hormones will no doubt be rampantly doing somersaults all round your body and you could also be feeling very sexy (well, if the morning sickness etc has not stopped you feeling that way) :wink: But pregnancy is also a very special time for you and your partner, and in my view, I dont think it is necessarily a time that I would want someone else invading. Just my view for what its worth :wink:
Only you can decide if it feels right for you both, and if you do take a break, swinging will still be ther when the pregnancy is over, but the pregnancy will only last for a limited time so enjoy it while you can.
Good luck with it

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NWC, you've summed it nicely :thumbup:
In the meantime enjoy your pregnacy Mandm. I enjoyed both of ours. They were a wonderful experiences.

11 Sep 2009

I think pregnant women look wonderful, and oh so sexy but.....I would never play with a pregnant woman.
It would just not sit comfortably with me. Yes if it was my wife and it has been, I was as randy as a dog, but to play with another woman through the swinging scene who was pregnant? Sorry a big no no from me, and think you have made the right decision not to play whilst pregnant.

12 Sep 2009

Quote by Lost

Ditto Mrs Bone :thumbup: NWC Sometimes dont you just wanna hug her!
Other times just wanna flip her over and f*** ermmmm ermmm

Hey you, Im blushing here. I just copied and pasted that so I could read the little writing redface

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12 Sep 2009

I gave up swinging whilst pregnant, it didn't feel "right" for me, it may be right for other ladies, free choice. I did get a few strange messages from random men when they had seen me discussing it in the chatroom, pregnant women are definately a major turn on for some men!
My baby is now 10 weeks old and I still haven't started swinging again! For one, as a single mum the safety of my child is paramount so I will not invite a man into my home that I don't know (those that I do know wink

), secondly I am fricking knackered biggrin

So its been about 9months now without a shag :shock: evil

Pregnancy is precious, new babies are precious and I plan to enjoy every moment.

15 Sep 2009

Oh God, all this pregnancy talk is making me broody lol

I don't think I could swing while pregnant, I'd be scared to even have sex I think cos I've been told I have a low cervix...I don't know what that means in terms of pregnancy, but I'd be scared if my waters broke and got mistaken for squirting :lol2:
But no, not for me.
But enjoy the rest of ur pregnancy tho!! kiss

15 Sep 2009

Quote by mrs-cream123
but I'd be scared if my waters broke and got mistaken for squirting :lol2:
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least it wad put the fire oot when ya set fire to the pillow lol

15 Sep 2009

Quote by northeastcoupleuk
but I'd be scared if my waters broke and got mistaken for squirting :lol2:
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least it wad put the fire oot when ya set fire to the pillow lol

:lol2: xxx

17 Sep 2009

I would think swinging before you are pregnant would be a problem. You would be wondering whos baby it is (Eastenders style story line biggrin

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17 Sep 2009

Quote by sallyhobbit
I would think swinging before you are pregnant would be a problem. You would be wondering whos baby it is (Eastenders style story line )

Maybe if I was irresponsible enough to swing with strangers without using condoms... rolleyes

in which case I think pregnancy would be the least of my worries!!

17 Sep 2009

Last night there was a room called I think....nine months pregnant.
Out of curiousity of course I had a gander, and sure enough there was a woman on cam very heavily pregnant.
I was quite gobsmacked to see exactly what the room title was on cam but....I did not feel comfortable watching so turned the cam off and left the room.
Horses for courses I suppose but after seeing that last night I def think it is not for me, either participating or watching a very heavily pregnant woman on a swingers site. Sorry but my opinion.

17 Sep 2009

I am sorry if I offend anybody, but I personally find the whole thing of wanting to play while pregnant bizzare. To me being pregnant is a very special time and one I would only ever want to share with my partner as a creation by the two of you has been made, and we should nuture those times.
Sex can happen anytime and wanting to play with another or others I can not get my head around.
Playing should be a bit of added fun, what we as a couple have together is far more important to me.

19 Sep 2009

Well like you say horses for courses, I'm only of those guys who like the look of a pregnant woman and not just in a glowing way.
When my wife was pregnant we took some pics did a little caming but to be honest we were not really swinging loads to begin with so no we did not go swinging whilst she was pregnant.
However 2nd trimester her libido increased massively so I could have used a had.
I know men would be no issue but as my wife is more of a ladies gal, I'm not sure if 1 women find other pregnant women fuckable or if women get the same kick out of the naughtiness of it?

19 Sep 2009

just to say congrats to mandm on the pregnancy, i am also pregnant, and have also decided to stop swinging! im not sure if we ever will now get back into it, but i guess only time will tell. I just feel that my body is going to be going through alot as it is with being pregnant, and although i dont wanna give up sex completely, i just dont feel confortable playing at this what to me is a valueable time in my life